The Pickup Artist Tv Show on VH1 Starring Mystery & Matador

May 14, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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the-pickup-artist-vh1 This is an article on the TV Show The Pickup Artist which is aired around the world showing men how to approach women, build attraction, gain rapport and ultimately seal the deal with random girls.

The TV show about pickup artists has been successful thus far, so successful workshops and interest in pua boot camps are going sky high. Read on to find out more.

What is “The Pickup Artist” and How to Become One?

First to learn the ropes to become a pickup artist you need to understand this is a long road to travel as it took me for example 6 months to achieve my first kiss close in a bar. I went out 5 nights a week and 2 daytimes a week for 6 months and never achieved anything (not even a phone number). I was miserable and thought there must be something wrong with ME, you’ll find out that this is a common occurrence in many PUAs (Pickup artists). They believe the problems lies internally with them and they can’t change it, they are stuck with the hand that was dealt to them. DEAD WRONG.

The problem usually lies with 10% inner game and 90% outer game i.e. conversation starters, routines, keeping the conversation going, funny stories and other outer game tactics. Also many PUAs have to familiarize and become accustomed to rejection on a daily basis.

This isn’t easy street and rejection from women is tough. You have to bite the bullet and deal with it unfortunately to get good and be able to approach women on a consistent basis. If you want to be good expect to be rejected around 1000 times before some REAL skills set in. So what’s the first step to becoming a pickup artist? GO OUT MORE.

Going out to bars and clubs

Firstly get out of the house and find a friend to approach women with. Most guys don’t go out enough generally let alone have a trusty reliable wingman. Every good pickup artist worth his salt has a trusty friend and wingman to join him and help him put up with obstacles and interrupting friends who enter your sarge. You need a friend to occupy them and isolate them away from your target. Finding a friend is easy in the community however finding a decent wingman is difficult. The worst thing you can do that will affect your game is hang out with guys who have no idea what they’re doing.

Learn openers and basic routines

The reason I say this is its imperative if you want to be a successful pickup artist to have something to say. I could be unhelpful and say routines are bad and you shouldn’t be fake and you should be yourself around women, however how will this help you? If what you’re doing now isn’t attracting women and you’re BEING yourself then shouldn’t you try something different?

Don’t get me wrong here … If you want to be a successful pickup artist you will have to stray away from routines eventually and start gaming naturally and using your own life stories and DHVs however if you’re just starting out then you’ll need a few things memorized to say, otherwise you wont be able to start the conversation let alone continue it. Routines and pickup lines that PUAs memorize are there for training wheels and that is all.

How to Be a Top Pick Up Artist?

Many guys out there want to be trained by the top dogs and learn from the best. This is completely understandable and also makes a lot of sense. However you need to understand that the top pickup artists get approached and solicited by many guys who want coaching for free and offer no value so why should they give you their valuable time?

The key her to realize is that if you find a pickup artist who has great game you want to proposition them with something of exchanged value such as you lend them your skills and they lend you theirs in return.

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Build Attraction By Breaking Your Date Plans With Her

April 29, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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girl_thumb Women are shoppers. They are constantly comparing things and assigning value. The same is true with the guys they date. You should never assume that you have an exclusive contract for her attraction to the opposite sex. What I’m about to share with you will work but it’s not for wimps. If you’re not a REAL man you should stop reading now.

You need to establish yourself as one of the guys in your lady’s life with higher status. Unless you’re willing to take the risks of higher gain you’ll be assigned to the B group of guys she’s dated.

While the principle is simple and fairly easy to put into practice it can be hard to follow if you care about the girl you’re dating. This principle can seem to be and can actually be somewhat disrespectful to her. In the end, though, you’ll cause her to value your time together much more and she’ll enjoy that time a great deal more.

The goal is to create a sense that you’re more valuable. In order to accomplish that you have to become more rare. The rarer the object the higher its value. The best way to achieve that higher status is to take yourself out of the picture by breaking a date with her. This should be done after you’ve had a few dates and established a budding dating relationship.

