How do I start a conversation with attractive women?

What are your favorite conversation starters with women?

Have you faced a problem or do you feel anxiety when it comes to starting conversations with women?

Have you ever seen an attractive woman during the day and hesitated knowing you should approach but didn’t have a conversation starter prepared … It’s something physical, which stops you from doing that. It’s your nerves. However having a conversation starter or opinion opener ready locked and loaded will assist greatly when it comes to approaching women in the street during the day.

I know very well how you feel, and that it is very frustrating to feel this when you see a woman you will like to approach. So this is why having a prepared conversation starter is GOLD…

This is what use to happen to me so many times, that I have come across an attractive girl. But I don’t know why, something paralyzed me from inside and I couldn’t didn’t know what is was, I just couldn’t explain it …

Was it that I was afraid of people listening in on what I was saying, or was it I was afraid of being rejected publicly.

Keep reading as I’m about to reveal some simple conversation starting secrets, there are some foundations for starting conversations with women, following which; conversation starters can very well be used to converse with any woman, anywhere at anytime. If you believe you cant start a conversation with her then you’re stopping yourself from success and it’s all in your head…

So clear your head …

Captivate Her with Your Presence

Relax and lean back. It has been discovered, when you take a relaxed position, even when you are feeling that you are nervous, you will slowly feel more relaxed than earlier. Next time you find yourself in an interaction, always remember to lean back and just try to make yourself relaxed and comfortable. Leaning back means, taking up some space, and it helps to have a wall nearby to rest against. You can also do whatever you want to feel even more comfortable. For example, when I called up an attractive girl for the first time (some 5 years ago) , I laid down flat on the floor and starting taking deep breaths. I don’t know why, but it helped me to get relaxed more.

Try different breathing techniques, as this will help you feel more relaxed around attractive women.  

Take baby steps

There is a proverb, “Rome was not built in a day”. It means that nothing can be done or built overnight. You must follow the rule that slow and steady progress will win the race every time. For that reason, you cannot expect to become a Casanova tomorrow. It works better if you gradually experiment with conversation starters. You will find you can build yourself up very quickly to the place where you want to be by having solid goals written down. If you plan to approach a certain amount of women during the week then aim at reaching this goal, then reward yourself for it. You will find that this method will force you to approach women at anytime, anywhere.

The four days challenge

Location: Firstly, you must visit your nearest mall or a busy place with some of your friends.

Duration: You must at least spend 30 minutes each day, in order to make your presence felt by others.

Day 1: Make eye contact with attractive women you find there. Initially they may look away. But don’t forget to smile whenever you look at women.

Day 2: Again go for 30 minutes and ask any women, you come across, for the time, and then ask her to recommend a good clothing shop. If you feel like warming up then head over to your nearest clothing store and start a conversation with them, even start making friends with these girls, they work in the store and will also be friendly, this will put you in a good mood for approaching random women in the street.

Day 3: Again go to the malls for at least 30 minutes, and then again ask any attractive women about the time. Ask her opinion on something like fashion and after they answer, thank them politely, and walk away smartly.  

Day 4: Same as above, visit the mall for 30 minutes. Then you must ask at least 10 women regarding the directions to the movie theatre, bathroom, or any restaurant of your own choice. Afterwards, thanks them and leave.

With these simple approaches under your belt and the prepared conversation starters that I’ve given you should be able in no time handle your fear of approaching women and even create your own conversational starters.