How To Pick Up Women

Picking up women is a skill that evades the majority of the male population. To learn the art of picking up women can take some several years of endurance and rejection whereas some guys can pick it up within a month. At the most, not more than 2% of men have the knack for picking up women and having sex with them while the rest keep fumbling around and waiting for chances.

The harsh reality? Fools mate rarely happens unless she’s an ugly wench and you’re both VERY drunk. If you would like to learn how to pick up women keep reading.

However, thankfully for people who are not born with the skills to pick up women, all is not lost because picking up women is a skill that can easily be learnt and required with a little practice and patience.

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Picking up women can be learnt just like any other skill and can easily be likened to learning how to drive a car or succeed at algebra when it comes to it. In order to succeed, all you need is determination, hard work and a will to succeed and you can be the next Casanova on the block. Seduction courses are a worldwide event now and it’s now even easier to learn the art of seduction.

Women value emotional closeness and compatibility more than physical proximity, so in order to get close to a woman and pick her up, you should first try to stir her emotions. Try to engage in conversations that unlock her feelings and emotions. These are not conversations that you indulge in with your co workers or your acquaintances. They have to be deeper and more meaningful than that.

Make her talk about her family, friends and about herself. Ask her what she is passionate about and slowly but surely she will start feeling an emotional connection with you because of sharing her deepest feelings and emotions with you. This is the first step to picking up women. Remember to identify with her and try to understand her, but do not begin with a me-too attitude and start talking about yourself when she is discussing her own life with you. Be a good listener.

This is a very good tip when it comes to picking up women: LISTEN.

While this will definitely get you close to any woman, she might take you only as a good friend who understands her and nothing more. The above will allow you to make an amazing connection with the girl, but unless you introduce a sexual element, she might still consider you as someone she likes to talk to and be friends with so the above alone will not allow you to become more adept at knowing how to pick up women. In order to make her feel for you like a woman does for a man, you have to ensure that she sees you as a man and not just as an asexual chat partner.

Try to infuse a sexual element into your relationship by doing things that you do not generally do with friends. Hold her eye when you are talking to her, change your tone of voice, touch her seductively—basically do everything you can to show her that you want her sexually without being blatant with her. The direct approach is a caveman tactic that scares the modern woman off. But creating sexual tension slowly as you spend more time with a woman will easily let you express your desire in a sophisticated manner that will yield much better and more satisfactory results.

Picking up women is easier than you think. I’m glad you enjoyed this article.

Your friend,

Alex