10 Attraction Triggers That Build Instant Attraction In Women – FREE 30 Minute Audio Program

December 9, 2009 by · 1 Comment
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Hey guys!

I’ve just released a brand new audio program called “10 Attraction Triggers”. It’s free to download, no fine print , catches and nothing to sell here. In this audio program you’ll discover 10 switches that will instantly create attraction in women no matter your looks, age or income.

It’s a 30 minute audio program and so far we have around 300 guys listening to it now and I’m getting great feedback. By the way if you would like to send us feedback I encourage you to! Email alex [@] datingworkshops.com.au. I’d appreciate it!

Check out 10 Attraction Triggers here.

All the best and as always to your success!

Alex Coulson

What Attractive Body Language Attracts Women?

August 6, 2009 by · 20 Comments
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In this video I walk you through a technique on improving your body language, voice tonality and the skill of speaking slower. These three things AND MORE combined create what we call a “presence”. Women are more captivated by you and your presence and you’ll discover that your ‘flake rate’ will be lowered and women won’t brush you off as easier.

Watch these video try out the technique I reveal and comment below how it goes!

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Art of Seduction – Learning Seduction Takes Time

April 30, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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611So you’re learning seduction huh …

Having fun is important when learning the art of seduction as it constantly keeps you motivated and moving on to become better.

You will find that on your journey to becoming a transformed casanova that sometimes you can be feeling down on yourself (this happens to a lot of guys and its completely natural).

If you’re approaching plenty of women and not getting the reactions you seek then its natural to feel slightly de-motivated to continue, which is why MOST guys give up the game within the first 3 months.

As humans we seek quick fixes and instant results. Sometimes you can start seeing immediate results and sometimes (more often than not) results are slow to realize.

When I run my seduction workshops most guys are at beginner level and haven’t approached many women before, by the end of the night they’ve approached at least 50 women! And they realize instant results and they achieve an ultimate level of state, they feel amazing and want more.

Other seduction workshops I run students are at differ levels of seduction learning and prefer to focus on a key point of attraction, which we do and they again see amazing results.

Have you ever been to the gym and tried to gain muscle mass?
664You work out for 1 solid week, stressing muscles, sweating all over the place, red in the face, huffing and puffing … all that effort! And when you look in the mirror after two weeks you’re still the same weight!

And the strange thing is you KNOW it takes longer to see results but still you’re slightly disappointed …
I have many times… I know how you feel.

I find that I stopped and started the gym visits for the last few years depending on my state. I might watch a bruce lee movie and get instantly motivated again and go back, and again after a few weeks… I see no results so I give up.

It’s a cycle and I kept repeating this.

I was quite amazed (I really was) when I found out that I wasn’t alone and in fact most guys were doing exactly what I was doing (this could be you too?)

The same principle applies especially when learning seduction.

Instant results are RARE (but can happen) : )

A key to excelling fast in the art of seduction is accepting that this can be a long or short road and it all depends on your willingness to learn and your comfort levels at this point in time.

Below are some simple steps you can follow to keep up the spirits and continue learning the art of seduction while making it FUN.

6661.Have no agenda; if you have no agenda or outcome then logically you cant be disappointed. If you head out for a night on the town with a ‘purpose’ or mission i.e getting 10 phone numbers, X amount of make-outs and you don’t acheive these set goals then you’ll feel slightly anxious.
2. Find a friend! It’s better to go out with supportive and friends you know well as most importantly you all have fun together. If you treat pickup as a mathematical equation then women will sense this, having fun is important as it creates lots of emotion with women, so guys the tip here is to avoid boring interview questions, play with her head, tell jokes and casually compliment her (but only if its sincere) important that you don’t overdo this one.
3. Dress pimp; don’t dress in a suit or any business like fashion aka translates I’m “boring”. If you look funky, cool and stand out then women will automatically sense you have confidence to wear these clothes in the first place, and it also conveys you are A FUN GUY. It brings a certain energy to the interaction. This brings me to my next point …
4. ENERGY!!!!! Especially at night time have energy. Being high energy is much better than being shy and quiet (this isn’t cute its creepy). If you meet a guy that speaks and cant be heard, and you have to lean in to talk to him you will understand that it gives off the wrong signals and its creepy. So start being LOUDER. Most of the successful guys I know who are AMAZING with women are super loud.

