How To Meet Women At The Beach Without Fear or Being Sleazy

August 3, 2010

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More Quick Tips On Beach Approaches:

* Keep it low key and don’t try to be too high energy

* Be more conversational and ask questions that promote conversation i.e don’t ask questions that can be answered with a “yes” or “no”

* Dress to suit the environment i.e wear thongs, t-shirt and shorts… this will make people feel more comfortable, if you wear a suit they may think you’re trying to sell them something… not good as it creates instant resistance as soon as you open your mouth

* DON’T wear sunnies when talking to people.it’s rude and makes people uneasy…

* Eye contact (I know you know this already right??)

* Say “People at the beach are relaxed and so laid back I noticed” as this will set a frame for her/the group to follow

* Aim your body language always on an angle away from her/the group

* Always be closing, you could even suggest a coffee date then and there “Hey, I’m just about to grab a quick coffee over the road…would you like to join me” if she says no … “That’s cool, well I think it’ll be fun if we caught up sometime here enter your digits I’ll sms you”

I’ll speak to you soon!

In your corner
Alex

Comments

12 Comments on How To Meet Women At The Beach Without Fear or Being Sleazy

  1. Alex on Tue, 3rd Aug 2010 8:57 pm
  2. Enjoy the video and give it a try next time you’re down the beach. To your success as always!
    Alex

  3. Mike on Tue, 3rd Aug 2010 11:41 pm
  4. Thing is even if they are not interested people generally won’t be rude and that works to your advantage. Especially on the beach, it is very unlikely you will catch them in a bad mood. I agree though, the hardest thing here would be to continue the conversation, but that’s what practice is all about

  5. Jonathan on Wed, 4th Aug 2010 1:37 am
  6. Good one! Will use when I’m on the beach, regarding the above comment, that wouldn’t happen if you said it the right way, your not actually accusing them of being a potential thief, your teasing them, theres a difference.

  7. Fat-Albert on Wed, 4th Aug 2010 2:39 am
  8. Hey guys,
    Alex, another brilliant video mate = I will definately be giving it a go. Its interesting to note that Mystery Method uses a technique like this – giving the target girl his hat or something that: a) locks her in; b) tests comliance by giving her a task.

    BTW, I’ve used the spray-tan opener (you outlined in Japan for us) as a quick/default/back-up opener when I was in England recently. It was really cool.

    All the best,

  9. Tesla on Wed, 4th Aug 2010 3:12 am
  10. Hi Alex,
    thanx for your tips.
    I was at the beach last weekend,
    and this idea would be very useful for me there.
    I will try to use it next time.

  11. Glenn on Wed, 4th Aug 2010 8:20 am
  12. It’s funny cause I discovered this like a week or two ago and it works really well. You have to leave your backpack with someone anyway so just drop it off by some nice girls. I continued the conversation by asking them about a good place to have some diner after and then just continue with something like “you seem good friends… how do you guys now each other”. Eventually we had dinner with them that night. Great tip of you Alex !!! It realy is verry effective.

  13. Max on Wed, 4th Aug 2010 2:41 pm
  14. Hey Alex,
    This videos is what I’ve been looking for. I wish it could have came sooner, but hey, it’s very good. I like what your friend did at the beach, trusting them with his stuff, first of all, and second, not using, what you said, a time constraint.
    Hey, if you’re friend has anymore tips on beach pick-up, can you please post them on here, I would gladly appreciate it. Thanks for the videos and newslaters, keep them coming brah.
    -Max, AZ

  15. 60 Dating on Mon, 9th Aug 2010 8:51 am
  16. He Alex,
    thanks for your easy tricks. Eye contact makes you more confident.

  17. Jesse on Mon, 23rd Aug 2010 1:02 am
  18. Haha reminds me of this time I got this gorgeous brunette to call me (We went on a date) after I left her my number in the sand just as she was walking by… That was back when I was 17.

  19. Steve on Tue, 7th Sep 2010 7:45 pm
  20. Damn why didn’t I watch this before. I was just on a holiday for few weeks and hit the beach every day! Awesome vid Alex!

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