Where To Meet More Women – Great Places To Meet Women
There are so many places I frequent when meeting women it isn’t funny … I may be picking up my dry cleaning and all of a sudden a cute red head walks in to pick up hers and we’ll start chatting.
It’s that easy for me…
I’m nothing special too … I’m freakishly tall, lanky, stoop slightly and have average looks however I still manage to strike up conversations with women EVERYWHERE I go…
Which means if I can do it then so can you.
This is a SKILL that most men can easily learn with patience and more importantly persistence.
Meeting women in bars is so old school. Now the hot and super attractive women don’t even frequent bars anymore because they get approached so many times. They’re sick of sleazy guys who “don’t get it” approaching them …
I mean who wouldn’t be sick of bars if you were approaches 30 times on Friday night …
Well I’m glad you’re here with me and learning these life-enhancing skills. Meeting women will be the easiest skill you could have with some practice.
Meeting women in “normal” places:
-The Bookstore; good places to meet women and this is the typical “dream” place that women want men to approach them in.
I occasionally approach women here. I spot women browsing through a book and say “Hey that’s a great book…would you like to know the ending?” this always gets a good laugh. Most of all during the day focus on being playful and non-threatening. Meeting women will be a lot more fun and enjoyable.
-Supermarket; awesome places for meeting women. Start slowly and un-confrontantional and progress into asking what she plans on cooking you for dinner.
-Shopping malls; these are excellent places to meet women. Get their opinion on fashion advice as some crazy Irish guy just tried to crack onto you. Ask her whether any of your current attire says “I cross onto the brown side” haha
-Parks; Get her opinion on anything here. In my experience most women are open to talking to people in parks, it should be quite easy you just have to see for yourself.
-Streets; I stop women all the time in the street and ask for directions, I then turn this around and get their opinion on something girly. This is the BEST way to meet women during the day. This does require some persistence, as it can be tough keeping their interest initially as MOST people walking in the street have a place to go. Then again some don’t. : )
-Touristy Places ;bring a camera down to these places and ask them to take a picture of you. Then continue the conversation easily by saying that they would make awesome photographers and should join your staff. Say this jokingly. Most women in these places will be chilled and wont be anywhere in a hurry.
-While you’re driving (this is upper funny to try) I have a friend that does this all the time and gets massive success from it too. He drives just a Volvo too …He’ll be in the passenger seat and spot women while waiting for the traffic lights to change. He already has a cardboard prepared in his backseat and he’ll stick it to the car window “0403####098 LETS CHAT” the girl/s would giggle and call him then and there and he would chat. This is a very unique way of meeting women and is the most fun.
-Hotel Lobbies; if you travel quite a bit then this is a good way to meet women. Just make sure it’s a BUSY lobby and has a busy lobby bar (most do) you can start conversations here easy, as it shouldn’t be loud.
-Bus Stops; easy places for meeting women are bus stops. I usually start conversations with “have you been waiting long? ……thanks…the other day I had to wait here with Doris I think they call her..She’s the local hobo that collects plastic bags and feeds the pigeons …she had a bag full of live pigeons she was planning on selling… I give her more credit…she’s a business woman in disguise that Doris moving up the corporate ladder”
Trade Shows; great places for meeting women as if you’re an exhibitor you have a reason to chat with her. “How business, are you getting your name out there?” “How’s your day going” you don’t necessarily have to use an opinion opener here you can just chat with her.
You now realize that meeting women is a lot easier now that you know where to find them. You ALSO have the regular places that I didn’t mention above like work, friends of friends, bars and clubs, online dating, social groups (tennis/clubs) and rock concerts : )
Talk soon!
Alex
Tips For Approach Anxiety – Rejection Anxiety Strategies
Today I want to talk about a simple and effective (yet somewhat DANGEROUS) technique that allows you to instantly approach beautiful women in everyday situations without fear or nervousness.
You’ve never heard about this ‘controversial’ technique before. How do I know? Because it’s my own creation, and I’ve never revealed it, until now.
But before I do, you need to understand WHY this technique works so well. Let me explain …
This technique is so effective because it utilizes one of the greatest psychological motivators there is.
“The Fear of Loss”
Here’s how it works: In life, just because you WANT something (like a hot girlfriend or a fancy car) doesn’t mean you’ll go out and get it, right?
Why not? Because most of the time our own FEARS hold us back.
So how do we overcome our FEARS and get what we want out of life?
The answer is: Make fear work for you and NOT against you. Wouldn’t that be nice for a change?
Here’s how: Let me explain a disturbing scenario.
If a mad-man kidnapped one of your family members, held a GUN to their head and said:
“If you don’t approach 3 beautifulwomen today, then I’m gonna SHOOT them!”
