Succeed At Dating Blog » alex coulson http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog How To Approach Women, Pickup Women and Seduce Mon, 28 Nov 2011 05:34:43 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 PUA World Summit – With Vince Kelvin, Johnny Wolf and Alex Coulson – Hollywood September 24th-26th 2011 http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/promotions/pua-world-summit/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=pua-world-summit http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/promotions/pua-world-summit/#comments Fri, 19 Aug 2011 03:41:26 +0000 Alex http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/?p=1472 Hey Guys!

I’ll be speaking at the World PUA Summit
in Hollywood, CA on September 24th – 26th.

Join me and 13 other world class
coaches and learn conversation starters,
how to approach women without fear, overcoming AA
and much much more.

Check it out here:
http://succeedatdating.com/puaworldsummit/

It’s a 3 day event and I’ve secured some very cheap
seminar tickets for my subscribers, but hurry as this
event sold out last year with over 300 people attending!

So book your seat today to ensure you don’t miss out:
http://succeedatdating.com/puaworldsummit/

Talk soon!
Alex

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A brand new video on how to keep the conversation going. I still use this technique even to this day in most of my conversations with women. Question + statement = not running out of things to say.

The statement should add value i.e be comical/be positive/teach her something/tell her a story etc

If you would like to learn more on how to meet women during the daytime without fear or nervousness check out our program Street Dating Revealed for live hidden camera approaches of Alex Coulson and students.

To your success with women!
Alex

]]> http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/approach-women/how-to-keep-the-conversation-going-and-never-run-out-of-things-to-say/feed/ 10 Attract Women By Breaking Rapport http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/attract-women-by-breaking-rapport/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=attract-women-by-breaking-rapport http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/attract-women-by-breaking-rapport/#comments Thu, 19 May 2011 08:20:37 +0000 Alex http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/?p=1447 Breaking Rapport To Attract More Women

She is a stunning blonde sitting alone at the bar. The first guy, let’s call him Adam, approaches her and starts a conversation. Things go well, and eventually he asks her “so, what do you do for a living?” She responds “I’m a nurse”.

Adam responds “Oh wow, sexy and caring, that’s great” then continues with “you know, nurses don’t get paid enough for all the hard work you do”.

Adam is attempting to build rapport. He wants her to like him. He has paid her a compliment and has shown empathy about her job. As the conversation continues, he will probably agree with everything she says, even if he believes the opposite.

Now another guy, John, enters the bar and approaches her. After a few minutes of conversation, he asks her the same question “what do you do for a living?” and she answers “I’m a nurse”. But his response totally throws her off …

“A nurse? Does that mean you like washing old people’s bottoms?” she looks at him, with a surprised look on her face. She can’t believe what he just said, and playfully slaps him on the arm. She begins to qualify herself, explaining that her job does not involve washing anyone’s bottoms.

As the conversation continues, John playfully challenges some of the things she says. He is never rude. He never *negs* or intentionally offends her.

She becomes curious about him, wondering why he is acting different to all the other guys. She actually enjoys the conversation more, because she is taken on an emotional rollercoaster ride. She is kept on her toes, wondering if he likes her or not, and guessing what he will say next.

Most attractive women are used to men trying to build rapport with them. It’s a very boring conversation when someone agrees with everything you say.

However, when you break rapport by disagreeing or playfully challenging her, you stand out from all the other guys who attempt to build rapport with her.

Think about it. This is what high value men or “bad boys” do. They challenge women with their own opinions and beliefs. They don’t put attractive women on a pedestal. Instead, they make fun of them, whenever the opportunity presents itself.

Here are some examples of breaking rapport …

HER: “I love olives”.
YOU: “Really? I think olives taste like rubber”

HER: “Will you buy me a drink?”
YOU: “I don’t know you well enough yet. Tell me about yourself …”

HER: “Have you seen the new Brad Pitt movie?”
YOU: “Why would I? Brad Pitt is gay.”

Another way of breaking rapport is using self-depreciating humour. It’s especially powerful when women attempt to build rapport with you. You’re not accepting her indicators of interest too easily. You’re more of a challenge.

HER: “Lets go dance”
YOU: “No thanks. I dance like a retard”.

HER: “What are you doing on Saturday night?”
YOU: “Probably playing World of Warcraft with my buddies online”.

HER: “How old are you?”
YOU: “What’s with all of the questions? Are you a cop or something?”

Another easy way of breaking rapport is to focus your attention on something or somebody else, for a while. In the middle of conversation with a woman, you may shift your focus to her friend (or your friend) and ask them a random question.

Or you may interrupt her mid conversation, because you suddenly noticed a fascinating painting, object, or event nearby. Give that “thing” all of your attention and make comments about it.

She wonders why, unlike other guys, you are not giving her your full attention. You seem less needy and appear to have higher value.

Breaking rapport is a powerful way of demonstrating that you’re an attractive, high value man with your own opinions and interests, other than her.

