What To Do If She Has a Boyfriend – Boyfriend Destroyers

April 30, 2009 by · 2 Comments
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410Attractive women are rare and when you stumble over them the chances are they’ll probably have a boyfriend and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?

But never fear as the following tips are to be used on women who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to assist you to get past the “boyfriend” excuse, I say the word excuse as the ironic notion is even if a woman LIKES you and she’s JUST met you, she’ll still say “I have a boyfriend” if you convey your interest too early on or go in for the close within the first few minutes.

Attractive women wander around in “auto-pilot” mode most of the time. When guys approach and convey interest too early without demonstrating their qualities then the girl has no reason to “be single” she’ll say she has a boyfriend even though she may not, so the key here is to convey as much about you as possible in the first few minutes.

In personal experience I’ll have to say every 3/10 girls who say I have a boyfriend will actually have one. So what do you say when she says, “I have a boyfriend”?
442You: Cool … I have a dog

Or

You: Nice, I’m glad you have somebody to be around when you’re not around me.

Or

You: Well … nobody’s perfect.

The key to getting past the boyfriend excuse is to be un-reactive; if you flinch in the slightest or have a slight tremor or muscle movement then she’ll know she has you.

So don’t let the boyfriend excuse affect you. Stay there and persist as remember only a third of all women who say it actually mean it. My belief is that all women need to feel they are being pursued in one way or another, this demonstrates to them whether you really want her and are willing to push past obstacles to get her and if you do you get some pink taco for dinner : )

One girl has actually said to me that she throws the boyfriend excuse out there to “test” a mans quality, if he stays with me and persists he’s a real man as he likes challenges and has “survival” qualities. She also said that she gets disappointed when guys walk away after she says she has a boyfriend, especially if she genuinely liked the guy.

The moral? Quick boyfriend – breaker tactics:

*Stay there and persist
*Be un-reactive
*Keep escalating physically and assume she didn’t say it
*“I have a dog”

Talk soon my friend,
Alex Coulson

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4 Steps To Picking Up Girls – Are You Game Enough To Play?

April 30, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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Knowing how to pick up girls is fairly simple. You have a few areas to cover, and when you make yourself proficient at them, you’ll have no problems at all. At least that’s what you keep reading and telling yourself. Now if you could just convince yourself of that you’d be in business.

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C’mon, man! Don’t beat on yourself for a few rejections, or for being somewhat intimidated. Every guy goes through this. There really ARE just a few things to remember. Here’s the quick and easy list:

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  • Be choosy. Stop for a moment and look around. Do you really want to meet someone tonight, at this place? If you do, then decide who interests YOU. Don’t stop at one, select several that look interesting. If you can’t find at least three interesting girls, then it may not be worth your time and effort. You have the control of where, when, who, and how.

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  • Start a conversation, don’t throw out a pick-up line. Nobody likes to feel like they’re the flavor of the moment. Coming off with a cheesy pick-up line is disingenuous, unflattering, and rude.

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  • Smile and maintain eye contact. Being friendly and open is always very appealing to a girl. Smiling and looking into a girls eyes is a huge deal for her.

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  • Enjoy yourself. When you enjoy yourself, it comes through as a positive trait in you. No one wants to be around a person who’s not having any fun.

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Now, try this the next time you go out and want to meet a girl. Pick out who you want to meet. Go up to her, smile, and say something like, “Hi. My name is —. I noticed you across the room and decided I’d like to meet you. Would you mind a little light conversation?”.

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Chances are that she’ll start talking with you. This way of starting a relationship is very effective and very potent. If, however, she says she does mind, then smile, excuse yourself and leave. Your dignity will be intact. Her wishes will be met.

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Try this method out. You’ll be happily surprised at your results.

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3 Quick Tips For Overcoming Anxiety With Approaching Women During The Daytime

April 29, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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116“I’m Still Afraid Of Approaching Women During The Daytime”

Does this sound like you?

You’re not alone here as daytime approaching can be the hardest yet most rewarding skill you can master with a bit persistence and practice.

And that’s the beauty of it! I’m not pulling your chain here you can master this and once you do imagine the freedom of choice you have to approach women anytime whether night or day, anywhere and have the courage to take it somewhere further like on a instant date, or maybe just get a phone number it’s entirely up to you.

So the first step is to head to a busy shopping mall or daytime tourist spot to practice. This is key as there’s no point heading out to an abandoned or half empty public place if there’s no one to practice on is there?

If you do this then you could be unconsciously making excuses not to approach and thereby making it harder for yourself. There’s no advantage here I can tell you now as I used to do the same. This makes approaching women during the daytime so much harder and it puts the undue pressure on you to approach people but there are none! So you end up beating yourself up.

So make sure you’re in a busy public area with plenty of attractive women around. Now you’re ready to make some history let’s work on your conversation starter. I like to use an opinion opener during the daytime to stop women but not any ordinary opinion opener as sometimes it can be un-calibrated to ask a random opinion in a public place, so it helps if the opinion opener is situational i.e. something to do with shopping or something she’s wearing. Make sure your opinion opener is tested and works.

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Lastly don’t have an objective when you’re practicing this and just starting to learn day game and approaching women during the daytime. Because if you were to have an agenda she will realize it and you may discover her asking you questions like “Why are you asking me this?” etc or even worse she may think you’re trying to sell her something. Focus on chatting and having a genuine conversation as opposed to the former.

So In summary for approaching women during the daytime and overcoming your fear you need to follow these three simple steps:

1. Find a public place where there are plenty of attractive women around to practice on (this is the most important step!)
2. Have a solid conversation starter ready to say. Always have this ready and prepared (this is the second most important step to day game!)
3. Focus on having a normal conversation and NOT having an agenda.

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