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in Hollywood, CA on September 24th – 26th.

Join me and 13 other world class
coaches and learn conversation starters,
how to approach women without fear, overcoming AA
and much much more.

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Talk soon!
Alex

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This is a LIVE teleseminar I held on the 16th August 2011. On the call I discussed daygame conversation starters, how to approach women and the best places to meet women during the daytime, word-for-word stories to tell women to make them intrigued and much much more. Duration: 1 hour

If you would like to TRAIN with ME (Alex) in LA, MIAMI or NYC please email us at jack@succeedatdating.com or call now on (714) 408-7769.

The statement should add value i.e be comical/be positive/teach her something/tell her a story etc

If you would like to learn more on how to meet women during the daytime without fear or nervousness check out our program Street Dating Revealed for live hidden camera approaches of Alex Coulson and students.

To your success with women!
Alex

I ask these girl what their worst and best pick up lines are. These girls get approached and hit on all day, every day and would have heard some pretty bad approach attempts. Watch the video for some quick viewing fun.
Alex

Now, on the flip side, have you ever had one of those “bad nights” where women responded negatively and even rejected you?

Your “state” went down and you felt deflated and negative. You may have even sat at the corner table, away from all the nasty women.

So why are some nights great, and other nights terrible? Is it the club, the women, the music, other guys? What makes the difference?

The reason we experience these roller coaster of positive and negative reactions from women, is because of our approval seeking behaviour.

Seeking approval is when you do and say things with the intention of making people like you. You’re trying to impress people. You’re only giving yourself permission to feel good when people respond positively to you.

But if people react negatively or disagree with you, you feel bad. Ultimately, everyone else is in control of your state and your emotions. But not you!

If you’ve ever done something, then waited to see how people around you responded, then you were seeking approval.

Self amusement is the opposite of seeking approval. It’s when you don’t give a F%$#k what other people think. You do what you want because it amuses one person … YOU!

You’re not looking for approval from anybody else. You’re doing and saying what you think is funny. You’re having a great time, making yourself laugh, and boosting your own state.

Now, this doesn’t mean you walk around acting like a jerk. Your intention is not to offend anyone else. Your goal is to amuse yourself!

Self amusement is extremely attractive to women for a few reasons:

1). You don’t care what she thinks.
2). You’re the life of the party (read: social proof)
3). You’re in a fun, playful and excited mood.
4.) She feels effected by your fun, playful energy. She starts to feel great, too!

Let me tell you about my experience with self amusement last Saturday night at one of Sydney’s hottest night clubs.

It was during our night time boot camp, and the student asked me to approach a group of women with him. He wanted me to distract the friends, so he could isolate and focus on the woman he was interested in.

Several minutes into the conversation, one of the women said the word “babies” to one of her friends. So I responded with …

ME: “Did you say you want babies?
HER: “Umm, I dunno”.
ME: “You want to eat babies or make babies?”
HER: “Ha ha, make babies!”
ME: “Look, I can’t guarantee you babies, but we can try making them!”
(whole group) “ha ha ha!”
HER: “I’ve just met you and now we’re making babies!”
ME: “Yes, and everyone at the table has to watch!”
HER: “ha ha ha!”
ME: “But first we have to get married in Vegas. I need to make an honest woman out of you. But don’t worry, you’re ALL INVITED!”
(whole group) “yay!”

So what happened here? Let me start by saying I didn’t plan this. I did not read this in some pua book. This is not a routine. And if you memorise this and repeat it to women in some club – IT WON’T WORK!

That’s because there are three important elements that make self amusement work. Repeat after me …

1.) self amusement must be spontaneous!
2.) self amusement must be your own personal humour!
3.) self amusement must be funny and make you laugh!

Let me explain my own personal style of humour …

One way is to purposefully misunderstand what a woman is saying as something overly sexual (see conversation example above). It’s the old frame of “are you hitting on me?”

