The Pickup Artist Tv Show on VH1 Starring Mystery & Matador

May 14, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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the-pickup-artist-vh1This is an article on the TV Show The Pickup Artist which is aired around the world showing men how to approach women, build attraction, gain rapport and ultimately seal the deal with random girls.

The TV show about pickup artists has been successful thus far, so successful workshops and interest in pua boot camps are going sky high. Read on to find out more.

What is “The Pickup Artist” and How to Become One?

First to learn the ropes to become a pickup artist you need to understand this is a long road to travel as it took me for example 6 months to achieve my first kiss close in a bar. I went out 5 nights a week and 2 daytimes a week for 6 months and never achieved anything (not even a phone number). I was miserable and thought there must be something wrong with ME, you’ll find out that this is a common occurrence in many PUAs (Pickup artists). They believe the problems lies internally with them and they can’t change it, they are stuck with the hand that was dealt to them. DEAD WRONG.

The problem usually lies with 10% inner game and 90% outer game i.e. conversation starters, routines, keeping the conversation going, funny stories and other outer game tactics. Also many PUAs have to familiarize and become accustomed to rejection on a daily basis.

This isn’t easy street and rejection from women is tough. You have to bite the bullet and deal with it unfortunately to get good and be able to approach women on a consistent basis. If you want to be good expect to be rejected around 1000 times before some REAL skills set in. So what’s the first step to becoming a pickup artist? GO OUT MORE.

Going out to bars and clubs

Firstly get out of the house and find a friend to approach women with. Most guys don’t go out enough generally let alone have a trusty reliable wingman. Every good pickup artist worth his salt has a trusty friend and wingman to join him and help him put up with obstacles and interrupting friends who enter your sarge. You need a friend to occupy them and isolate them away from your target. Finding a friend is easy in the community however finding a decent wingman is difficult. The worst thing you can do that will affect your game is hang out with guys who have no idea what they’re doing.

Learn openers and basic routines

The reason I say this is its imperative if you want to be a successful pickup artist to have something to say. I could be unhelpful and say routines are bad and you shouldn’t be fake and you should be yourself around women, however how will this help you? If what you’re doing now isn’t attracting women and you’re BEING yourself then shouldn’t you try something different?

Don’t get me wrong here … If you want to be a successful pickup artist you will have to stray away from routines eventually and start gaming naturally and using your own life stories and DHVs however if you’re just starting out then you’ll need a few things memorized to say, otherwise you wont be able to start the conversation let alone continue it. Routines and pickup lines that PUAs memorize are there for training wheels and that is all.

vh1-pickup-artistHow to Be a Top Pick Up Artist?

Many guys out there want to be trained by the top dogs and learn from the best. This is completely understandable and also makes a lot of sense. However you need to understand that the top pickup artists get approached and solicited by many guys who want coaching for free and offer no value so why should they give you their valuable time?

The key her to realize is that if you find a pickup artist who has great game you want to proposition them with something of exchanged value such as you lend them your skills and they lend you theirs in return.