5 Steps To Approaching & Attracting Women During The Day

April 29, 2009 by · Leave a Comment
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120The first step to meeting women is going out and we all know we have to do this, to some of us however its considered a chore or something we HAVE to do to meet women.

Here’s the secret … you don’t have to go out specifically to approach women, just do your normal everyday activities and incorporate chatting to women as part of it. So consider heading to your nearest shopping mall, the local café, the local supermarket and chatting to some women there.

Here are some quick tips to consider when approaching women during the day:

1. Keep the energy level low. That’s not to say walk around like a zombie just tone down your energy levels so leave the red bull at home and limit your coffee intake. Imagine your energy levels in a bar or club would be an 8/10 as its loud in bars and very distracting, well during the day I want you to half that energy level into 4/10.

2. Focus on making her day as opposed to getting a phone number or specific outcome from it. If you have an agenda she’ll sense it and red flags will go up. For the first few times going out just focus on having a real conversation, make her laugh and then walk away satisfied of this, if she offers her phone number then by all means take it. : )

3. Smile and be friendly. It’ll surprise you how many guys forget to do this as they’re too struck with panic and anxiety of approaching her in the first place that they let there nerves get the better over them and smiling then becomes a great effort. Your smile doesn’t have to be like Jim Careys character the grinch just keep it light and you’ll be surprised of the different reactions you get in your interactions, actually you’ll find that it’s a good test to approach 5 women without smiling and another 5 women whilst smiling and then you’ll see what I’m talking about.

4. Take a friend. I sometimes do this as it’s more fun when you have your best mate there alongside you to watch and critique your approaches, are you putting your hands in your pocket? Leaning in while you talk? Have anxious body language? Then only an outsider who’s watching your approach can tell you this. Its even better when you approach two women together and you can talk to both the girls that way you both walk away with some success.

5. Have a reward for yourself. This simply means when you finish your days approaches reward yourself for the work you put in, take yourself out to dinner or buy yourself a beer so this motivates you to keep doing this on a weekly basis. As a rule of thumb when you’re just getting into this you should try to make 2 days a week dedicated to this.

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Proper Timing Can Be Attractive To Women – Here’s How …

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62The right timing can mean the difference between winning and losing. In the boxing ring, one well timed punch can knock out the opponent, but if that same punch is delivered just a second later it can result in hitting nothing but air. Now, obviously, attracting women with boxing isn’t what I’m talking about, but learning about timing is.

With the wrong timing you can come on too strong when she’s just not ready. You also could make your move too late and the moment of attraction dies on the vine. Timing is a learned skill. Not some esoteric thing that some guys have and some don’t. Timing is developed by observation and practice.

The next time your out with the rest of humanity find a place it sit down and just watch people. Watch the body language of women in the area. What are they doing when they’re talking with their friends as opposed when they’re talking with their lovers? Watch how different men approach women and take note of which approaches are successful and which ones aren’t.

Watch two lovers. Be downright scientific about this. Do they go from hand holding to passionate kissing in a matter of seconds? Not usually. Watch the different body language structures, facial expressions, touches, smiles. While watching one of the things that you will observe is that women are always sending out signals. Knowing what to do with those signals is what timing is about.

Now, this type of education might sound manipulative or deceitful, but it isn’t. Of course, you want to be more attractive to women, but the woman that you’re with will be the recipient of this education. And she will like the fact that you are so attentive to her. She’ll read this as you being so into her that you know what she wants and when to make the right moves. A very sexy thing for any woman.

Remember, HAVE FUN!

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