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David Deangelo Double Your Dating

Alex — Fri, 15 May 2009 01:32:23 +0000

This article is about David Deangelo otherwise known as Eben Pagen who now runs the business Double Your Dating.

David Deangelo started business around ten years ago by authoring one of the first real dating eBooks “doubly your dating”, this book becoming successful he went on to develop and write many more dating relating books relating to using cocky and funny lines, banter lines, starting conversations with beautiful women and more.

David runs seminars every few years around the world and teaches hundreds of thousands of men how to be cocky funny and create attraction. David states that attraction is not a choice and that if you’re funny to a degree where you’re not goofy and you’re cocky to a degree where you’re not too arrogant then you will spark attraction with women regardless of whether she likes it or not.

David deangelo started an interview program several years ago interviewing several well known dating coaches like Mystery, Neil Strauss, Lance Mason and more. And has gone on to create other well known dating books, DVDs and other products.

Double Your Dating business started out when David being single watched a lot of his friends go out and get success where he didn’t even get noticed by the opposite sex. He asked his friends to reveal their innermost techniques and they were clueless on how to transfer their gift, so David watched and took notes. Avid started realizing a pattern in the way women responded to cocky and funny statements and remarked that’s what caused attraction with women is being cocky and then making her laugh at herself. In other words teasing women with a smile.

David Deangelo went out and started teasing women and soon released he had discovered the key to creating lasting attraction.

One of the techniques David teaches is the 3 minute email close which is simply walking up to a woman, stating you don’t have long and you have to get back to your friend but you would like to know her better so you should exchange emails. This doesn’t work all the time but it gets a good consistency if you approach enough women.

Does David Deangelos Techniques Work?

The simple answer is YES they do however they’re more effective when coupled with other techniques. Firstly I recommend you don’t go after their email address as this is fussy behavior (another term David invented). You want numbers or instant dates, yes I mean instant dating her on the spot then and there, if she refuses a number but offers her email then refuse it, if she was interested in you then she would give you her number, so she’s basically dicking you around.

One important point David brings to everyone’s attention is that you need to practice all the time approaching women, when you spot a girl you should practice without hesitating approach her and strike up conversations.

Don’t use any typical conversation starter of pickup line that average guys use or (wussys would use) you want to be unique and stand out from the pack so have something memorized that has that effect.

One thing I like about David’s teachings is the fact that we shouldn’t hide our inhibitions with women. Many men in this day and age are frightened of showing a woman what they’re really thinking and how they desire her. They’re afraid of her knowing that they want to rip he clothes off and have their way with her, whereas David says on the contrary you want her to know that as women are tired of the average guy frustrations, guys that are too “nice” , guys that are too “wussy” or too shy. Women want a real man who picks her up from her feet and is dominant.

Top 5 Flirting Tips For Guys For Attracting a Woman

Alex — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 23:53:10 +0000

Flirting is extremely fun for everyone playing the game. Women love it because they feel special. Men love it because they get to play with different women and it’s socially acceptable. What could be more fun!

A great smile is the first way to flirt. Nothing quite like smiling at beautiful woman that’s with someone else who’s smiling back at you. Women love being noticed by men. A smile is the easiest and safest way to flirt from across the room. You don’t want that guy she’s with coming unglued.

Make sure that you showcase your masculinity. I don’t mean show off your masculinity as in be real macho. I mean let her see that you are a strong man who is secure in his opinion of himself How you carry yourself and interact with others says a lot for you.

Make and maintain eye contact. People believe that the eyes are the windows to the soul. More importantly they know instinctively that by looking someone in the eye you have nothing to fear. It means you’re secure, honest and open. By looking them in the eye you’re letting them know that they’re eye candy for you. Who doesn’t like that?

Don’t plaster a sardonic smile on your face but make sure that you keep smiling, especially as you’re making eye contact. That smile says that you’re friendly and it’s an open invitation to smile back. Smiling is infectious and if you smile she’ll likely smile and that will affect her mood toward you.