I’ll talk to you soon!

Your friend
Alex Coulson

3 Mistakes That Men Make With Women

April 30, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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413I’m about to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys make when trying to meet women in everyday situations.

If you really want to become the guy who can walk into ANY coffee shop, book store or supermarket and walk out with 3 to 4 phone numbers or dates from hot women – then you’ve got to make sure you don’t commit these mistakes.

And yes, every guy makes these mistakes. (Yes, even you buddy!)

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MISTAKE #1: Failure To Approach
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The #1 reason why guys don’t approach women is because they think too much. Common thoughts are …

> “What if she rejects me in front of everyone?”
> “I don’t know WHAT to say”
> “She looks busy and probably doesn’t want to be disturbed”
> “A girl that hot definitely has a boyfriend”

These are disempowering thoughts, my friend.

And they’re stopping you from taking the first crucial step to meeting attractive women.

Do you want to eliminate this type of negative thinking?

You can. But you must first understand where these thoughts are coming from.

The answer is FEAR.
443You’re afraid of rejection.

You’re afraid of embarrassing yourself in public.

You’re afraid of women thinking you’re a creep.

And whatever other negative thoughts your brain comes up with.

Now here’s the solution. The quickest way to reduce yourfears and negative thoughts is by DOING what you fear most.

I remember being terrified of heights. But then a friend talked me into bungee jumping and now I’m not scared at all.

So how do you get over your fear of approaching women?

You start by doing “warm up sets”.
444You begin approaching random people in the street and asking them for directions.

After a few “approaches” you’ll soon realize how easy approaching women is. You’ll realize that most people didn’t reject you (and if they did, they were probably so polite, you didn’t care anyway).

After this experience, you’ll be far more likely to approach some HOT women.

Sound simple? That’s because it IS simple. But don’t be a fool and dismiss this technique without trying it first. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.

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MISTAKE #2: You Don’t Know WHAT To Say
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I’ve seen this happen again and again.

A guy works up the courage to approach a woman and start a conversation. She enjoys his company and things are going great.

But then, just minutes later, she walks off!

You ask him “what happened?” And he tells you”I ran out of things to say. She got bored and left.”

Now, was that the truth?

The answer is NO.

The truth is, every guy (including you) have VOLUMES of interesting stories and topics you can talk to women about. There is no need for you to run out of things to say.

I’ve noticed that guys who are successful with womenhave one trait that losers do not. They talk A LOT.

They keep women occupied with regular conversation while their brain thinks of banter lines, cocky comedyand attraction stories to tell her.

You can do the same. Start by opening a hottie yousee on the street or at the mall with an opinion opener.And while she’s giving you her opinion, relax and letyour brain think of cool things to say.

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MISTAKE #3: You Don’t State Your Intent!
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I don’t care what the gurus say …

At some point, a woman needs to know how you feel about her.

If you don’t tell her that you’re attracted to her, then she might put you in the dreaded “friends basket.”

Some of the smoothest pickup artists I’ve seen “in-action”will tell women how they feel about them within MINUTES.

And when you do this, you will generate attraction in womenreally, really FAST. Go ahead and try it. You’ll be blown away.

Now here are some examples of “going direct.”

HER: “…I spent the last 3 years living in Japan”
YOU: “You lived in Japan? That’s SO cool. I love a womanwho is adventurous and travels. I think it’s such a rare and attractive trait. Wow, you can be my new tour guide of Japan!”
HER: “He he, sure!”

So what you need to do is directly TELL her that you’reattracted to her (more than just her looks).

