Build Attraction By Breaking Your Date Plans With Her

April 29, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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girl_thumb Women are shoppers. They are constantly comparing things and assigning value. The same is true with the guys they date. You should never assume that you have an exclusive contract for her attraction to the opposite sex. What I’m about to share with you will work but it’s not for wimps. If you’re not a REAL man you should stop reading now.

You need to establish yourself as one of the guys in your lady’s life with higher status. Unless you’re willing to take the risks of higher gain you’ll be assigned to the B group of guys she’s dated.

While the principle is simple and fairly easy to put into practice it can be hard to follow if you care about the girl you’re dating. This principle can seem to be and can actually be somewhat disrespectful to her. In the end, though, you’ll cause her to value your time together much more and she’ll enjoy that time a great deal more.

The goal is to create a sense that you’re more valuable. In order to accomplish that you have to become more rare. The rarer the object the higher its value. The best way to achieve that higher status is to take yourself out of the picture by breaking a date with her. This should be done after you’ve had a few dates and established a budding dating relationship.

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It’s a known fact that when you take something away from a person they feel loss. This creates a sense of scarcity and automatically creates a desire within the person experiencing the loss to regain what they’ve lost.

When you deny her your presence on that date you’re actually planting a seed of warning smack in the middle of her emotion center that says you may not be there in the future. While you want this to have a strong impact it can also come across as a harsh disrespect instead of making you more valuable so here are some ways you can head off the impression that you’re being harsh.

· Don’t wait until the last minute. Give her at least two days heads up so she can make plans to do something else.
· When you cancel be sure to tell you can’t make it but you’d like to go out with her another time. This way she’ll feel the loss of you but will have the hope of a future time.
· Don’t go out into the public on the day when your date was scheduled. Think about it. If she sees you or one of her friends see you out and about you’ve just blown your cover!

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Being Romantic Will Never Attract Women – Here’s Why …

April 29, 2009 by Alex · Leave a Comment
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Did you ever watch Pepe’ Le Pew cartoons when you were a kid? The poor female cat with the fake stripe down her back would back away from Pepe’s romantic advances in any way she could. Now this was mainly because of Pepe’s odor, but the whole schtick that Pepe’ had was equally as obnoxious as his smell.

Romance too soon in a relationship has the same affect as a rose perfume that’s been poured on – you can’t enjoy the delicacy of the scent because it’s too much. Instead of enjoying the scent, it gags you.

Now, don’t misunderstand me here. Women love a romantic evening. But not when she’s just getting to know you.

She wants to see who she’s with and learn the things about you that are important. Romance right up front sets off red lights that you’re only wanting to get in her pants. Or that you aren’t able to have a day-to-day normal relationship. Basically, it creeps her out.

Put your focus on getting to know her, and letting her get to know you. This will build attraction with the things that you have in common. This will also open up a way for the two of you to learn about your differences. This is just as important a part of the relationship as being romantic. This is where you both decide if you like each other enough to want to be romantic with each other. Learn to like each other as people first.

Continue to build attraction through building a rapport with her. When it’s time for romance to occur, it will become very evident to both of you. No doubt, this is an area where you can really impress her. That’s great! Great romance will take her breath away. Then, in turn, she’ll take your breath away.

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