Women love big square shoulders. It displays a man’s virility. Women generally go for a guy that’s taller. One that slouches gives the impression that they’re weak or sickly. Stand up straight like your mother told you and square those shoulders.

Mirroring is the art of duplicating the body language of another person. Be observant of her body language. Then duplicate it so it looks like she’s looking in the mirror. If she raises her left arm as she’s facing you then you raise your right arm. Become the mirror image of her and it will convey a comfortable connection in her mind.

How Teasing Women Can Make You More Attractive

Alex — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 22:36:03 +0000

Teasing is one of the easiest ways of becoming more attractive to women. They love to play and be played with. When teasing is done right, it can lead to a very intimate evening later on.

Being playful is extremely sexy and makes you very desirable. However, being cocky and using sexual innuendo too quickly gives you the reputation of being a jerk. Start slow and build.

You can tease her throughout the conversation, even from the start, as long as it’s friendly and she can tease you in return. The aim at this point is fun.

As the evening progresses, make the teasing a little more intimate. Tickle the back of her neck or pull her hair a bit. This little bit of physical play is very sensuous and will make her want to do the same with you.

It’s at this point that coming on with a bit of sexual innuendo is most enjoyable and effective. Start out by teasing her in such a way that she needs to make a comeback. If her reply is simply an answer, she’s not quite ready. But, if she answers with a retort that requires a comeback from you, she’s into you and the game your playing.

But, if she is not responding to this type of teasing favorably, then it’s time to back off. Better to go back to something less personal or go to someone totally different then risk being labeled as a jerk. That stuff gets around quicker than a bush fire.

Sexual teasing will also build sexual tension. If is she is responding to the sexual teasing, then just keep going. Before you know it she won’t be able to keep her hands off of you. Then, she’ll let you know where she wants your hands to be, too.

How to Tease a Woman the Right Way and Become More Attractive

Alex — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 22:12:04 +0000

Teasing works. If you don’t think so, watch a few romance movies and look for the guy to tease the girl in the movie. You’ll see it in almost every movie. The question isn’t whether teasing works but how to tease a woman the right way so you become more attractive to her.

So why does teasing work? It works because it represents danger. You become a threat when you tease someone. You’re challenging them in one way or another. You may cause damage to their reputation or their self image. If you’re capable of doing that you’re displaying the alpha male, dominate leader characteristics. This is like pheromones to women.

Teasing comes with it’s own challenges, though. It requires a fine balance of harassment and friendliness. If you go too far into the friendliness you’re seen as weak. If you lean too far into harassment you’re seen as a jerk. Nobody likes a jerk.

You have to be friendly though because ridiculing people is a negative thing to do and you’ll be seen as a jerk. Teasing someone on the other hand is seen as a positive thing to do and you’ll be seen as an interesting and fun person to be around.

Above all else avoid being boring. Nice guys are boring. Boring is boring no matter what it’s source. Boring is hum-drum and lacks excitement. Spice things up by adding humor to your conversation. Humor is the antidote to boring behavior and boring conversation. Women hate boring and they love excitement. Become exiting and you’ll attract more women.

So here are some practical tips to teasing a woman.

1. Dare her to accomplish something. The doubt you display will irritate her but the challenge you offer will be interesting.

2. Challenge her on some of the things she says. Again, you’re doubting her opinion but offering her the challenge of proving her point to you. This is great because it causes her to jump into the conversation and build a relationship with you.

3. Deliberately twist some of her words and/or meanings. Be sure to do this with a smile and/or a wink. Sometimes an exaggerated tone of voice works as well. Anything to signal to her and those around her that you’re deliberately teasing. It sets the stage for watching two people ‘fight’. Everyone loves a good fight especially when it’s a friendly one.
4. Remain a challenge to her. Your goal is two fold. By being a challenge she has to beat or overcome you remain interesting to her. You also remain a mystery to her and the ladies love mysterious men. It’s like climbing a mountain. As long as you haven’t accomplished it you feel drawn to overcome it. Once you’ve reached the peak the mystery is over and you move on to the next thing.