Chick Magnet Interviews Alex Coulson On DayGame and Picking Up Women
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In this interview Graham Stoney from Chick Magnet interviews me on Day Game, Starting Conversations with women during the day, making them laugh and much more.
This hour long interview contains no boring theory, fluff or filler content just techniques, stories and practical tips you can implement starting today, this is not to be missed.
Warmly,
Alex Coulson
The Pickup Artist Tv Show on VH1 Starring Mystery & Matador
This is an article on the TV Show The Pickup Artist which is aired around the world showing men how to approach women, build attraction, gain rapport and ultimately seal the deal with random girls.
The TV show about pickup artists has been successful thus far, so successful workshops and interest in pua boot camps are going sky high. Read on to find out more.
What is “The Pickup Artist” and How to Become One?
First to learn the ropes to become a pickup artist you need to understand this is a long road to travel as it took me for example 6 months to achieve my first kiss close in a bar. I went out 5 nights a week and 2 daytimes a week for 6 months and never achieved anything (not even a phone number). I was miserable and thought there must be something wrong with ME, you’ll find out that this is a common occurrence in many PUAs (Pickup artists). They believe the problems lies internally with them and they can’t change it, they are stuck with the hand that was dealt to them. DEAD WRONG.
The problem usually lies with 10% inner game and 90% outer game i.e. conversation starters, routines, keeping the conversation going, funny stories and other outer game tactics. Also many PUAs have to familiarize and become accustomed to rejection on a daily basis.
This isn’t easy street and rejection from women is tough. You have to bite the bullet and deal with it unfortunately to get good and be able to approach women on a consistent basis. If you want to be good expect to be rejected around 1000 times before some REAL skills set in. So what’s the first step to becoming a pickup artist? GO OUT MORE.
Going out to bars and clubs
Firstly get out of the house and find a friend to approach women with. Most guys don’t go out enough generally let alone have a trusty reliable wingman. Every good pickup artist worth his salt has a trusty friend and wingman to join him and help him put up with obstacles and interrupting friends who enter your sarge. You need a friend to occupy them and isolate them away from your target. Finding a friend is easy in the community however finding a decent wingman is difficult. The worst thing you can do that will affect your game is hang out with guys who have no idea what they’re doing.
Learn openers and basic routines
The reason I say this is its imperative if you want to be a successful pickup artist to have something to say. I could be unhelpful and say routines are bad and you shouldn’t be fake and you should be yourself around women, however how will this help you? If what you’re doing now isn’t attracting women and you’re BEING yourself then shouldn’t you try something different?
Don’t get me wrong here … If you want to be a successful pickup artist you will have to stray away from routines eventually and start gaming naturally and using your own life stories and DHVs however if you’re just starting out then you’ll need a few things memorized to say, otherwise you wont be able to start the conversation let alone continue it. Routines and pickup lines that PUAs memorize are there for training wheels and that is all.
How to Be a Top Pick Up Artist?
Many guys out there want to be trained by the top dogs and learn from the best. This is completely understandable and also makes a lot of sense. However you need to understand that the top pickup artists get approached and solicited by many guys who want coaching for free and offer no value so why should they give you their valuable time?
The key her to realize is that if you find a pickup artist who has great game you want to proposition them with something of exchanged value such as you lend them your skills and they lend you theirs in return.
The Pick Up Artists Life – The Persistent Attitude
The Key To Becoming a GOOD Pick Up Artist
Some of the most successful pickup artists have a skill that can NOT be taught on the workshops, in fact the pick up artist probably doesn’t even know he has this skill as its unconscious, or outside the real of their consciousness and they don’t even know they have this unique skill.
That skill is the “unwavering belief in themselves”
Some would say this is confidence and they would be right, it’s also a mixture of arrogance, pride and a few other things.
This is a GOOD skill to have and I’ll tell you why in just a second.
Most budding pickup artists are in the ‘game’ for three months or less and they give up, they give it a try and go out a few times with their buddies they do about half the approaches they could do, and they say they’re not really getting the results of other PUAs out there are getting so they give up. Then a few months later they’re back again giving it another try.
