Daygame Pickup Videos From A Student Of Mine – Hidden Camera

January 9, 2011 by · 12 Comments
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Video #1

Number closing a German girl living in London using an indirect-direct approach. Covent Garden, London.

* Pre-opener (“Can I tell you something really randomly?”)
* Pacing her reality (“It’s not a robbery”)
* Painting a picture (“I was just walking past…”)
* Indirect-direct opener (“I just wanted to come and say hello”)
* False time constraint (“Meeting friend for coffee”)
* Transition with statements
* Kino arm touches / high-5 / hugs
* Playful push-pull and teasing
* Qualifications (resolutions / reading / friendly / nice)
* Challenge her taste in books
* She’s quite a handful and quick witted, so I have to plough. Should have tried to open her up more ; )
* Number close
* Disqualify myself in a fun way (needy / emotional etc.)
* Can’t bounce as she’s waiting for a friend

Video #2

An indirect-direct day game pick-up of a Turkish girl in Trafalgar Square, London.

* Indirect-direct opener (“wanted to come and say hi”)
* Transition by pacing reality and making statements
* She hooks (“where are you from?”) and is quite chatty
* I qualify about reasons for visiting her city
* Challenge her on her negativity towards London
* I tease her about being the “quiet girl” and her ego
* Kino on arm, high-5, comparing tans, hug, kisses
* I cut off the chit-chat with some logistics (“so anyway..”)
* Should have persisted with instant date suggestion or at least mini-bounced
* Email closed because she was a tourist not here for long

Video #3


A direct street approach on an English girl in Seven Dials, London.

* “Soft direct” opener (based on style)
* Transition (pacing reality and statements)
* She hooks but doesn’t open up or give much to go on
* Plough / story tell with banter, push-pull and DHVs
* Comfort building, under-the-radar vibe (my default daytime style)
* Kino (arm touches, high 5s, shoulder turn)
* Light qualification (passion, aspirations) but she’s shy. Should have done some real qualification
* Miss out on coffee instant date because I said I had just had a coffee (chump mistake)
* Statement of intent (telling her she’s hot)
* Should have locked-in / mini-bounce
* Went for FB/email close as level of rapport didn’t feel enough for #close.

Jo came out on a Day2 (date) with me and the vibe was very different to this under-the-radar comfort initial close. A video of the Day2 will be on this channel soon!

How To Attract Women – Advice From A Woman

October 10, 2010 by · 1 Comment
Filed under: approach women, Attracting Women, confidence with women 

This is the second video she made for me. If you haven’t seen the first click here.

I’m always interested in what our opposites think of “the game” and the methods it employs.

General outline of the video:

Smile.

Happy people are considered more attractive. Nothing is more attractive to a quality girl than a guy who isn’t afraid to cheese it.
Be a freegin challenge.

For God sake if I could give one piece of advice to every guy, girls say they want a man to fall at our feet and kiss the ground we walk on, but we DON’T. Now this can be tricky…because we do still want you to say how cute we are in the morning and how adorable our reading glasses are. We want you to open doors and leave great tips when you take us out to dinner. Yes, we want flowers….always. But we want you to have your own LIFE. Have your own hobbies, interests, opinions, disagreements, friends, ‘guys night’, etc, etc. Which leads me into the next tip.

Don’t always be available:

Especially in the beginning. Don’t be obvious either. Like the no call until days after I gave my number, the chances of me answering that call; zero. But if we’ve started seeing each other and I ask if you’re free tomorrow night, the answer is no. Even if you’re sitting around scratching your balls and watching football all day. You tell her you’ve got a slammed packed day full of ‘insert cool stuff’ to do. Such as, take your nephew to a little league game and then grab a beer with your dad. Quality women love family and we love a guy who’s family oriented. But you could say anything really, just as long as you’re not at her beck and call.

Warmly,

Alex

Attracting Women Advice – From a Woman?

October 10, 2010 by · 2 Comments
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I noticed this girl online that made videos like ME? I was thinking wow another dating video vlogger. So I got in contact with her and asked her to make me a super short video on 3 quick tips she can throw to my readers on “the game”. So here it is. I only asked her to make two videos so if you like them let me know and I’ll ask her to make some more.

Warmly,

Alex

Meet and Attract Women During The Daytime : DayGame Revealed

August 20, 2009 by · 1 Comment
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It’s a fact I like to keep things simple and tend not to over analyze or overload you with too much information at one time, and why should I? Daygame is simple and easy … provided you follow a proven structure.

In this video you’ll discover a simple daygame structure for meeting women during the daytime. No need to memorize a million converstation starters or stories, just use the above structure and you’ll find meeting women in the daytime so much less of a headache.

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The Pick Up Artists Life – The Persistent Attitude

April 30, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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217The Key To Becoming a GOOD Pick Up Artist

Some of the most successful pickup artists have a skill that can NOT be taught on the workshops, in fact the pick up artist probably doesn’t even know he has this skill as its unconscious, or outside the real of their consciousness and they don’t even know they have this unique skill.

That skill is the “unwavering belief in themselves”

Some would say this is confidence and they would be right, it’s also a mixture of arrogance, pride and a few other things.

This is a GOOD skill to have and I’ll tell you why in just a second.

Most budding pickup artists are in the ‘game’ for three months or less and they give up, they give it a try and go out a few times with their buddies they do about half the approaches they could do, and they say they’re not really getting the results of other PUAs out there are getting so they give up. Then a few months later they’re back again giving it another try.

There’s nothing wrong with this don’t get me wrong, in fact this is good that they remained unwavering and giving it another shot. What I am trying to say however is that you should keep going from the get go and never let rejection stop you, or “club” girls attitude deter you.

The skill the drives success in life, in business, personal relationships and other areas is persistence, it’s having this belief in yourself that you can do it and you deserve it. Most importantly is that you DESERVE IT as this will always provide you with a drive to achieve it.

226Man guys I’ve coached through my workshop business have learned somewhat skills (from me and others) on being persistent at pickup even when the odds seem like they’re against you.

So what is persistence and some good examples?

I’ve met a lot of successful pick up artists in my life either when I’m interviewing them, running a workshop on some of my travels and bumping into them or just been introduced to them and these insightful guys all possess the skill of persistence and belief.

Persistence:
· Continuity: the property of a continuous and connected period of time
· Doggedness: persistent determination

I like the last word DETERMINATION.

Some good examples of PUA Persistence:
** Never let a rejection from a girl deter or stop you from more approaches
** Never let a bad breakup deter you from feeling for another girl again in the future
** Always be positive in-light of any circumstances (this will always guide you to a solution)
** Even if she has a boyfriend be persistent as most girls who say they have a partner don’t in fact and she’s just testing you.

To become a pick up artist you need the skill of persistence, if you get shot down or rejected then take a breather, have a coffee, don’t get inside your head and think “why, what’s wrong, what am I doing wrong” etc just have a break and keep going. This is the best way to get good at this.

Talk soon
Your friend,
Alex