How To Be More Confident Around Hot Women
If you’ve ever tried approaching an attractive woman, then you know that most of your success with her depends on your self-confidence.
Women love guys will confidence and this is a well-known fact, however how easy is it to find this confident core that’s hiding inside you in slumber.
So what tips should you follow if you lack self-confidence around women? and want to feel more empowered when talking to very attractive women.
Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem around these high caliber women:
1) Learn to relax and be more laid back
Just before approaching an attractive woman, ease yourself into a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body language. Then visualize the conversation as it’s about to happen going smooth and well. Imagine yourself making her laugh and you walking away with either her phone number or HER … be as visual as you can as this will help you.
If you can remove all expectations or outcomes from the interaction with a woman then you’ll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won’t affect your life and visualize what the worst case scenario would be … her not responding? Her walking away? Realise that you can deal with this and then approach.
2) Start meditation and exercising
There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises (at home), you’ll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you’re trying to pick up women in the shopping mall, the street or your local café.
Of course I don’t mean when you see a hottie at the mall to whip out that yoga mat and start saluting the sun …of course not. However you will discover the benefits of how yoga can boost your confidence around women and in life generally.
So if you’re serious about building self confidence, then start using some of these confidence boosting tips.
3) Use your strengths
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the attractive qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you’re faced with a situation where you’re not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities.
I recall I use to do this every time I woke up in the morning. This helped me beyond doubt and boosted my overall confidence for that day. It has been said that we negativlky criticize ourselves roughly 10,000 times PER DAY… and only pump ourselves up positively around less than 1,000.
By mentally reviewing your strengths, you’ll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence around women.
4) Be positive most of the time
It’s widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women in their life.
So no matter what you’re feeling inside, ALWAYS try to have a positive outlook and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What’s funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you’ll eventually develop this personality trait!
I hope these confidence-boosting tips have come in handy for you and lets hope (for you sake) you’re prepared the next time you see that hottie at the supermarket!
Talk soon,
Alex Coulson
How To Attract Hot Women
Here is my quick and sweet policy to seducing stunning women.
Okay then so you’re at some cruisy lounge, you have a softdrink in hand and you spot this drop dead beautiful girl standing by herself as she waits for her best friends, you know you only have a seconds before they arrive so you better act imagine what you should start a conversation with her with, how you would pace over there without being too needy and make it look relaxed and not conveying interest where deep down inside you know you want her … a lot.
However you don’t approach her for fear of rejection and you get home at 1am and you hit yourself and argue to yourself “dammit what’s wrong with me … why didn’t I approach her!”.
This is most likely as this is what I used to be like. Well I’m very glad I’ve changed for the better and the fantastic news is so can you!
So you crave to learn how to talk to women in bars huh?
Picking up stunning girls is often difficult for most guys however if you grasped some easy to learn steps to approaching, attracting her and continuing the conversation with hot women then picking up girls will be a heck of a lot easier. The key to success with picking up women is all in the attitude and internal thinking.
Step #1 Clear your head and stop thinking
This is probably the most important advice I can give you, stop living in your mind and worrying about what other guys think of you. If you’re worrying “what do I say” just before you finally approach her then chances are you won’t approach as you’re blank minded there trying to think of something original to to talk about.
Step #2 Stop worrying about hot girls rejecting you
This takes plenty of practice and persistence. Stop wondering about rejection! If you keep thinking about messing things up or running out of things to say, then guess what’s going to happen … That’s right you guessed it you’re going to run out of things to say! If you let your fear own you then you’re not living your own life.
Step #3 Don’t compliment girls too early unless it’s sincere
Women will gather that you’re “trying to pick her up” if you throw compliments at her too early, they’ll sense that you only want “one thing” and trust me you’re going about it the wrong way. Hot girls don’t want to be complimented by every man unless it’s a real compliment!
Step #4 act like you have a beautiful girlfriend already
Hot women are drawn to men who already have girlfriends. I know this is strange but the non-neediness of these men builds and attracts stunning women. So act like you have a girlfriend and you’re just out to have fun, by all means don’t say you have a girlfriend as your chances of picking her up will plummet.
Step #5 Don’t let a bad approach discourage you from more approaching more gorgeous women
I approach/walk up to on average 20 groups of striking women on any given Friday or Saturday night and I get massive success and not all women I approach go well, in fact I’ve met some vicious pieces of work nevertheless I didn’t let this phase me and neither should you. I just kept on approaching these stunning women.
Want to learn the best way to approach, attract and seduce beautiful women without fear?
If so, take a look at Alex Coulson’s Free Audio Ebook that provides top tips when it comes to attracting fine-looking women in your life. http://www.DatingWorkshops.com.au
Conversations With Women- Quick Pointers For Lasting Conversations
Great conversations with women are filled energy, passion and ideally should be rapport based …
Talking is such an easy thing to do. You do it everyday. But, having a conversation with a woman seems to be a difficult task for a lot of men. If you find that you’re one of those men, this article is for you.
Statistically speaking, women talk anywhere from three to four times more than a man. The easiest way to overcome verbal inertia is to start out by asking questions. In particular, questions about her. Does she like animals? What’s her job like? Where did she go to school? What’s her favorite movie? These kind of questions will get her to open up and talk. This will help you both to feel more comfortable.
As you begin to get her talk about herself don’t forget to share about yourself. She’s interested in you, too, or she wouldn’t be with you. Just don’t share information that may be too intimate. I.E. No talk of surgeries or scars, problems with your mother, or your finances. These are a huge turnoff for most women.
Learn to actively listen. When she’s talking, look at her eyes, lean forward slightly, be relaxed in your body language. These all will tell her that you’re interested in what she’s saying.
If your brave enough, ask her opinion about a topic that’s current. It doesn’t need to be a controversial topic, just something that’s of interest at the time. If you should find yourself in a heated conversation about politics, religion, or some other topic that potentially a date breaker, make sure that you’re honest, but don’t confront. You’re out to have a good time, not change her opinion.
Humor is one of the best tools in any conversation. Try being a little silly. Nothing over-the-top, just humorous. Be a bit of a flirt. Relax and have fun in your conversations with women. They will, when interested, have a fun with you, too.
Enjoy the time you are having with your date. You’ll find that any date is more fun when you take the time to:
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Ask questions
- Share about yourself
- Actively listen
- Ask her opinion
- Relax and have fun.
Have a great time!
Alex
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