Picking Up Women In Coffee Shops
<!–[if !supportEmptyParas]–><!–[endif]–>Picking up or approaching women in coffee shops is by far the most convenient way to approach women. If you have a busy time schedule but always seem to make time to grab a latte at a coffee shop then you should learn how to start natural and flirty conversations with waitresses or other women in the coffee shop.
Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#1
You’re waiting in line and there’s a hottie in front of you, tap her on the shoulder gently to get her attention and in a firm, friendly voice and a smile say:
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You: Hi there …what coffee do you recommend? There’s so much here to choose from …
Her: hehe yeah I’m getting a mocha they’re pretty nice and I love chocolate so you should get one of those
You: thanks I’ll take your advice, but if I’m not happy I’m coming after you…
Her: hehe okay …
When you get to the counter ask in a loud voice (so the cute girl you were just chatting to can hear)
You: Hi there … Can I get a Latte thanks …
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Coffee Shop Pickup Tip#2
Relax. Most daytime pickups are very low energy and especially coffee shop pickups. Make sure you slow down your speech (do this if you feel a little nervous) and slow down your movements and body language. If you spot an attractive woman in the coffee shop you slowly walk over and start a conversation. Make it look natural and unrehearsed.
I hope you enjoyed these quick tips on approaching and picking up women in coffee shops.
I’ll talk to you soon,
Alex Coulson
3 Quick Tips For Overcoming Anxiety With Approaching Women During The Daytime
“I’m Still Afraid Of Approaching Women During The Daytime”
Does this sound like you?
You’re not alone here as daytime approaching can be the hardest yet most rewarding skill you can master with a bit persistence and practice.
And that’s the beauty of it! I’m not pulling your chain here you can master this and once you do imagine the freedom of choice you have to approach women anytime whether night or day, anywhere and have the courage to take it somewhere further like on a instant date, or maybe just get a phone number it’s entirely up to you.
So the first step is to head to a busy shopping mall or daytime tourist spot to practice. This is key as there’s no point heading out to an abandoned or half empty public place if there’s no one to practice on is there?
If you do this then you could be unconsciously making excuses not to approach and thereby making it harder for yourself. There’s no advantage here I can tell you now as I used to do the same. This makes approaching women during the daytime so much harder and it puts the undue pressure on you to approach people but there are none! So you end up beating yourself up.
So make sure you’re in a busy public area with plenty of attractive women around. Now you’re ready to make some history let’s work on your conversation starter. I like to use an opinion opener during the daytime to stop women but not any ordinary opinion opener as sometimes it can be un-calibrated to ask a random opinion in a public place, so it helps if the opinion opener is situational i.e. something to do with shopping or something she’s wearing. Make sure your opinion opener is tested and works.
Lastly don’t have an objective when you’re practicing this and just starting to learn day game and approaching women during the daytime. Because if you were to have an agenda she will realize it and you may discover her asking you questions like “Why are you asking me this?” etc or even worse she may think you’re trying to sell her something. Focus on chatting and having a genuine conversation as opposed to the former.
So In summary for approaching women during the daytime and overcoming your fear you need to follow these three simple steps:
1. Find a public place where there are plenty of attractive women around to practice on (this is the most important step!)
2. Have a solid conversation starter ready to say. Always have this ready and prepared (this is the second most important step to day game!)
3. Focus on having a normal conversation and NOT having an agenda.
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