How To Approach Groups Of Women In Bars – Your “Inside Guide”

42-16179248Women are social creatures. They enjoy being in the company of a group far more than being alone when they go out. Here is a strategy for approaching a woman when she is with a group of her friends.

Number One: Identify your Target.

Although this may sound unnecessary, this is the actual first step in the strategy. You’ll see varying degrees of attractiveness in any group, but there are many groups where nearly all the women are extremely attractive. You’ve got to pick one. If you go in to find out who you want to be with the most, and then pick, it’ll be much more difficult.

Number Two: The Rest of the Group.

Now here’s where you make this strategy work. Seduce the rest of the group. Make them all like you. It doesn’t matter if it’s a group of women or a mixed group. Make the group interested in you first before making your approach to your target woman. This isn’t hard. Start out by asking the group a question, an interesting question that allows you to be drawn into their circle. Say something like, “I couldn’t help but hear your conversation. You all seem to know quite a bit about [the subject], so I’d like your opinion on…”. Or another approach is, “Hey! You all seem to be having a good time. Mind if I buy you a round of drinks and join you?” Bottom line: You have to make the group like you first.

Number Three: Personalities in the Group.

In any group you have leaders and followers. That’s a no-brainer. But in this type of group you have another category which may put a snag in your approach – other guys. Especially if one of them is dating your target woman. If you find that’s the case, simply move on. It’s not worth the hassle and effort. But, if that isn’t the case, then go ahead and work with the guys first. Make sure they are comfortable with your presence in the group. Then start working on the women.

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6 Ways To Master Your Pickup Skills – Learn To Be A Pickup Artist

santa_pickup_noartistHere’s a few tips that will help you know what it takes to pick up women without being sleazy.

1. Appearances matter. Upgrade your wardrobe. Get a few really nice clothes and a few casual clothes that have a little class. Get a sharp haircut and take better of your skin. Smell nice. These things might sound obvious, but many guys completely miss out in this area.

The same thing applies to your living space. Get out on your own, if you haven’t already. Get a place where you have some contemporary furnishings. Keep the place clean and smelling clean.

2. How you carry yourself is also a big draw. Do you slouch a lot, wear you pants below a beer belly, or sit in the shadows in a hunched over position? STOP! Begin to stand straight with no slouching. Be relaxed in your shoulders, but hold your posture up. Get out in the open with other people.

3. Character counts. If you’re known for flying off the handle quickly, or if you’ve told a few whoppers to get out of a date or something else, be aware that those things will come back to haunt you. Learn patience. Begin to practice honesty. Become a better person. That is extremely sexy to many women.
4. Learn the art of conversation. Women love to talk. If you have trouble talking with women, then do something about it. Take a speech class; listen to how a great character in the movies talks. Then just emulate them.

5. Having other girls that are just your friends tells a lot of women that you’re a fellow that other girls like to be around. You’re a decent person, not just some guy trying to pick her up.

6. Finally, as cliché as this might sound, women love a guy with a sense of humor. I heard one fellow say that if he can get a woman to laugh and keep her laughing, she’ll laugh all the way into bed. Not guy humor, but wit, cleverness, and great story telling.

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5 Hypnotic Seduction Traits Women Cant Resist!

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Did you know that women like to be seduced? Believe it or not, it’s true. But, there’s a catch. They don’t want to be seduced by just anybody. They are subconsciously looking for certain traits in a man which will psychologically trigger that desire within them. I’ve outlined those hypnotic traits for you here.

1. A great sense of humor. First and foremost, women want to be at ease and have fun. You don’t have to be a comedian to have a great sense of humor. You just have to be relaxed, have a little wit, and be able to have fun. Even if it means laughing at yourself from time to time. In fact I found self depreciating humour i.e jokes about my pickup and “how I’m doing” to be funny to girls.

2. Confidence. This trait is extremely appealing. A man who knows who he is and what he is doing will draw the attention of nearly every woman around him. Confidence is almost a pheromone when it comes to women.

3. Having a presence. This is nothing more than confidence in clothes. The way you dress, your posture, your physique, and the way you walk and talk says a lot about who you are. Every single element I’ve pointed out can be improved and developed, if you want to badly enough.

4. Sexually secure. Not everyone is physically endowed. That’s a fact of life. That only means that you need to know how serve a woman from head to toe. Learn some techniques of touching and stroking the right places, and no matter your size, she will receive satisfaction. Knowing this about yourself will make a world of difference.

5. Be in control of your own life. Even if you don’t have a job, be busy at doing something to improve yourself and secure your future.. If you do have a job, know where you want your life to go. Don’t allow yourself to float along in life. Women are drawn to men who have purpose and vision.

There you have it. Now, it’s up to you to develop these traits for yourself.

Have fun!

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Other Guys Messing With Your Game? – Cockblock: Don’t Let Them Take YOUR Girl

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Have you ever been in a situation where you’re hitting it off with a woman, things are beginning to get cozy, and then some jerk comes over and messes up everything you’ve worked toward? Hey, most of us have. The key to handling this situation is fairly simple. You just need to understand a little about the psychology of social dynamics.

