How To Keep The Conversation Going and Never Run Out Of Things To Say
A brand new video on how to keep the conversation going. I still use this technique even to this day in most of my conversations with women. Question + statement = not running out of things to say.
The statement should add value i.e be comical/be positive/teach her something/tell her a story etc
If you would like to learn more on how to meet women during the daytime without fear or nervousness check out our program Street Dating Revealed for live hidden camera approaches of Alex Coulson and students.
To your success with women!
Alex
How To Use Self-Amusement To Attract Women
Have you ever had one of those “on” nights where everything you said and did resulted in attraction from women? You felt on top of the world!
Now, on the flip side, have you ever had one of those “bad nights” where women responded negatively and even rejected you?
Your “state” went down and you felt deflated and negative. You may have even sat at the corner table, away from all the nasty women.
So why are some nights great, and other nights terrible? Is it the club, the women, the music, other guys? What makes the difference?
The reason we experience these roller coaster of positive and negative reactions from women, is because of our approval seeking behaviour.
Seeking approval is when you do and say things with the intention of making people like you. You’re trying to impress people. You’re only giving yourself permission to feel good when people respond positively to you.
But if people react negatively or disagree with you, you feel bad. Ultimately, everyone else is in control of your state and your emotions. But not you!
If you’ve ever done something, then waited to see how people around you responded, then you were seeking approval.
Self amusement is the opposite of seeking approval. It’s when you don’t give a F%$#k what other people think. You do what you want because it amuses one person … YOU!
You’re not looking for approval from anybody else. You’re doing and saying what you think is funny. You’re having a great time, making yourself laugh, and boosting your own state.
Now, this doesn’t mean you walk around acting like a jerk. Your intention is not to offend anyone else. Your goal is to amuse yourself!
Self amusement is extremely attractive to women for a few reasons:
1). You don’t care what she thinks.
2). You’re the life of the party (read: social proof)
3). You’re in a fun, playful and excited mood.
4.) She feels effected by your fun, playful energy. She starts to feel great, too!
Let me tell you about my experience with self amusement last Saturday night at one of Sydney’s hottest night clubs.
It was during our night time boot camp, and the student asked me to approach a group of women with him. He wanted me to distract the friends, so he could isolate and focus on the woman he was interested in.
Several minutes into the conversation, one of the women said the word “babies” to one of her friends. So I responded with …
ME: “Did you say you want babies?
HER: “Umm, I dunno”.
ME: “You want to eat babies or make babies?”
HER: “Ha ha, make babies!”
ME: “Look, I can’t guarantee you babies, but we can try making them!”
(whole group) “ha ha ha!”
HER: “I’ve just met you and now we’re making babies!”
ME: “Yes, and everyone at the table has to watch!”
HER: “ha ha ha!”
ME: “But first we have to get married in Vegas. I need to make an honest woman out of you. But don’t worry, you’re ALL INVITED!”
(whole group) “yay!”
So what happened here? Let me start by saying I didn’t plan this. I did not read this in some pua book. This is not a routine. And if you memorise this and repeat it to women in some club – IT WON’T WORK!
That’s because there are three important elements that make self amusement work. Repeat after me …
1.) self amusement must be spontaneous!
2.) self amusement must be your own personal humour!
3.) self amusement must be funny and make you laugh!
Let me explain my own personal style of humour …
One way is to purposefully misunderstand what a woman is saying as something overly sexual (see conversation example above). It’s the old frame of “are you hitting on me?”
I also enjoy self-depreciating humour. So if a woman asks me what I do for a living, I might tell her I clean toilets, or drive buses. If she asks me where I am from, I tell her “the peoples republic of Congo”.
Or I’ll purposefully embarrass my wing men. While they’re talking to a hot woman, I’ll interrupt them with a pat on the shoulder while pretending to whisper, “excuse me Tom, your shift isn’t over yet. Would you mind cleaning out the toilets before you go please?” This is hilarious!
Remember, the more fun you have, the more attracted women will be to you. Stop trying to impress women or make them like you. It won’t work and women will sense that you are trying to “get something” from them.
Self amusement is simply a great way to be the life of the party and attract women at the same time.
Approaching Women and Attracting Women In Bars & Clubs – Full Video Interview Valued At $97
Filed under: approach women, Attracting Women, pick up artist
Interview Part 1
This is a two part video program I created for my subscribers on “Approaching Women In Bars”. It’s split into two interviews each around 30 minutes long. This program was going to retail for $97 however we’re giving it away to my subscribers free of charge.
Interview Part 2
Enjoy
To your success
Alex
New Attract Women Courses In Sydney and Surfers Paradise
Filed under: approach women, Attracting Women, confidence with women, pick up artist
Hey guys,
Okay over the last few years I’ve had a training course on approaching and attracting women in Australia.
Check it out here
Attract Women Bootcamps
We’ve just revamped the website and updates the cities in which we coach in. The new cities are Sydney and Surfers Paradise for now. New cities will be added in the future. Attract Women Bootcamps™ covers everything stage from overcoming approach anxiety, attracting women through stories, getting dates and phone numbers and more. These courses are based in Australia for now, maybe in the future we will have international coaching.
Check it out here
Attract Women Bootcamps
We have had some great reviews from our clients (be sure to check out the reviews page). Most guys attending have approach anxiety challenges i.e fear of rejection which most guys overcome on the first night after a few hours of approaching. We do practice drills and role playing exercises with students to ensure you’re competent and confident for practicing on women.
Approaching Women and Attracting Women – How To Start Conversations
Filed under: approach women, Attracting Women, confidence with women, day game, daygame, pick up artist
This is a guest vlogger for succeed at dating. Her name is Kate.
In this video you’ll learn how to approach women and pick up women during the daytime without fear. Specifically how to stop a woman in the mall, timing of the approach and how to start the conversation.
Enjoy,
Alex
Attracting Women In Supermarkets- How I “Pushed” Myself To Do More Approaches
Okay so for this video I reveal how I overcame a huge stepping stone to meeting women. GO OUT and IMMERSE yourself in the places where you would like to approach women thereby FORCING yourself to do the approaches. Supermarkets, grocery stores, shopping centers, parks, streets etc you name them, you can do it!.. Just force yourself in these scenarios on a daily basis and you’ll eventually do an approach.
Oh and here is how to START conversations with women in supermarkets
http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/articles/how-to-pick-up-women-in-supermarkets/
How To Create and Form DHV Stories To Make Women Attracted To You
In this short video I outline some quick ways on how I formed my DHV stories. Don’t forget to adapt the stories to your style.
Warmest and to your success with women!
Alex
10 Attraction Triggers That Build Instant Attraction In Women – FREE 30 Minute Audio Program
Hey guys!
I’ve just released a brand new audio program called “10 Attraction Triggers”. It’s free to download, no fine print , catches and nothing to sell here. In this audio program you’ll discover 10 switches that will instantly create attraction in women no matter your looks, age or income.
It’s a 30 minute audio program and so far we have around 300 guys listening to it now and I’m getting great feedback. By the way if you would like to send us feedback I encourage you to! Email alex [@] datingworkshops.com.au. I’d appreciate it!
Check out 10 Attraction Triggers here.
All the best and as always to your success!
Alex Coulson
NEW VIDEO REVEALS : Are Looks That Important When Attracting Women?
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