I also enjoy self-depreciating humour. So if a woman asks me what I do for a living, I might tell her I clean toilets, or drive buses. If she asks me where I am from, I tell her “the peoples republic of Congo”.

Or I’ll purposefully embarrass my wing men. While they’re talking to a hot woman, I’ll interrupt them with a pat on the shoulder while pretending to whisper, “excuse me Tom, your shift isn’t over yet. Would you mind cleaning out the toilets before you go please?” This is hilarious!

Remember, the more fun you have, the more attracted women will be to you. Stop trying to impress women or make them like you. It won’t work and women will sense that you are trying to “get something” from them.

Self amusement is simply a great way to be the life of the party and attract women at the same time.

Breaking Rapport To Attract More Women

She is a stunning blonde sitting alone at the bar. The first guy, let’s call him Adam, approaches her and starts a conversation. Things go well, and eventually he asks her “so, what do you do for a living?” She responds “I’m a nurse”.

Adam responds “Oh wow, sexy and caring, that’s great” then continues with “you know, nurses don’t get paid enough for all the hard work you do”.

Adam is attempting to build rapport. He wants her to like him. He has paid her a compliment and has shown empathy about her job. As the conversation continues, he will probably agree with everything she says, even if he believes the opposite.

Now another guy, John, enters the bar and approaches her. After a few minutes of conversation, he asks her the same question “what do you do for a living?” and she answers “I’m a nurse”. But his response totally throws her off …

“A nurse? Does that mean you like washing old people’s bottoms?” she looks at him, with a surprised look on her face. She can’t believe what he just said, and playfully slaps him on the arm. She begins to qualify herself, explaining that her job does not involve washing anyone’s bottoms.

As the conversation continues, John playfully challenges some of the things she says. He is never rude. He never *negs* or intentionally offends her.

She becomes curious about him, wondering why he is acting different to all the other guys. She actually enjoys the conversation more, because she is taken on an emotional rollercoaster ride. She is kept on her toes, wondering if he likes her or not, and guessing what he will say next.

Most attractive women are used to men trying to build rapport with them. It’s a very boring conversation when someone agrees with everything you say.

However, when you break rapport by disagreeing or playfully challenging her, you stand out from all the other guys who attempt to build rapport with her.

Think about it. This is what high value men or “bad boys” do. They challenge women with their own opinions and beliefs. They don’t put attractive women on a pedestal. Instead, they make fun of them, whenever the opportunity presents itself.

Here are some examples of breaking rapport …

HER: “I love olives”.
YOU: “Really? I think olives taste like rubber”

HER: “Will you buy me a drink?”
YOU: “I don’t know you well enough yet. Tell me about yourself …”

HER: “Have you seen the new Brad Pitt movie?”
YOU: “Why would I? Brad Pitt is gay.”

Another way of breaking rapport is using self-depreciating humour. It’s especially powerful when women attempt to build rapport with you. You’re not accepting her indicators of interest too easily. You’re more of a challenge.

HER: “Lets go dance”
YOU: “No thanks. I dance like a retard”.

HER: “What are you doing on Saturday night?”
YOU: “Probably playing World of Warcraft with my buddies online”.

HER: “How old are you?”
YOU: “What’s with all of the questions? Are you a cop or something?”

Another easy way of breaking rapport is to focus your attention on something or somebody else, for a while. In the middle of conversation with a woman, you may shift your focus to her friend (or your friend) and ask them a random question.

Or you may interrupt her mid conversation, because you suddenly noticed a fascinating painting, object, or event nearby. Give that “thing” all of your attention and make comments about it.

She wonders why, unlike other guys, you are not giving her your full attention. You seem less needy and appear to have higher value.

Breaking rapport is a powerful way of demonstrating that you’re an attractive, high value man with your own opinions and interests, other than her.