Would you do it? Of course you would!
You’d do it without hesitation, wouldn’t you?
And would you be SCARED of approaching women? I doubt it. You’d be SO focused on saving another person’s life that you wouldn’t even have time to feel “approach anxiety” right?
So the above gun-to-their-head story was an extreme example of how the “fear of loss” principal works. But it wasn’t real.
Now let me give you a REAL tried-and-testedmethod you can use to approach women without fear – using the “fear or loss” principal.
Here’s how it works: Invite a supportive friendto meet you in a place with lots of women around.(Like a shopping mall, grocery store, etc).
Then hand your friend $100 in five $20 bills.(if you cant afford $100, then use a smaller amount, like $50 in five $10 bills).
Say to your friend: “My goal for the next2 hours is to approach and talk to FIVE attractive women. Each time I approacha woman, you give me back $20 (or $10).
If I successfully approach five womenwithin the next two hours – then I getall of my money back, if I don’t, thenyou get to keep my money. Got it?”
RULES: If I approach a woman and she slaps me, pokes me in the eye, or kicks me in the balls – it doesn’t matter. My goal today is just to approach, nothing more.
And that my friend, is a fantastic way to get over your fears of approaching women.
Now go out there and do it!
Your Friend,
Alex
Getting In The Mood To Approach Women – Get Into State
I often find that even some of my closest friends still make excuses not to approach women and one excuse is “I’m not in the mood”.
So how exactly do you ‘get’ into the mood to approach women – Simple! Just follow some simple tips below as these will put you in the mood to approach those ladies in no time:
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Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#1
Go out with a friend and have a word for the night and the goal of the game is to say that word as many times in each interaction you have with a woman without her noticing it or pulling you up on it.
For example: My favorite word for the night is “ding dong” I’m usually out with my mate and I’ll be saying this word several times in sentences and make it flow. The girls have no idea why my mate is laughing uncontrollably but they’re intrigued.
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This is a very fun game to play – try it next time you’re out with a buddy.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#2
Watch a funny movie before heading out. I watch ‘there’s something about mary’ or ‘wedding crashers’ this really puts me in a light hearted mood. ‘Family guy’ is also a great pick. That way you start off the night on a good note and you may also have a few jokes up your sleeve.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#3
Smile; just smiling will put you in a good mood ready to approach women. It’s also a fact that men that smile more often tend to be more positive and do attract more women. Everyone is attracted to positive, smiling people and not just women! So even if you don’t feel like it turn that frown upside down and crack out your best Kodak moment smile.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#4
Have ONE (1) drink. You’re allowed to have a drink to feel the mood and start approaching women however ensure that you don’t rely on it always. When I head out every now and then I have a few beers as I enjoy it and it adds value to my night. I most certainly don’t need them to approach women. However if you’re still feeling the anxiety maybe a little Dutch courage will do the trick though just make it one (1) drink for starters.
I hope these tips on getting in the mood to approach women helped you.
Your friend,
Alex
Picking Up Women In Bookstalls & Bookshops
Picking up women in bookstalls is my FAVORITE place : )
Bookstalls are a great place to pickup intelligent women as they’re always packed (especially the big bookstalls) with women who have more going for them apart from their looks.
Picking up in bookshops has always been my specialty, as the women there tend to be very smart and talkative.
Below you will find some quick tip when it comes to picking up women in bookstalls.
Bookstall Pickup Tip#1
Don’t look like you’re in the bookstall just to pick up. If you look like a man on a mission wandering aimlessly around chatting to random women then eventually other women will start to notice. Pick up an interesting book with a colorful cover (something that’ll get women’s attention and something you can talk to her about) examples are travel books to exotic locations, Moroccan cookery, yoga for dummies, art books and if you’re in a playful mood you could have a copy of the bible (tell her you’re a freelance writer and you’ve decided to re-write it).
Bookstall Pickup Tip#2
Don’t linger around her before approaching as this seriously creeps girls out, women in bookstalls are easily approachable and talkative (you will see when you try it) so when you spot an attractive woman in a bookstall casually walk up to her, and start a conversation with her using some of the below conversation starters unique to bookstalls:
Starting conversations in bookstalls should be done in a casual, friendly tone and always smile guys!
* fantastic book …you should definitely read it would you like to know how it ends??
*Hi there, I just noticed you and I have to say you’re remarkably cute … I would regret it not talking to you, my name is Alex …
Remember to keep smiling (even if you don’t fee like it) and don’t linger to long before approaching as you may talk yourself out of doing it. Now go pick up some hotties in the bookstall!
Your friend,
Alex Coulson
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