There’s nothing wrong with this don’t get me wrong, in fact this is good that they remained unwavering and giving it another shot. What I am trying to say however is that you should keep going from the get go and never let rejection stop you, or “club” girls attitude deter you.
The skill the drives success in life, in business, personal relationships and other areas is persistence, it’s having this belief in yourself that you can do it and you deserve it. Most importantly is that you DESERVE IT as this will always provide you with a drive to achieve it.
Man guys I’ve coached through my workshop business have learned somewhat skills (from me and others) on being persistent at pickup even when the odds seem like they’re against you.
So what is persistence and some good examples?
I’ve met a lot of successful pick up artists in my life either when I’m interviewing them, running a workshop on some of my travels and bumping into them or just been introduced to them and these insightful guys all possess the skill of persistence and belief.
Persistence:
· Continuity: the property of a continuous and connected period of time
· Doggedness: persistent determination
I like the last word DETERMINATION.
Some good examples of PUA Persistence:
** Never let a rejection from a girl deter or stop you from more approaches
** Never let a bad breakup deter you from feeling for another girl again in the future
** Always be positive in-light of any circumstances (this will always guide you to a solution)
** Even if she has a boyfriend be persistent as most girls who say they have a partner don’t in fact and she’s just testing you.
To become a pick up artist you need the skill of persistence, if you get shot down or rejected then take a breather, have a coffee, don’t get inside your head and think “why, what’s wrong, what am I doing wrong” etc just have a break and keep going. This is the best way to get good at this.
Talk soon
Your friend,
Alex
Three Tips to Cure Shyness Around Women
Being shy around a woman is a very common occurrence. It’s so common it happens every day. Here are some tips on overcoming that shyness around women.
Change your expectations. When you talk to a woman, are you wanting to have an enjoyable experience or are you going in for the kill? Changing your expectations is the first step to cure shyness. The goal is to enjoy yourself and have a good time with each other. Not to become romantically involved right out of the starting gate.
Decide what it is that you really want. Take time to figure out what you really want, then make an action plan on how to achieve it. This is the complete opposite of going into the relationship without preparing to present yourself. This is detailed planning of what you really want to happen.
“Just Do It” Start talking to different women. This is going to require that you leave your comfort zone and get ready for whatever is in store. You may get rejection; that’s alright. You take the rejection and work to see what went wrong. Then you pull that element out and start again. Once you have gotten to a place where you can talk with a woman without becoming completely tongue-tied, then begin working on an action plan so you can take the relationship to the next level.
That’s everything in a nutshell. It’s all about getting out there and just start talking. Women won’t bite you – they won’t even take a nibble before they get to know you. So stand tall, take in your breath, and talk to women everywhere. They want to talk with you more than you know. Remember these simple rules and you can get a good deal of experience talking with all types of women.
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Are You Dealing With Her Ex Boyfriend? – Try These Techniques
Ex-boyfriends can be a real pain in the rear end. Here’s a few ways to handle some of the baggage of the ex.
1. Keep things light and casual for a while. No pressure, no expectations. This is especially true for a woman who has just broken up. More than likely, she is carrying a lot of excess emotional baggage. If you want to have a relationship with her, this is difficult. If you just want to have sex, it can be hazardous. Easy does it. If the woman is on the rebound, she may want to have sex fairly quickly. Don’t be surprised, however, if you find yourself with a weeping woman in your bed.
2. Stay away from the topic of past relationships for both of you. Neither she nor you want to put someone else in the middle of your relationship. If she does talk about her ex a lot, it’s time to break it off. She will be having thoughts and feelings for him while she is with you. That’s extremely unhealthy for both of you.
3. Be open and honest. There will likely be times when you do or say something that will remind her of her ex. This is to be expected to a certain degree. If she and you find yourself talking about the past relationship in an open and adult way, listen to what she says about how she thinks the relationship broke apart. This will also give you some insight into her mind and feelings.
Be careful, though, if she has told you that the relationship she just got out of was abusive and she see’s things in you that remind her of her ex. One of two things is going on there: she perceives you to be an abusive person or, she see’s you as someone who has all of her ex.’s good characteristic and none of the bad ones. Either way you have a dangerous scenario before you.
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