Great Conversation Starter For Meeting Women In Bookstores and The Streets

September 6, 2010

Watch My Pick Up Videos Here Of Me Approaching Women In The Streets

This is a quick video on an approach I did a few days ago and how I stopped this girl in the street on the context of “buying a cookbook” for a family member. It’s a good conversation starter that I’ve used a few times and recommend guys try it as it works like a charm.

To your success as always with women!

Alex

Comments

8 Comments on Great Conversation Starter For Meeting Women In Bookstores and The Streets

  1. Anthony on Mon, 6th Sep 2010 7:47 pm

    2. Thanks Alex. Good tip that I’ll certainly try. It’s also kinda controversial too.

  2. Jason on Mon, 6th Sep 2010 7:49 pm

    3. The great thing about doing street approaches is the ENDLESS opportunity. Bars and clubs aren’t what they use to be and I prefer doing daygame over night time game any day.

    Thanks for the tip and I’ll surely use it. – J

  3. Alex Coulson on Mon, 6th Sep 2010 7:57 pm

    4. THATS RIGHT JASON:
    Approaching women in the street is also a great way to make a solid first impression. Girls love the confidence but also you are remembered long term (I recall a girl I approached who remembered me almost 3 years ago when I approached her at a busy shopping mall!)

    She said “She’ll never forget that day and I made a solid impression on her”. Now to be honest I probably didn’t do everything right and probably made a few mistakes in the approach and I also remember not getting her phone number however I still made her day (which was my aim) and I made a positive and favorable first impression.

    Women are rarely approached in the streets by confident guys so they find it extremely rare and are blown away by the confidence factor. Also you watch any chick flick it usually involves a guy in the coffee shop, or in the street bumping into her by accident or sharing a cab … whatever it’s romantic – much more romantic than meeting in a bar/pub.

    All the best guys
    Alex Coulson

  4. Corie on Mon, 6th Sep 2010 8:50 pm

    5. Often, I approach women in the bookstore. Usually, I use situational openers, such as “What are you reading there?” just to break the ice.

    Yea, Alex I enjoyed listening to your story about buying a cookbook for your mother.

  5. Matty on Tue, 7th Sep 2010 7:40 am

    6. Guys, I was given a similar opener at the day game workshop recently and have been having success. I am altering wherever possible so it becomes “more real – “more personalised” and its been working a treat. Ive yet to have a girl not giggle when I ask her: “Do you think my mum will think Im suggesting she cant cook?”

    The other I have been using is: (based on a true story and is a little corny)
    -I approach and ask the girl/ set if they know where the nearest florist is. After getting directions, I then proceed to tell them that a good friend of mine has had a really bad week and to top it off she calls me today crying because her boss yelled at her. So, I thought Id get some flowers sent to her work. I then ask if a friend was to get you flowers what flowers would make you smile?
    - On the 3 sets Ive used it on Ive got the “Awww… Thats so sweet!”
    - One girl asked if its my girlfriend and I replied with:
    - Nah, Sarah and I have been friends for a sometime now. I only allow a few people into my circle of trust and Sarah’s friendship is that of a “BFF” so I want to cheer her up. So, your thoughts — “What flower would make you smile?”
    - Reply “Wish my boyfriend was more like you!”

  6. aaron lipshitz on Tue, 7th Sep 2010 11:45 am

    7. alex
    there a loads of street approaches u can try
    the thing is to be congruent or credible if you like so asKing for directions is the most conGruent way of opening !! a woman
    i usually ask where such or such a bar is
    how the music there about the grubb i pass myself off as an american ( i am actually FRENCH )with a strong american accent Women love to help out a lost foreigner while they feel valued at the same time ( re MASLOW MEN CRAVE APPROVAL !

    aaron
    PARIS

  7. Tom Oliver on Tue, 7th Sep 2010 2:06 pm

    8. Hey, Alex ! I did it…! I’m from Brazil. Your technique really works.
    I’ve just approached a beautiful girl at the bus stop and I succeeded.
    Cheers for The DayGame!

  8. The_Dream fromIsrael on Sat, 11th Sep 2010 8:03 am

    9. Alex, did i tell u how i love you?
    this is a great opener.

    Oh, and thanks a lot for your training me via the phone!!

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