In this interview Graham Stoney from Chick Magnetinterviews me on Day Game, Starting Conversations with women during the day, making them laugh and much more.
This hour long interview contains no boring theory, fluff or filler content just techniques, stories and practical tips you can implement starting today, this is not to be missed.
Look .. currently I’m in New York and I won’t be there but my friend Asian Playboy will be in town and he’s definitely a guy to meet.
He’s been the TOP Asian pick up artist in the USA and has been featured in many national newspapers and Tv.
Like I said chances are probably I won’t be there personally but its worthwhile to check out and meet JT in Person.
I interviewed Asian playboy earlier this year to discover his wealth of information of meeting women when you’re asian or another ethnicity. He was running his bootcamp here in Sydney and was with his new apprentice Kevin Feng.
On this video I show you how to use magic in bars and clubs to meet women. You’ll find when you use magic to pickup the whole “process” becomes much easier. However be careful not to do too many magic tricks!
Great conversations with women are filled energy, passion and ideally should be rapport based …
Talking is such an easy thing to do.You do it everyday.But, having a conversation with a woman seems to be a difficult task for a lot of men.If you find that you’re one of those men, this article is for you.
Statistically speaking, women talk anywhere from three to four times more than a man.The easiest way to overcome verbal inertia is to start out by asking questions.In particular, questions about her.Does she like animals?What’s her job like?Where did she go to school?What’s her favorite movie?These kind of questions will get her to open up and talk.This will help you both to feel more comfortable.
As you begin to get her talk about herself don’t forget to share about yourself.She’s interested in you, too, or she wouldn’t be with you.Just don’t share information that may be too intimate.I.E.No talk of surgeries or scars, problems with your mother, or your finances.These are a huge turnoff for most women.
Learn to actively listen.When she’s talking, look at her eyes, lean forward slightly, be relaxed in your body language.These all will tell her that you’re interested in what she’s saying.
If your brave enough, ask her opinion about a topic that’s current.It doesn’t need to be a controversial topic, just something that’s of interest at the time.If you should find yourself in a heated conversation about politics, religion, or some other topic that potentially a date breaker, make sure that you’re honest, but don’t confront.You’re out to have a good time, not change her opinion.
Humor is one of the best tools in any conversation.Try being a little silly.Nothing over-the-top, just humorous.Be a bit of a flirt.Relax and have fun in your conversations with women. They will, when interested, have a fun with you, too.
Enjoy the time you are having with your date.You’ll find that any date is more fun when you take the time to:
Well dressed men attract women … it’s plain and simple
There are endless ways in which to attract girls, just as there are endless types of girls out there.Flirting, eye contact, subtle smiles, being confident.Those are all important, but what you’re going to look at now is about one aspect that can make or break that attraction.Specifically, clothes.
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“Clothes make the man.”This little quote from Mark Twain has been around for over a hundred years and still is true today.When attracting girls, before they decide if they want to be with you, they evaluate what you wear.They’re not trying to be snobs, they’re just detail oriented.(By the way, the rest of that quote is “Naked people have little or no influence on society.”Of course, Mr. Twain never had Playboy!)
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You don’t have to dress like a model to dress well.You DO have to dress appropriate to the occasion.Your favorite football teams jersey might be alright for going out to a game and a sports bar afterwards, but going to a movie and dinner after, well, you need to dress a little better.A nice shirt and/or sweater, a decent pair of pants and dark leather shoes need to be the attire.
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Don’t be boring in your dress.If you’re wearing a suit and tie, make the tie a brighter color.If you’re wearing the type of clothing mentioned above for the movie and dinner, wear a sweater with some color in it besides black, blue or brown.Shine your shoes.You don’t have to be gaudy, just not dull.
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You don’t have to look like you’re ready for a black tie event all the time, but you do need to look better than the other men who are around.Be polished, be neat, be clean.Take pride in what you wear.When you look like a million bucks, you’ll attract a million dollar girl.
Having hypnotic personality traits that seduce girls doesn’t mean that you need to look like Colin Farrell or Brad Pitt. I just means you need to know how to act and present yourself in such a way that girls will naturally flock to you. If you do happen to look like Colin Farrell or Brad Pitt, well, good on you. But you still need to have a few of these traits.
Develop a presence. Women like to be around men who have a sense of status, who have interesting personalities. It’s built into them. A primal urge to be with a man who can take care of them. Now, you may not have a lot of money, but you can have the presence of a man who knows what he wants out of life is willing to do what it takes to get it. Women find this extremely attractive and want to be around the man who has this trait. Being comfortable with yourself and with the people around you is a very desirable trait for a man.
Be confident. This dovetails in with the trait above. You don’t have to be a tough guy to be confident. You just have to be comfortable with who you are in this world.
Have a future in front of you. You don’t need to be an executive of a large firm. But you do need to have a plan for your life of where you’re going and how you’re going to get there. Girls want a man with plans for the future. They don’t want a guy who is more interested in his video games than he is in himself and his future.
Be sexually secure. Women love it when they are picked by a man who they know could have the pick of any girl in the room. There’s just something about getting something that everyone else wants. When you’re sexually secure, you can talk with any woman, flirt openly, and make one woman feel that she is who you’re looking for, but you just want to play a little more. It’s a bit risky, but very enticing for women. Last, but most definitely not least, have a great sense of humor. More than one man I know didn’t possess a single one of the traits above, but knew that the easiest way to get a woman into bed was to make her laugh. Laughing will bring her guard down, will make her like you, and give her a good time even before turning in with you. If you don’t do anything else, make her laugh.