 

JACK AUTHOR BIO

Jack is the co-founder of Succeed At Dating and a superstar at day game.
The art of meeting and attracting women in the daytime. Jack
offers live, in-field training workshops at DayGameSecrets.com

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Unlike Any Other Dating Seminar You’ve Ever Been To Before …

Have you ever been to a seminar where the speaker(s) bores you for hours with his latest and greatest “theories”. But never shows you how his theories work in “the real world?”

Anyone can stand on stage, read a few slides, and sound impressive. But how do you know if what their saying is TRUE or FALSE? How do you know their advice really works? You don’t.

The Attraction Summit will be unlike any other seminar you’ve attended before. You will experience less “talking” and much more DOING. And when I say “doing” I mean …

LIVE Demonstrations

Each speaker will not only teach you their best techniques but to also demonstrate their methods LIVE on stage with our attractive super girls. You’ll get to witness each expert approaching, starting conversations and building attraction, right before your eyes!

Click here to check out The Attraction Summit

Drills and Exercises

Most people forget what they learn at seminars. You write a few pages of notes, go home, and never read your notes again. At The Attraction Summit you will be taken through a series of fun and interesting drills and exercises to make sure you remember all the important lessons!

Personalized Coaching Sessions

You will have the opportunity to participate in our hot seat sessions. You could be invited to join ALL of the speakers on stage and share your biggest challenges or sticking points with them. And have the speakers give you specific, step-by-step advice on what to do in YOUR situation. This kind of personalized coaching is invaluable (most would charge $250 for coaching!)

Click here to check out The Attraction Summit

Talk soon and see you there gents!

Alex Coulson

p.s we have some awesome speakers this year!

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This a student of mine approaching a girl on his workshop. She seems stand-offish at first however she quickly warms up and he gets her phone number. Great going mate – good job.

Alex

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Click Here To Download MP3

Here’s what you’ll learn in this 60 minute audio …

** Inner Game And Confidence
** Approaching Women Anywhere
** Conversation And Rapport
** Escalating Seduction

In a nutshell … I answer the most common questions about the FOUR biggest topics of women and dating. And you get to listen to the entire audio for free.

To Check Out The Other Audios From Guru Black Book Click Here

Enjoy!

Talk Soon
Alex Coulson

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This is another video from a guest contributor to our video blog and youtube channel.

]]> http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/using-pick-up-lines-to-start-conversations-with-women/feed/ 1 David Deangelo, Neil Strauss and Mystery Dance Off – Cool Video : ) http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/david-deangelo-neil-strauss-and-mystery-dance-off-cool-video/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=david-deangelo-neil-strauss-and-mystery-dance-off-cool-video http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/david-deangelo-neil-strauss-and-mystery-dance-off-cool-video/#comments Tue, 19 Oct 2010 05:08:55 +0000 Alex http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/?p=1345

Happy Halloween fellas. Someone sent me this video as a joke and found it hilarious so I want to share it here. It features Neil Strauss, David Deangelo, and Mystery .. oh and myself.

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Watch My Pick Up Videos Here Of Me Approaching Women In The Streets

This is a quick video on an approach I did a few days ago and how I stopped this girl in the street on the context of “buying a cookbook” for a family member. It’s a good conversation starter that I’ve used a few times and recommend guys try it as it works like a charm.

To your success as always with women!

Alex

]]> http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/pick-up-artist/great-conversation-starter-for-meeting-women-in-bookstores-and-the-streets/feed/ 8 PUA Training – Gambler aka Richard La Ruina and Alex Coulson http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/promotions/pua-training-gambler-aka-richard-la-ruina-and-alex-coulson/#utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=pua-training-gambler-aka-richard-la-ruina-and-alex-coulson http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/promotions/pua-training-gambler-aka-richard-la-ruina-and-alex-coulson/#comments Thu, 10 Jun 2010 12:01:24 +0000 Alex http://www.succeedatdating.com/blog/?p=1241

Hey Guys!

Recently, while visiting London on holidays, I got a call
from this “weird” guy named Richard La Ruina.

He wanted to interview me on VIDEO.

Now, I had never met Richard before. Sure, we talked on the phone many times before, but we had never met in person.

Don’t get me wrong, Richard is a super-cool guy who is very successful with women, (and his students get great results too).

I just felt WEIRD meeting him the first time.

So I enter Richards apartment and sit on the couch with him. There is a video camera pointing in our direction. I agree to the interview and then …

Richard spends the next 40 MINUTES absolutely grilling me to reveal every single tip, technique, and secret I know about “DAY GAME”.

And you can watch the video here for FREE:

http://succeedatdating.com/puatraining/

By the end of the recording, I was utterly exhausted from talking. I wanted to sleep on his couch!

FREE VIDEO: (nothing to buy folks!)
http://succeedatdating.com/puatraining/

Talk Soon,
Alex Coulson

PS. This really is a great interview with lots of FREE content. Nothing to buy. Just lots of great advice.

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