The Pickup Artist Tv Show on VH1 Starring Mystery & Matador
This is an article on the TV Show The Pickup Artist which is aired around the world showing men how to approach women, build attraction, gain rapport and ultimately seal the deal with random girls.
The TV show about pickup artists has been successful thus far, so successful workshops and interest in pua boot camps are going sky high. Read on to find out more.
What is “The Pickup Artist” and How to Become One?
First to learn the ropes to become a pickup artist you need to understand this is a long road to travel as it took me for example 6 months to achieve my first kiss close in a bar. I went out 5 nights a week and 2 daytimes a week for 6 months and never achieved anything (not even a phone number). I was miserable and thought there must be something wrong with ME, you’ll find out that this is a common occurrence in many PUAs (Pickup artists). They believe the problems lies internally with them and they can’t change it, they are stuck with the hand that was dealt to them. DEAD WRONG.
The problem usually lies with 10% inner game and 90% outer game i.e. conversation starters, routines, keeping the conversation going, funny stories and other outer game tactics. Also many PUAs have to familiarize and become accustomed to rejection on a daily basis.
This isn’t easy street and rejection from women is tough. You have to bite the bullet and deal with it unfortunately to get good and be able to approach women on a consistent basis. If you want to be good expect to be rejected around 1000 times before some REAL skills set in. So what’s the first step to becoming a pickup artist? GO OUT MORE.
Going out to bars and clubs
Firstly get out of the house and find a friend to approach women with. Most guys don’t go out enough generally let alone have a trusty reliable wingman. Every good pickup artist worth his salt has a trusty friend and wingman to join him and help him put up with obstacles and interrupting friends who enter your sarge. You need a friend to occupy them and isolate them away from your target. Finding a friend is easy in the community however finding a decent wingman is difficult. The worst thing you can do that will affect your game is hang out with guys who have no idea what they’re doing.
Learn openers and basic routines
The reason I say this is its imperative if you want to be a successful pickup artist to have something to say. I could be unhelpful and say routines are bad and you shouldn’t be fake and you should be yourself around women, however how will this help you? If what you’re doing now isn’t attracting women and you’re BEING yourself then shouldn’t you try something different?
Don’t get me wrong here … If you want to be a successful pickup artist you will have to stray away from routines eventually and start gaming naturally and using your own life stories and DHVs however if you’re just starting out then you’ll need a few things memorized to say, otherwise you wont be able to start the conversation let alone continue it. Routines and pickup lines that PUAs memorize are there for training wheels and that is all.
How to Be a Top Pick Up Artist?
Many guys out there want to be trained by the top dogs and learn from the best. This is completely understandable and also makes a lot of sense. However you need to understand that the top pickup artists get approached and solicited by many guys who want coaching for free and offer no value so why should they give you their valuable time?
The key her to realize is that if you find a pickup artist who has great game you want to proposition them with something of exchanged value such as you lend them your skills and they lend you theirs in return.
Are You Lucky or Successful With Women?
Okay, you’ve just gotten a date with one of the best looking women you’ve seen in a long time. You’re feeling pretty good about yourself right now. Boy, you are one lucky dude!
Really? Was it luck that she’s going out with you, or did you put some time and effort into getting her attention, approaching her, and starting a conversation that led to the date? Or was it skill?
This may sound like semantics, but there is a big difference between the two. If you think of yourself as lucky, your chances with women will be, at best, hit and miss. But, if you have confidence in your skill with flirting, approaching, and talking with women, you know that you can meet whoever you want and get a date with her at any time of your choosing.
That’s not just big, that’s huge.
Belief and confidence in your skill with women plays a big part of who you are and how well you present yourself. This belief in your skill helps to build your confidence.
Women love to be around a confident man. A man who is confident in himself can write his own ticket when it comes to dating.
Practicing the skills that it takes to meet women have paid off. You believed in yourself, did the work, and now the time has come to reap the rewards.
The truth of this is that if you believe you can do it, then you can. Luck has nothing to do with it. Belief in yourself keeps you practicing; practicing hones your skill; skill builds confidence.
It’s that simple. Believe you can do it, and you can!
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Become a Master of Attraction and How to Stop Being an Average Guy
You’re probably like most other guys. An average guy. A decent, hard-working fellow that is nice, neat, and respectful. You listen to her attentively. You’re polite and cautious with what you say and do. There’s only one problem:
Average equates to boring.
Don’t get me wrong. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with any of the things that are mentioned above. It’s just that they don’t make you stand out from the crowd. Keep being decent, hardworking, and the rest of it. Well, you might want to rethink the cautious with what you say and do. This is where loosening up will be a big improvement.
The fastest way to stand out in a crowd is to be funny. The second way is knowing what to do to have fun. The first can be a little tricky to master, but the second is a matter of talking and asking questions, then listening to answers. Which is interesting conversation.
When you find out what other people, girls in particular, like to do, become the supplier of that fun. If they like to talk about politics, suggest going to a political rally and follow it up with a discussion at a local pub. If the group of girls you have been talking with like comedy, suggest going to a comedy club for the evening. Become the guy who’s knowledgeable about what’s going on around town. The guy that knows how to make a good time. The guy that everyone goes to. That’s not average.
Standing out from the crowd can take many forms. The point is that anyone can do average. Making yourself special is a way to become more attractive to the opposite sex. You will stand out in her mind, and that’s what you want. And you’ll never be average again.
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3 Quick Tips For Overcoming Anxiety With Approaching Women During The Daytime
“I’m Still Afraid Of Approaching Women During The Daytime”
Does this sound like you?
You’re not alone here as daytime approaching can be the hardest yet most rewarding skill you can master with a bit persistence and practice.
And that’s the beauty of it! I’m not pulling your chain here you can master this and once you do imagine the freedom of choice you have to approach women anytime whether night or day, anywhere and have the courage to take it somewhere further like on a instant date, or maybe just get a phone number it’s entirely up to you.
So the first step is to head to a busy shopping mall or daytime tourist spot to practice. This is key as there’s no point heading out to an abandoned or half empty public place if there’s no one to practice on is there?
If you do this then you could be unconsciously making excuses not to approach and thereby making it harder for yourself. There’s no advantage here I can tell you now as I used to do the same. This makes approaching women during the daytime so much harder and it puts the undue pressure on you to approach people but there are none! So you end up beating yourself up.
So make sure you’re in a busy public area with plenty of attractive women around. Now you’re ready to make some history let’s work on your conversation starter. I like to use an opinion opener during the daytime to stop women but not any ordinary opinion opener as sometimes it can be un-calibrated to ask a random opinion in a public place, so it helps if the opinion opener is situational i.e. something to do with shopping or something she’s wearing. Make sure your opinion opener is tested and works.
Lastly don’t have an objective when you’re practicing this and just starting to learn day game and approaching women during the daytime. Because if you were to have an agenda she will realize it and you may discover her asking you questions like “Why are you asking me this?” etc or even worse she may think you’re trying to sell her something. Focus on chatting and having a genuine conversation as opposed to the former.
So In summary for approaching women during the daytime and overcoming your fear you need to follow these three simple steps:
1. Find a public place where there are plenty of attractive women around to practice on (this is the most important step!)
2. Have a solid conversation starter ready to say. Always have this ready and prepared (this is the second most important step to day game!)
3. Focus on having a normal conversation and NOT having an agenda.
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