Art of Seduction – Learning Seduction Takes Time
So you’re learning seduction huh …
Having fun is important when learning the art of seduction as it constantly keeps you motivated and moving on to become better.
You will find that on your journey to becoming a transformed casanova that sometimes you can be feeling down on yourself (this happens to a lot of guys and its completely natural).
If you’re approaching plenty of women and not getting the reactions you seek then its natural to feel slightly de-motivated to continue, which is why MOST guys give up the game within the first 3 months.
As humans we seek quick fixes and instant results. Sometimes you can start seeing immediate results and sometimes (more often than not) results are slow to realize.
When I run my seduction workshops most guys are at beginner level and haven’t approached many women before, by the end of the night they’ve approached at least 50 women! And they realize instant results and they achieve an ultimate level of state, they feel amazing and want more.
Other seduction workshops I run students are at differ levels of seduction learning and prefer to focus on a key point of attraction, which we do and they again see amazing results.
Have you ever been to the gym and tried to gain muscle mass?
You work out for 1 solid week, stressing muscles, sweating all over the place, red in the face, huffing and puffing … all that effort! And when you look in the mirror after two weeks you’re still the same weight!
I find that I stopped and started the gym visits for the last few years depending on my state. I might watch a bruce lee movie and get instantly motivated again and go back, and again after a few weeks… I see no results so I give up.
It’s a cycle and I kept repeating this.
The same principle applies especially when learning seduction.
Instant results are RARE (but can happen) : )
A key to excelling fast in the art of seduction is accepting that this can be a long or short road and it all depends on your willingness to learn and your comfort levels at this point in time.
Below are some simple steps you can follow to keep up the spirits and continue learning the art of seduction while making it FUN.
1.Have no agenda; if you have no agenda or outcome then logically you cant be disappointed. If you head out for a night on the town with a ‘purpose’ or mission i.e getting 10 phone numbers, X amount of make-outs and you don’t acheive these set goals then you’ll feel slightly anxious.I’ll talk to you soon!
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Alex Coulson