Your Friend,

Alex

Picking Up Women In Coffee Shops

April 30, 2009 by · 1 Comment
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810<!–[if !supportEmptyParas]–><!–[endif]–>Picking up or approaching women in coffee shops is by far the most convenient way to approach women. If you have a busy time schedule but always seem to make time to grab a latte at a coffee shop then you should learn how to start natural and flirty conversations with waitresses or other women in the coffee shop.

Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#1

You’re waiting in line and there’s a hottie in front of you, tap her on the shoulder gently to get her attention and in a firm, friendly voice and a smile say:

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You: Hi there …what coffee do you recommend? There’s so much here to choose from …

Her: hehe yeah I’m getting a mocha they’re pretty nice and I love chocolate so you should get one of those

You: thanks I’ll take your advice, but if I’m not happy I’m coming after you…

Her: hehe okay …

When you get to the counter ask in a loud voice (so the cute girl you were just chatting to can hear)

You: Hi there … Can I get a Latte thanks …

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881Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#2

Relax. Most daytime pickups are very low energy and especially coffee shop pickups. Make sure you slow down your speech (do this if you feel a little nervous) and slow down your movements and body language. If you spot an attractive woman in the coffee shop you slowly walk over and start a conversation. Make it look natural and unrehearsed.

I hope you enjoyed these quick tips on approaching and picking up women in coffee shops.

I’ll talk to you soon,
Alex Coulson

How To Pick Up Thai Women

April 30, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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Here is my short and sweet policy to seducing good-looking women.

Right so you’re at some upmarket bar, you have a drink in hand and you spot this hot model looking blonde standing by herself as she waits for her girlfriends, you know you only have a few minutes before they meet her so you better act quickly what you should talk to her about, how you would walk over there without being too needy and make it look casual and not conveying interest where deep down inside you know you want her … badly.

However you don’t walk over there to talk to her for fear of the approach and you get home at 2am and you punch yourself and whisper to yourself “hell what’s wrong with me … why didn’t I start a conversation with her!”.

This is most likely as this is what I used to be like. Well I’m happy I’ve changed for the better and the excellent news is so can you!

So you crave to master how to pick up women in bars huh?

Picking up young girls is a challenge for most males however if you understand some easy steps to approaching, attracting and continuing the conversation with hot girls then picking up girls will be a heck of a lot simple to do. The key to success with picking up women is all in the attitude and theway you act.

Step #1 Clear your head and stop thinking

This is probably the most pivotal advice I can give you, stop living in your mind and worrying about what other guys think of you. If you’re thinking “what do I say” just before you approach her then chances are you won’t approach as you’re blank minded there trying to wonder something original to say.

Step #2 Stop thinking about women rejecting you

This takes practice and persistence. Stop worrying about rejection! If you keep trying to think about messing things up or running out of things to say, then guess what’s going to happen … That’s right you guessed it you’re going to run out of things to say! If you let your fear own you then you’re not living your own life.

Step #3 Don’t compliment her too early unless it’s sincere

Hot girls will sense that you’re “trying to pick her up” if you throw compliments at her after you just met, they’ll sense that you only want “one thing” and trust me you’re going about it the incorrect way. Hot girls don’t want to be complimented by every male unless it’s a sincere compliment!

Step #4 act like you have a stunning girlfriend already

Hot girls are attracted to guys who already have girlfriends. I know this is strange but the non-neediness of these guys builds and attracts fine-looking girls. So appear like you have a girlfriend and you’re just out to have a great time, by all means don’t say you have a girlfriend as your chances of mounting the wagon will plummet.

Step #5 Don’t let a failed approach dishearten you from more approaching more striking women

I approach/walk up to on average 30 groups of good-looking women on any given Friday or Saturday night and I get colossal success and not all women I approach go well, in fact I’ve met some vicious pieces of work nevertheless I didn’t let this phase me and neither should you. I just kept on approaching these good-looking women.

Want to learn the best way to approach, attract and seduce beautiful women without fear?
If so, take a look at Alex Coulson’s Free Audio Ebook that provides top tips when it comes to attracting striking women in your life.

http://www.DatingWorkshops.com.au