How to attract a woman

To learn how to effectively attract a woman you have to exude an attractive personality, carry yourself confidently and change your body language and only then you’ll know the essence of attracting women. Therefore, before approaching a woman and attracting her you must make sure that you have a positive attitude, open and friendly body language and a smile. It’s a good idea before attracting a woman to get her attention (yes even before you approach her with words), you must be able to attract the eyes of the woman towards yourself. Eye contact is imperative when it comes to attracting a woman into your life. Have a positive approach and body language, keep the conversation light and friendly and remember to tease her playfully, this is where most guys ruin the success in attracting a woman, it’s when they forget to tease her and be cocky and funny.

Often we see men at a bar standing in military fashion with beer bottles clutched at their chest, leering at women. It’s like they think these small glasses are going to protect them from any rejection they may get. Women can sense these types of rogues from miles around and prefer to stay well away from them. 

Remember the first step to attracting a woman is to Approach! The second point is to STAY THERE …

Don’t excuse yourself within the first few minutes like most guys, stay there as long as you can.

If you want to start conversation at any gathering, try to have as much fun as they are having. This is called energy matching. If you enter a party and everybody is dancing and being wild then you’ll stand out in a bad way if you stood in the corner reading a book, try to match the gatherings energy level as this’ll make attracting women easier. The aim of the gathering is to be perceived as friendly, safe and nice. In a way you’re competing against all the other males there too. Always try to look happy when among women and have higher levels of energy than other men around you. This will surely attract the attention of women around you and they will feel positive influence while talking to you.

Another rule to knowing how to attract a woman is by mixing with the environment you are in. For example suppose you are at a bar, try to talk with the bar staff, have fun with your friends and present yourself as a socialable guy. Girls love such guys and feel comfortable to communicate with a person who can communicate freely with every kind of people.

You must make yourself presentable if you want to approach a girl at any party or at any social gathering. This obviously doesn’t mean that you have to wear expensive designer clothes and spend high to impress the opposite sex. Instead, carry yourself well and feel comfortable in whatever you wear. Wear such clothes so that you are comment worthy. However, always avoid outlandish clothes. You also do not have to be completely different from all others present at the gathering. Make a signature style of yourself. Remember that the most important things within the affordability are the shoes and the jacket.

Remember that women notice small details in men, therefore make sure to cut your nails, wash your hair, iron your shirt, trim your nose hair etc. these little things can really put off a woman.

You can also change your style, according to the different style icons and modify your style to a new individuality. Exhibit an alpha, sexual vibe towards women.

I hope you enjoyed this article on attracting women.

I’ll speak to you soon,

Your friend,

Alex