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It’s a known fact that when you take something away from a person they feel loss. This creates a sense of scarcity and automatically creates a desire within the person experiencing the loss to regain what they’ve lost.

When you deny her your presence on that date you’re actually planting a seed of warning smack in the middle of her emotion center that says you may not be there in the future. While you want this to have a strong impact it can also come across as a harsh disrespect instead of making you more valuable so here are some ways you can head off the impression that you’re being harsh.

· Don’t wait until the last minute. Give her at least two days heads up so she can make plans to do something else.
· When you cancel be sure to tell you can’t make it but you’d like to go out with her another time. This way she’ll feel the loss of you but will have the hope of a future time.
· Don’t go out into the public on the day when your date was scheduled. Think about it. If she sees you or one of her friends see you out and about you’ve just blown your cover!

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Use the Push and Pull Technique to Instantly Attract Any Woman

April 29, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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Use the Catch and Release to Instantly Attract Any Woman

Are you a salesman? If you are, you’ll recognize this technique right away. It’s a standard technique used in making a sale, but with the twist of making yourself more attractive to the opposite sex.

Let’s say you meet a woman for the first time. You’ve already gotten past the introductions and are getting to know each other a little better. You’re flirting a little and developing a chemistry between each other while talking.

There’s a place in this ‘conversation’ where you begin leading up to the next level, such as getting her number, a date, or begin kissing. However, this is the spot where you change your strategy.
Put this picture in you mind. You’re at that critical point of progress, but instead of gratifying her desire to kiss, get a date, or whatever, you look at her and say that you’re sorry, but you have to get back to your friends. Then, being totally relaxed, get up and tell her that you’ll see her again in a while. Make sure that you keep eye contact while doing all of this.

She’ll either be stunned or start trying to keep you with her. But, keep moving. Be nice, but continue to make your exit. Go on back to your friends and get on with whatever their doing. At this point, you can even talk to another girl; however, you might want to practice this technique a few times before doing that. This is a potent technique, so use caution.

This will drive her crazy. She’s going to ask herself why you’re not with her anymore. She’ll even try to get you attention. Her mind will be filled with thoughts of you.

Later on, go back and see her again. You’ll probably have to go through a few preliminary steps to regain some ground, but don’t be surprised if these are cut very short and you’re back talking intimately with her again quickly. Now that you’re back with her, she’s going to do whatever she needs to do to keep you there. Her goal is to build your attraction to her.

That’s it in a nutshell. By using this technique, you make yourself highly desirable prize that she wants. Instant attraction is that easy.

Push and Pull Technique – Why It Works And Why YOU Should Use It …

April 29, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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121 If you’re out for an evening and want to have a good time, but don’t want to start a ‘relationship’, here’s a great technique that’s a lot of fun for both you and the girl you’re wanting to have fun with. It’s called the push-pull technique.

The basic premise is this; when you approach a woman do/say something nice, then do/say something that will slightly push her away. This makes the approach into a game of tag. If she’s into playing chase, and most women are even if they say they aren’t, then the game goes from your court into her court. Then it comes back to you.

The reason this works is that you can be a nice guy while being bad boy at the same time. This totally knocks her off balance, at first. But as you continue the game she’ll get into it and begin to banter a little with you, as well.

First, a few words about how to play this game. Make sure you smile at her the whole time, even when you turn your head away. This lets her know that you like her, so she’ll keep playing the game. Second, make sure that when you push her away that you keep it small and simple. For example, you approach a girl and she’s giving you her attention. Both of you have your bodies facing each other; a clear body language sign that you are enjoying being together. Then, without warning, turn your body at a 45 degree angle away from her and survey the room. It’ll give her a little jolt and make her begin to chase you. She’ll want to know what you’re looking at. Then, always smiling through this, turn back to her to re-establish yourself.

You can do the same thing verbally, just be careful that you don’t become insulting. You’ll find yourself talking to the air, if not the hand.