What To Do If She Has a Boyfriend – Boyfriend Destroyers
Attractive women are rare and when you stumble over them the chances are they’ll probably have a boyfriend and even if they don’t they say they will, doesn’t really make sense does it?
But never fear as the following tips are to be used on women who say “I have a boyfriend” and are designed to assist you to get past the “boyfriend” excuse, I say the word excuse as the ironic notion is even if a woman LIKES you and she’s JUST met you, she’ll still say “I have a boyfriend” if you convey your interest too early on or go in for the close within the first few minutes.
Attractive women wander around in “auto-pilot” mode most of the time. When guys approach and convey interest too early without demonstrating their qualities then the girl has no reason to “be single” she’ll say she has a boyfriend even though she may not, so the key here is to convey as much about you as possible in the first few minutes.
In personal experience I’ll have to say every 3/10 girls who say I have a boyfriend will actually have one. So what do you say when she says, “I have a boyfriend”?
You: Cool … I have a dog
Or
You: Nice, I’m glad you have somebody to be around when you’re not around me.
Or
You: Well … nobody’s perfect.
The key to getting past the boyfriend excuse is to be un-reactive; if you flinch in the slightest or have a slight tremor or muscle movement then she’ll know she has you.
So don’t let the boyfriend excuse affect you. Stay there and persist as remember only a third of all women who say it actually mean it. My belief is that all women need to feel they are being pursued in one way or another, this demonstrates to them whether you really want her and are willing to push past obstacles to get her and if you do you get some pink taco for dinner : )
One girl has actually said to me that she throws the boyfriend excuse out there to “test” a mans quality, if he stays with me and persists he’s a real man as he likes challenges and has “survival” qualities. She also said that she gets disappointed when guys walk away after she says she has a boyfriend, especially if she genuinely liked the guy.
The moral? Quick boyfriend – breaker tactics:
*Stay there and persist
*Be un-reactive
*Keep escalating physically and assume she didn’t say it
*“I have a dog”
Talk soon my friend,
Alex Coulson
Masculinity: Become a Man and Get the Girl
As much as you hear about nonsense – like women want sensitive men the fact is they really want real men. That’s why chicks go for jerks and get their hearts broken, then keep going after the same type. Why? They’re attracted to them. Duh!
You don’t see chicks fawning all over frickin’ limp wristed pansies. Chicks want real men. Here are a few tips to help you establish your identity and create your masculine image.
*Stop conforming to what you think women want in men; what each woman wants is uniquely different some want a adventurous guy, whereas others want a SNAG (sensitive new age guy) to agree with her feelings and do the washing up.
That was a joke! : ) but women don’t want a specific stereotype of guy. SO stop trying to fit into just one stereotype.
*Stop learning palm reading, handwriting analysis to attract women. Learning these JUST to attract women is lame and women will see through the façade.
It’ll do more harm than good. If you have a GENUINE interest in these areas or work in these fields then by all means, however if you work as an accountant and suddenly jump up and start reading her palm she’ll laugh at you.
*Start adopting some of the masculine traits men have, the traits our ancestors have used to attract women. DO you think your grandparents used palm reading on your grandmother? Or met her at a yoga class?
No chances are it didn’t go down like that. He used the sheer POWER of masculinity to attract her without any gimmicky banter lines or jargon.
Start acting like a MAN.
Don’t get the wrong idea here … the last thing I want you to do is walk outside pick a fight with some poor guy or start acting like a jerk to women.
There’s a fine line I want you to see…
Qualities such as aggressiveness, competitiveness, ambition and dominance are often associated with men being masculine whereas traits such as kindness, sympathy, and pity are regarded as feminine.
Right?
Well doesn’t this represent a bemused sense of values?
I always disliked aggressiveness and tendencies to dominate in anyone, man or woman; and I abandoned competitiveness in myself when I was young, shortly after finishing school.
Does this make me feminine?
If so let me ask the following questions: Aren’t the feminine personality traits morally and intellectually superior to the masculine ones?
If someone thinks that a man ought to be “manly” and have the masculine behavior traits such as aggressiveness, competitiveness, ambition, etc. then I think that person’s values are very confused and mixed up.
Women ultimately want STRONG men, men that are strong in character and believe in themselves and their ideals, men that are leaders and don’t look to others for guidance or validation.
You know why chicks like big, tall men? No, not necessarily because they think or care that those guys have big wangs. That’s mostly a result of we men being obsessed with it rather than women.
The real reason is that the #1 thing women crave is security. Women want to feel safe. Why do so many soccer moms drive SUVs that are more likely to roll over in an accident? They *feel* safer when they’re in them. If you make women feel at ease around you they will respond to you more than if you were FREAKING THEM OUT. But I digress.
You need to make a girl feel SAFE… STRONG – - > SAFE
Back to the big man thing, women subconsciously equate bigger, taller men with strength. So those men would be able to better protect them from other cavemen or sabertooth tigers or whatever hazards the world has to offer, and the women feel safer because of that.
Ever heard of a guy named Moby? Whatever he’s like as a person I don’t know. But his public image? He’s a WIMP. “But he probably gets lots of chicks”, you say. Don’t be like that, you’re not a star.
Be a man.
Your friend,
Alex
Being Unapologetic as a Man and Asserting Your Desire
What eventually happens is you call it a night and you’re outside the restaurant ready to part ways, and you touch her hand poised to strike her a kiss on the lips … and she flinches …. then she looks down at your hand like to question you “What are you doing” or “It’s too early for hand holding buddy” and all of a sudden a drip of cold sweat lines your neck and your pulse starts racing, palms get sweaty and all you hear is your heartbeat thumping away like the Swazi bongos. pum pum … pum pum ..pum pum pum …
Then there’s our inhibitions of what we WANT to do, have a quick dinner, foreplay in the car on the way back to her place, “Make her surrender and submit” to you in the bedroom, the kitchen, the lounge room and on the balcony and then you kiss her good night and tell her to call you.
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