Here’s how it works. Every group has several personality types that make up the social circle. There is usually one person who is dominant, or alpha. The others in the group usually follow his/her lead. This alpha male is the fellow that you need to know how to deal with.

Establish yourself as an alpha. When you come into a place where you haven’t been before, make sure that you display an air of confidence and a personal presence. Stand tall, be relaxed, dress sharp, and speak with clarity. These few details of behavior and dress will let others know that you know who you are and are confident in yourself. This has the added benefit of being an attractive quality that women admire and desire to be near.

Don’t let yourself become upset or angry by the intrusion. If this guy feels the need to intrude, he’s already feeling threatened and is trying to “take back his territory”. Don’t give in to his base emotions by getting angry. Simply smile and ignore him or turn yourself and your lady away from him.

If he continues, then use subtle humor. Keep smiling and act like your joking when you let out some low-key comments or jokes about a flaw he has. Be subtle, not mean. Meanness just increases the insecurity he’s feeling; he has to be dominant. It’s a challenge to him. Keep the joking low-key and subtle. That usually will put him off his game and he’ll go away.

However, jerks don’t always go away. Sometimes they are just looking for a reason to fight. If this happens, just walk away. There’s no need to start beating each other over a woman you’ve just met. You don’t know if you’ll get arrested. You don’t know if he is carrying a weapon. No woman is worth any of that. Just smile, raise your hands slightly to surrender, and then walk out the door. Better to have a slightly bruised ego than be a bloody corpse on the floor.

However, this is the extreme situation. Most situations can be handled easily by smiling, keeping your cool, and using subtle humor.

 

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5 Ways to Unleash Her Inner Sexual Animal Side – Make Her Never Forget That Night : )

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It doesn’t matter if your girl is a hot chick who’s babe-a-liscious or a prim and proper lady who gets embarrassed if she show’s a little cleavage. EVERY woman has a wild side. Here’s a few tips to help you unleash her inner sexual animal side.

One of the easiest way to coax the wild side out of a woman is by playing with her skin. Tickling, nibbling, and light touches will drive a woman wild. Just slow yourself down and take a little time with her. Lift her hair and kiss the back of her neck lightly. Use your fingertips, lips, or a combination of both to lightly stroke her face, her lips, and then go to her neck. From this point you can go down between her breasts and to her nipples, but if you really want to drive her wild, go down the backs of her arms or her back first, if bare skin is readily available. She will be at such a fever pitch that she’ll barely contain the sexy beast inside.

Play ‘Sexy Truth or Dare’. Take the first turn to get things started, then, when it comes to her turn, ask her about her fantasy life. If she says she doesn’t have one, remind of the game rules and coax her. Be funny and a little ornery with her. Then, when she tells you her fantasy, begin to play into that fantasy.

A little kinkiness is fun. Be her own personal stripper. Give her a lap dance. Or even put on a costume. Exploring the fun side of sex will make her crazy with desire.

This one can be dangerous, so approach her about this with a little caution. Take photos of her in sexy poses. A lot of women want to be models. This can play right into her fantasy life. Be sure to let her decide if she wants to keep the photos or not. You want to have fun – not get an unfair reputation of being of being a predator.

Be in charge. Women love when men take the lead in lovemaking. Be in the lead from the start, and stay in the lead. Make sure to serve her body from head to toe. She will respond like a crazed animal.

Have fun!

 

 

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Happy April Fools Day SALE – Only TWO Days Left!!!

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Happy April Fools Day!

Did you know I was asking my assistant this morning where the heck did April fools day come from??

I received a blank stare and a shoulder shrug so I dug online to find out some important history on this special day …

Did somebody just decide to be a prankster? or is there a deeper meaning at heart here …

Well in 1564 France changed/reformed its calendar, moving the start of the year from the end of March to January 1. Those who failed to keep up with the change, who stubbornly clung
to the old calendar system and continued to celebrate the New Year during the week that fell between March 25th and April 1st, had jokes played on them.

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Why I HATE David DeAngelo

2I always wanted to meet David Deangelo.

And in 2004, I got my chance (more on that in a moment).
I had been a subscriber of his dating newsletter for months.
Eagerly opening and reading every one of his emails that arrived
in my inbox.

Then one day, through his newsletter, David announced that he was
going to hold a 3 day seminar in Sydney, where I lived.

I desperately wanted to attend.

You see, back then, I was terrified of talking to attractive women.
Even though I had learnt tons of tips about approaching women from
reading his newsletter, I still experienced a paralyzing fear every
time I thought about approaching a woman I didn’t know.

Even the UGLY ones.

I wanted to attend his seminar to improve my confidence. But I
couldn’t afford the $400 ticket price. Back then, I was unemployed
and living at my parents house.

So I borrowed money from a friend and booked my seat at
David’s seminar.

