NEW VIDEO REVEALS : Are Looks That Important When Attracting Women?

13 Comments on NEW VIDEO REVEALS : Are Looks That Important When Attracting Women?

anthony on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 12:35 am


Hey Alex I totally agree with you on this, looks play a part but hardly any compared with personality. Personality is everything. Thanks man

roger dodger on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 12:42 am


Okay this is a very good point. A lot of my friends are lets say “GOOD LOOKING” and I’m very far from it. However I know I get more success and dates etc than them by far because like you say Alex you have to be always approaching . And I do this.
Dude keep up the good work, I’ve watched all your videos and I’m a member and everyday I approach 3-4 women and get many great dates out of this.

Thanks man.
RD

Julian on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 1:49 am


Hey, thank you for answering that question because I’ve been thinking about this more than once lately. I’d say I’m a rather good looking guy. I think I relied too much on my looks in the past and it didn’t help me at all. Now, with some new confidence and your help I approach as well. Your style is the most likeable in the community and that’s why I’m modeling you. I’m translating every little sentence in german and I practise in front of the mirror. I’ve already brought some australian “alex coulson style” to the streets of Germany : )

However, I do hope to develop my very own style in time. As with every habit, it takes time to build that habit and mindset. You have been a great help and inspiration on my way of becoming successful at dating !

- Julian

Adam on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 4:29 am


You consistently talk about building trust in your videos. Can you explain what are key elements to building trust. How would you display that your trustworthy when approaching women?

Vinny on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 5:29 am


Alex, you convinced me even more. I actually thought men who were good looking would have a considerable advantage over other average men. I also knew that looks didn’t matter. But there was one time where a wingman was taking all the credit, he didn’t speak a word, just doing what his personality told him to do. All i did was watch her do all the work to him. I thought, hey, that’s not fair, he’s good looking so he gets an advantage. I knew there were ways around this, but i didn’t know for sure. I thought they would always get the upper hand.

You’ve proven me wrong alex, also you’ve motivated me to speak up more. The problem was that i didn’t say anything, so i didn’t show any personality or rapport, etc. Speak and the others will speak as well.

Thanks Alex, i’ve watched all your vids and you’re always giving useful tips via email, keep up the great work!

Clyde on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 6:39 am


I’m from asia and I see from hollywood movies that some girls do approach guys easily, quite often in fact. I would expect that good-looking guys would be approached by girls much more easily than average looking guys. I’m sorry if this sounds so ignorant, but is this even true or possible?

I’d tell myself that americans get dates more easily just because of that.

Aladdin on Mon, 9th Nov 2009 2:50 pm


i need help in dating girls at college but in different faculties
what should i do ?

Warrior on Tue, 10th Nov 2009 2:30 am


Great video, Alex!

It’s my favorite video yet! I have been noticing with PUA that it’s mostly about short term relationships, rather than long term. Reading “The Game” I noticed Strauss got so caught up with all the short term stuff and competition with others that he lost himself. A new form of guilt was emerging from being on top of the game. He was really wanted a long term relationship which he finally did establish later on.

I talk to women, and your right Alex, it’s the connection that is most important not the so much how handsome a guy is.

terrence on Tue, 10th Nov 2009 4:36 pm


Hi Alex

I really am digging your videos and philosophy, but I have one question. I have read in several highly regarded books in the community (Double Your Dating, Mystery Method, etc.) that it is a big no-no to ever compliment a woman on her looks when you’re building attraction in the beginning before you have seduced her. However, you constantly talk about how you go up to women and call them “stunning” when you approach them during the day. What am I to think about which one is the best tactic? I have to admit I feel much more confident and comfortable when I avoid telling a girl how good she looks, because I just can’t bring myself to open with compliments, it leaves me too vulnerable i think. Any thoughts?

Pavel on Tue, 10th Nov 2009 4:38 pm


yout marerial is reall , honyst , and mistery might learn of u .

it is reall life . You are my favorite . not mistery ,mihal or other crap . they probably dont know how to speak to woman during a day .
materiall is great as usuall stuff of yours.

Steve on Tue, 10th Nov 2009 6:30 pm


Why is it that I only get audio from one speakeer when watching your videos Alex?

Anyway nice video bro!

Fat Albert on Wed, 11th Nov 2009 1:34 am


Hey, how’ve you been Alex,
This video is right on! – good looking or not, applying the foundations that you discuss here and other videos (in member’s area) mean that you seek out opportunities, have interesting things to say (plus body language, the opinion openers, tonality of voice, make ‘em laugh, be interesting & interested, kino) differentiates you from the good looking lad and I’ve done this time and time again (with different levels of success of course).

Guys – practice, practice, practice! (or you could sit on your hands and do nothing if you want!)

Keep it real guys. All the best!

A on Sat, 2nd Jan 2010 2:35 pm


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