Finding a ‘friend with benefits’ is easier than you think. There are plenty of women who want to promote their careers, be able to study and finish their degrees, or plain just don’t have the time or inclination for a typical ‘boyfriend’.
Women have physical needs, too. “Girls just want to have fun” is more than a title of a song. Women want and need companionship, just not always a serious, long-term relationship. With that in mind, here are some easy ways to find someone with the same idea in mind as you.
1. Find the right woman. Not all women are looking for a relationship; relationships take a lot of care. There are a number of women who have other things going on in their lives who don’t want to take the time and effort to have a relationship with all the entanglements that go with it. Look for a woman who is really into her career, into studying, or is really passionate about something else besides a boyfriend. If they state “I don’t want a boyfriend right now”, that’s all the better.
2. Be open with any discussion about sex. Now, don’t start out with “Hey, you want to be my f*** buddy!” Remember, a woman wants you to get to know her. She wants to know if you will be fun and easy to be around. After you have talked for a while and gotten to know each other, have a light-hearted conversation about sex, probably starting out with something humorous. See how she responds to this conversation. If she is open, she’ll joke back.
3. Remember, it’s still a relationship, just a different kind of relationship. You need to build the attraction by letting her know that she is attractive, fun, smart, etc. Don’t lie, but don’t be stingy with complimenting her either.
4. Make sure you both know where the boundaries are. Neither one of you want to let things get too personal. It’s the sexual relationship that you want to highlight, not the personal relationship. Some boundaries are treating her respectfully, realize that she’s probably dating other guys, see each other once or twice in a week. Basically, keep things light and casual.
Enjoy this relationship for what it is. Always treat her with respect and friendliness. And have fun with each other.
Meeting a woman during the day can be much more fun than meeting one in the evening. In the light of day you’re both in a more open social situation, you’re both more likely to be open because you feel a little less stiff about finding a time that you an both get together.
Meeting during the day, you have a chance to flirt off and on all day long. This can become a little game between the two of you that you play. No one else need know about it, just the woman and you. But this type of play will make her very aware of your presence around the office or where ever you are.
You both have the added advantage that if things get a little too heated during the day, you can make up a meeting to go to ore something that you must attend to get away from each other. This is a mutually safe options either one of you can exercise at will.
By not trying to get her into the sack early on, this take a lot of pressure off and makes it easier to flirt and have fun with each other. This type of play will usually end up in bed, but it much safer for the woman.
You can find a girl anywhere in the daytime. The grocery store, the coffee shop, the library. When your are talking with her over a coffee and having a rather intimate over coffee, you need to pay attention to her body language, her eyes, her lips, and her scent. Did she put on a special cologne or perfume for you? All this information will help you assess the situation.
As with any type of dating. Have fun. After the goal is to have fun. Then if the girl is willing, have fun in the sack with her. See what “Afternoon Delight” really is!
We’ve all watched it in the movies for years. Everyone from Cary Grant and Rock Hudson all the way to Matthew McConaughey and Hugh Grant were seducing multiple women. So can a guy really date several women at once and still remain sane? Absolutely! Just handle a few issues up front, and you can have as much variety as you want.
The number one rule in dating and seducing multiple women is this: Straightforward honesty. You need to start fresh and begin by letting the girl know that you want to have fun and enjoy her company, but that you will be dating other women. You don’t have to just blurt it out that way; just ask her what she thinks about that sort of arrangement then proceed from there.
You will have some that reject the whole idea. But, you’ll be surprised to find that there will be a number of women that actually DO want that kind of relationship. It might be because they are really into their careers, they travel a lot, they are studying furiously and don’t have time for anything else, or they just like the freedom.
Don’t try to start this with a girl you’ve been dating for a while. You want this lifestyle. You’ll need to break off the relationship. She won’t like it, but it’s the only ethical way of handling the situation.
Secondly, don’t let romance get in the way. Keep away from candlelit dinners, strolls in the park, anything that brings romance into the picture. The whole point of this type of lifestyle is having fun, enjoying the company of a woman, and having a great time in bed. Nothing more. Going to clubs, out with a group of friends for a night on the town, sporting events, or parties are good places to go. If she starts to get possessive or tries to get you to be more romantic, or paired to only her, then it’s time to call it quits.
Third, remember that she’s a free agent just as much as you are. Don’t expect faithfulness for you alone.
Lastly, keep track of things. Make sure you keep a good handle on your schedule. Don’t get stodgy and date the same girl at the same time each week. Mix it up; just keep track of who, when, and where.
Along with your schedule, keep track of your health. Wearing a condom each and every time is just good practice, especially when dating multiple women at one time. It only takes one encounter to become infected with HIV, hepatitis, herpes, or some other nasty disease. You don’t want to get it. You don’t want to spread it.
That’s it. Just be honest, ethical, have fun, be free, and keep track of things.
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We’ve all watched it in the movies for years. Everyone from Cary Grant and Rock Hudson all the way to Matthew McConaughey and Hugh Grant were seducing multiple women. So can a guy really date several women at once and still remain sane? Absolutely! Just handle a few issues up front, and you can have as much variety as you want.