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WHAT HAPPENED AT DAVID’S SEMINAR
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Before arriving, I imagined the room would be filled with two types
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into their beds.

But I was WRONG.

Surprisingly, the room was filled with normal, everyday guys just
like me. They didn’t want to manipulate women. Mostly, these men
wanted to learn how to get a girlfriend or how to improve their
confidence with women.

David’s seminar was fantastic. He taught us about cocky comedy,
banter, conversation skills and how to get a woman’s phone number.
I was excited and wrote pages and pages of notes.

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WHAT WAS WRONG WITH DAVID D?
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During the seminar, I got this WEIRD feeling. Something wasn’t
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David was teaching us theories, concepts and ideas about meeting
women and getting dates. But there was something missing …

And then it hit me.

WHERE WERE THE REAL LIFE EXAMPLES?
I wanted to WATCH David “in action”. I wanted to see him
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and getting dates.

Just hearing him talk about dating theories from the stage wasn’t
enough.

I knew I would forget most of his theories by the time I got home.
But SEEING a pickup artist approaching, talking to, and seducing
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Okay, so I don’t HATE David Deangelo.

In fact, I left his seminar grateful for the knowledge I learnt.
But I wanted more. So I spent the few years hanging out with pickup
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3 Winning Traits Every Man Needs To Have

impressing-women-howHave you ever gotten so fed up with dating women and dealing with all the crap that you just pull out of the game entirely? You get sick of being blown off all the time, and really sick of never being able to reach them in the first place.

Hey, I’ve been there.

We all reach a point of disgust and anger about all the silly social rules in the dating game and we throw in the towel.

However, this kind of reaction implies a few things. First off, that you’re needing a particular result in order to keep going.

Well, that’s perfectly natural. You wouldn’t show up at your job every day if you didn’t get the expected paycheck each week, now would you?

When it comes to dating women and the whole pick-up game, you’ve got to realize that you may have to walk a while in the desert before you find the oasis you’re looking for. Hey, if that’s the worst news someone had given me a while back, I would have said, NO PROBLEM! Bring it on!

Now the good news is that you can shorten the path to your oasis by being smart about how you get women interested in you. So, in keeping with this, I’m going to tell you about three attitudes that draw women to men.

As you read these, I want you to try something for me. No matter how ‘obvious’ what I might say seems, I want you to re-think your beliefs about them, and see if you are still, perhaps, working under the opposite belief in some way.

If that sounds confusing, just wait and we’ll go into it in more detail.

Let’s start with things that women find alluring. These are my top Three Attitudes that will improve you 100+% in the eyes of the women you approach and date if you’ll work on them.

In fact, if you really get what I’m about to tell you, you’re going to have a problem finding time for all the women that will want to get with you.

I’m not hyping it up here…I’m deadly serious

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So here are the Three Success Attitudes:
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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #1 – Guys who like themselves
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Yes, even though we’re men, we still have PLENTY of things to like about ourselves. Contrary to the popular media that demonizes us, guys are pretty cool. Having a pecker rocks!

I mean, let’s start with the obvious things about guys that are cool: We invented beer and stock car racing. What more do we have to do, after all? Yeah, I’m sure we invented the remote control, and probably the electric guitar, while we’re at it.

We’re GUYS. We make cool stuff.

But that’s not all. You see, women really pick up on guys who LIKE being guys.

And not just guys who like their gender. Women really like guys who like THEMSELVES. It comes across in the way we treat ourselves and the way we treat others. If you like yourself, you probably aren’t a dick.

It’s an easy deduction, because the ironic thing about confidence and self-esteem is that the men you THINK might have it (i.e., Jerks) actually DON’T have it at all. They’re making up for being horribly insecure dweebs. Ya dig?

So the more you communicate a self-liking, the more you’re going to cultivate a more interesting and vibrant personality. And that “vibrant” turns into a “vibe” that you’ll get with a woman when she picks up on it.

Just don’t self-like yourself TOO much there, spanky. Keep the hand lotion out of sight. : )

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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #2 – Guys who are fun to be around.
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And when I say fun, man, I mean FUN.

Not that you have to juggle and tell great jokes, but you should definitely have a little personality to show that gets people interested.

The easiest way to cultivate this trait is to open yourself up to being more PLAYFUL.

Being playful means having a slightly childish part of you that you can bring out on occasion to have a little fun with women. Tease them a little. Poke them in the ribs. Tell her she’s got cooties.

Another great way to be fun is to go PLACES that are fun.

Make a list of all the cool places you can go with her. She’ll associate the feelings she experiences WITH YOU. Remember that.
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ATTRACTIVE Attitude #3 – Guys who are confident and go after what they want.
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This is the one that a lot of guys have a tough time with.

“What is ‘confident’?” they ask.

Confidence is simply your willingness to be who you are with no regrets, guilt, or anxiety. You don’t care what other people think. You’re validated from within.

To your success and nothing less!
Alex

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