How To Flirt With Women and Create Attraction – Quick Tips
Being able to flirt and create attraction is a very powerful tool in the art of love. Having the ability to successfully flirt is fun and most of the time comes naturally. One of the keys to flirting is to relax in it, then practice, practice, practice. This exercise is one of the most pleasant ones that you’ll ever perform.
Those men who know exactly how to flirt and create attraction of the opposite sex are usually confident in themselves. Flirting comes as a natural gift to them because they already know that flirting is for fun and enjoyment. They turn flirting into an art form.
For those of you who want to learn the art of flirting, here is your first lesson: Body language is the most important part of a good flirt. Especially looking at her. Spend 70% of your time looking into her eyes and 30% of your time looking at her mouth, hair, cheeks, and nose. You’ll begin to notice a flush to her face, which means you’re getting to her.
Smile. A lot. 90% of the time or more. You don’t have to have a big, toothy grin. But make sure she is aware that you are smiling at her. If you turn around and find her looking at you, raise your eyebrows in surprise and give her a smile that says that you’re glad she’s looking at you. This kind of flirting can be from across the room or just across the shoulder of the guy she’s with.
Be gentle in teasing. Teasing can easily go from lighthearted and fun to mean-spirited and hurtful in the blink of an eye. This is especially true when folks have been drinking for a while. Be careful to be gentle and not let teasing get out of hand.
Let her know that you are trying to get to know her and not just get her into the sack. Every woman wants to feel special and pursued, not caught and caged. If you don’t make sure that she understands this, you may have just ruined every flirtatious move you’ve made for the evening.
Last lesson is the most important: Have fun. If a relationship begins in fun, you’ll find more fun in it later on.
Alex Coulson
Top 5 Flirting Tips For Guys For Attracting a Woman
Flirting is extremely fun for everyone playing the game. Women love it because they feel special. Men love it because they get to play with different women and it’s socially acceptable. What could be more fun!
A great smile is the first way to flirt. Nothing quite like smiling at beautiful woman that’s with someone else who’s smiling back at you. Women love being noticed by men. A smile is the easiest and safest way to flirt from across the room. You don’t want that guy she’s with coming unglued.
Make sure that you showcase your masculinity. I don’t mean show off your masculinity as in be real macho. I mean let her see that you are a strong man who is secure in his opinion of himself How you carry yourself and interact with others says a lot for you.
Make and maintain eye contact. People believe that the eyes are the windows to the soul. More importantly they know instinctively that by looking someone in the eye you have nothing to fear. It means you’re secure, honest and open. By looking them in the eye you’re letting them know that they’re eye candy for you. Who doesn’t like that?
Don’t plaster a sardonic smile on your face but make sure that you keep smiling, especially as you’re making eye contact. That smile says that you’re friendly and it’s an open invitation to smile back. Smiling is infectious and if you smile she’ll likely smile and that will affect her mood toward you.
Women love big square shoulders. It displays a man’s virility. Women generally go for a guy that’s taller. One that slouches gives the impression that they’re weak or sickly. Stand up straight like your mother told you and square those shoulders.
Mirroring is the art of duplicating the body language of another person. Be observant of her body language. Then duplicate it so it looks like she’s looking in the mirror. If she raises her left arm as she’s facing you then you raise your right arm. Become the mirror image of her and it will convey a comfortable connection in her mind.
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8 Signs That a Woman Is Flirting With You…
Women are like radio stations. In order to hear what they’re broadcasting all you have to do is tune in to their channel. Women are constantly broadcasting their thoughts and desires. The smart man will learn these signs and take note of them regularly.
Listening often means more than using your ears. Active listening is paying close attention to what’s being said and paying close attention to the behavior of the other person while they’re saying whatever it is they’re saying. By combining the input from these two sources you can pretty much read her mind!
Once you’ve practiced responding to these openly hidden signals you’ll develop a very close feel for how each woman you meet thinks before you even talk to her. She’ll appreciate the fact that you can ‘hear’ her and this will put her at ease with you while at the same time broadcasting that you’re the ‘bad boy’ she needs.
Here are 8 different signals that a woman is flirting with you…
Flirting Signal 1: Having A Great Time
Women like to be looked at. They also want to give you a good impression. One of the best ways they can advertise to you that they’re a fun loving person who’s fun to be with is to act like they’re having an extremely fun time with their friends.
Flirting Signal 2: Self Touch
A woman who is attracted to you will often unconsciously touch herself. She may stroke her hair, touch her hands or knees. She’s openly displaying what she’s most likely thinking. She’s most likely thinking about how she would feel if you were touching her in those areas. Always look for a grin or a smile. The bigger the smile the better off you are.
Flirting Signal 3: Preening
Women thrive on being beautiful. When a woman is attracted to you her first thoughts will be about how she looks. She’ll start smoothing her clothing or straightening her hair without even giving it conscious thought. This is a clear sign that she wants to please you enough to attract your attention.
Flirting Signal 4: Checking You Out
Because women thrive of beauty they’ll naturally be attracted to good looks. If a woman sees your face and likes what she sees she’ll generally do the body scan. She’ll start at your feet and work her way up to your face. Remember, she’s doing this because she’s already found something about you that attracts her. This is a good time to make direct eye contact with her. Don’t forget to smile in a friendly manner.
Flirting Signal 5: Open Body Language
Sooner or later you’re going to have to approach any woman you feel might be attracted to you. As you approach check to see if her body is ‘open’ to you. Look for her arms being open and her wrists being shown to you. Follow through this careful exam as you talk to her. It’s an ongoing feedback tool to understand her level of attraction.
Flirting Signal 6: Gets Closer To You
Another thing to look for is whether or not she moves closer to you. This will generally not happen unless she’s talking to you. Closeness is intimacy for a woman. The closer she allows herself to get to you the more she’s attracted to you.
Flirting Signal 7: Subtle Eye Contact
Most women flirt in a subtle way rather than a direct approach. The one area where they break this rule is when they make direct eye contact. This is a signal flare that they are hot for you. She’s already made up her mind that she likes you and this is her way to openly let you know it’s time to move to the next step.
Flirting Signal 8: Facial Scanning
More often than direct eye contact you’ll notice her checking out your face. If this happens, PAY ATTENTION! See if she’s looking back and forth from your eyes to your mouth. If this happens she’s issuing you an invitation to kiss her. It’s as if she has a billboard stamped on her forehead, “Kiss me stupid. Kiss me NOW!” It’s good to obey. Give her what she wants…now. 
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