Chick Magnet Interviews Alex Coulson On DayGame and Picking Up Women
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In this interview Graham Stoney from Chick Magnet interviews me on Day Game, Starting Conversations with women during the day, making them laugh and much more.
This hour long interview contains no boring theory, fluff or filler content just techniques, stories and practical tips you can implement starting today, this is not to be missed.
Warmly,
Alex Coulson
4 Tips For Attracting Girls
4 Tips For Attracting Girls
Humor in and of itself is not the proven method for attracting women. When humor is used skillfully, the results are phenomenal. Women LOVE to laugh. They love to have fun. They love to tease and to be teased. The skill is in knowing how, when, and how much humor to use.
Use your body language. Your words account for about 7% of your conversation. Your body language accounts for about 80%, with facial expression and tone of voice accounting for the other 13%. Women are constantly reading people. No, they can’t read your mind, but they are naturally intuitive about people. It’s in their genes. Be relaxed in your body language. This includes smiling, making eye contact, laughing, leaning toward her, and so forth. All the humor in the world won’t do you a bit of good unless she knows that it’s meant for her.
Be a bit of a show off. Everyone knows who’s the show off in the room. Believe it or not, women are attracted to this, as long as it’s not mean-spirited or used too much. Women like this trait because they are drawn to someone who can take charge of a situation. They also like to be with someone who’s smart. How does being a show off do that? When you can attract everyone’s attention and make people laugh at outrageous things you come across as friendly. That talent means that you’re fun to be with, you’re not boring, and you know where the lines of decency are. Therefore, you’ll be fun, adventurous, and will respect her.
Be playful with her. Playing around with your mates is ok, but when it comes to women, a lot of guys turn into jelly. Women like to play, too. They like the challenge of the game. Remember, she’s there for a reason, too. She loves to banter back and forth, as long as it’s kept fun and light.
Make her the center of your attention. Women love it when you focus on them. When you’re being funny in a crowd, focus some of that humor on her in a positive way. Compliment her laugh or smile. Say she has a great sense of humor. If you feel daring, challenge her to a battle of wits. Be careful with this last one. It can cut both ways. Remember to keep things positive and lavish the attention on her.
Humor is one of the easiest and most revealing tools you can use. You not only have some fun yourself, but you’ll find out about her sense of humor as well. She may be an introvert who doesn’t know how to have fun, or she may be fun-loving free spirit. Which one would you choose? You’ll know when you use humor.
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How To Attract Women By Playing Hard To Get and Being Busy
There are so many tips available to help you attract women. As much as these tips indeed can help you attract more women, you can attract more women with just one simple technique. Be busy. That’s it. You can get a woman’s attention and increase her desire by having a busy life, or at least appearing to have a busy life.
You’re more likely to receive more attention and desire from her by giving the impression that you’re busy.
Here’s why…
For many men, the challenge is not getting a woman’s phone number. Maybe they have fine-tuned their skills and have moved beyond that hurdle and can easily get the number. But, many guys still struggle with the “post-number” phase when they need to follow up and actually get a date. The problem is usually that the chemistry and intrigue created during the first conversation have diminished somewhat. As a woman turns her attention to other matters in her daily life, your call gradually becomes less of her focal point.
This is fairly natural occurrence. No, the solution is not to call her immediately after the first conversation. You simply need to rebuild her interest, desire and attraction. Stimulate her desire again, and you can do this best by remembering a common tip yet applying it with a twist. Women tend to be generally more attracted those with more active, exciting lives. Peak her curiosity by showing her that you are a “busy guy.”
A woman will be more intrigued if it appears that there is a lot going on and requiring your attention. Suddenly, your value increases as it is obvious you are not anxiously waiting to see her again or sitting by the telephone waiting for the call. Also, she may even think you are dating or at least talking to other women, which increases her desire for your attention. Again, a little competition, whether present or not in reality, increases the challenge on her end and your value in her eyes.
Wouldn’t it be better to have her waiting by the phone for you call? How can you keep that attraction there after you get her number? Here’s how.
During that first call, be sure to express that there are just quite a few things requiring your attention during the upcoming week and, as much as you wish you did, you presently have no free time. Emphasize that you would like to see her but that it has “been very busy lately.” You want to avoid giving the impression that you do not want to see her but do not apologize for your busy life. Just imply with subtlety that you wish you had the time to see her that week, but just do not.
Now, you can go ahead and plan for a date during that conversation for a time when things “slow down.” Once the date is set and the plans are made, end the call and get off the phone since you have “things to do” or “need to be somewhere.” Do not be too specific, though, but make it sound somewhat important or interesting to again, spike her curiosity.
Once you are on the date, talk a little about some of the activities that have been requiring your time lately. The point is to make it clear that you are a busy guy but that you do want to include her in your “schedule.”
This approach is effective. The last thing you want to do after getting her phone number is to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life!
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3 Steps To Successful Body Language When Approaching Women During The Daytime
Approach Women with the Right Kind of Body Language
Your body language can say a lot about you. People can tell if you’re happy, sad, bored, in pain, excited, tense, etc. by what your body language is saying. The body language you have when approaching women is the first thing they see and will make you or break you.
There are three rules to remember about your body language: 1) be friendly and approachable, 2) sideways facing for approach, and 3) be relaxed.
1) be friendly and approachable - if your posture is rigid, your arms crossed, and your shoulders are tensed up, and your jaw is locked, you look anxious and possibly angry. Try this posture: leaning back on a rail or wall, your arms are down to your sides, your head is up and your shoulders are relaxed. You have a smile on your face and your shaking your head up and down while you’re talking with others. This is a much more open and friendly posture and facial expression.
2) sideways facing for approach – when coming up to meet a woman avoid coming directly in front of her. This type of approach is too direct and can make a woman feel aggressed. Approach her slightly on the side. Not too far back where she can’t see you, but not directly in front of her. This gives her the option of turning to you to give you her full attention, or, stay sideways to you to assess you a bit. This give her a bit of control when meeting you and the first conversation.
3) be relaxed – remain relaxed in your posture and attitude. Yes, your attitude is part of your body language. Smile, move your arms and hands freely. Move your eyes around her face from time to time. This will be more natural and friendly, putting her at ease.
If you follow these three rules for body language when you go out to meet anyone, anywhere. You’ll find that this is easy, quick, and friendly.
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Talk Soon!
Alex
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