JACK AUTHOR BIO

Jack is the co-founder of Succeed At Dating and a superstar at day game.
The art of meeting and attracting women in the daytime. Jack
offers live, in-field training workshops at DayGameSecrets.com

Video Part 1

Video Part 2

If you would like to learn more on how to meet women during the daytime without fear or nervousness check out our program Street Dating Revealed for live hidden camera approaches of Alex Coulson and students. If you would like to join one of Jack’s daygame workshops click here.

“Hey Alex,

I love your videos and I have been reading your blog posts
for a while. I heard about your attraction summit seminar,
and I really want to come!

Do you need any more super girls for the summit? I used to
model at my other job, so I can probably help out.
Let me know if you need me, Alex

Cheers,
Casey

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Number closing a German girl living in London using an indirect-direct approach. Covent Garden, London.

* Pre-opener (“Can I tell you something really randomly?”)
* Pacing her reality (“It’s not a robbery”)
* Painting a picture (“I was just walking past…”)
* Indirect-direct opener (“I just wanted to come and say hello”)
* False time constraint (“Meeting friend for coffee”)
* Transition with statements
* Kino arm touches / high-5 / hugs
* Playful push-pull and teasing
* Qualifications (resolutions / reading / friendly / nice)
* Challenge her taste in books
* She’s quite a handful and quick witted, so I have to plough. Should have tried to open her up more ; )
* Number close
* Disqualify myself in a fun way (needy / emotional etc.)
* Can’t bounce as she’s waiting for a friend

Video #2

An indirect-direct day game pick-up of a Turkish girl in Trafalgar Square, London.

* Indirect-direct opener (“wanted to come and say hi”)
* Transition by pacing reality and making statements
* She hooks (“where are you from?”) and is quite chatty
* I qualify about reasons for visiting her city
* Challenge her on her negativity towards London
* I tease her about being the “quiet girl” and her ego
* Kino on arm, high-5, comparing tans, hug, kisses
* I cut off the chit-chat with some logistics (“so anyway..”)
* Should have persisted with instant date suggestion or at least mini-bounced
* Email closed because she was a tourist not here for long

Video #3

A direct street approach on an English girl in Seven Dials, London.

* “Soft direct” opener (based on style)
* Transition (pacing reality and statements)
* She hooks but doesn’t open up or give much to go on
* Plough / story tell with banter, push-pull and DHVs
* Comfort building, under-the-radar vibe (my default daytime style)
* Kino (arm touches, high 5s, shoulder turn)
* Light qualification (passion, aspirations) but she’s shy. Should have done some real qualification
* Miss out on coffee instant date because I said I had just had a coffee (chump mistake)
* Statement of intent (telling her she’s hot)
* Should have locked-in / mini-bounce
* Went for FB/email close as level of rapport didn’t feel enough for #close.

Jo came out on a Day2 (date) with me and the vibe was very different to this under-the-radar comfort initial close. A video of the Day2 will be on this channel soon!

Unlike Any Other Dating Seminar You’ve Ever Been To Before …

Have you ever been to a seminar where the speaker(s) bores you for hours with his latest and greatest “theories”. But never shows you how his theories work in “the real world?”

Anyone can stand on stage, read a few slides, and sound impressive. But how do you know if what their saying is TRUE or FALSE? How do you know their advice really works? You don’t.

The Attraction Summit will be unlike any other seminar you’ve attended before. You will experience less “talking” and much more DOING. And when I say “doing” I mean …

LIVE Demonstrations

Each speaker will not only teach you their best techniques but to also demonstrate their methods LIVE on stage with our attractive super girls. You’ll get to witness each expert approaching, starting conversations and building attraction, right before your eyes!

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Drills and Exercises

Most people forget what they learn at seminars. You write a few pages of notes, go home, and never read your notes again. At The Attraction Summit you will be taken through a series of fun and interesting drills and exercises to make sure you remember all the important lessons!

Personalized Coaching Sessions

You will have the opportunity to participate in our hot seat sessions. You could be invited to join ALL of the speakers on stage and share your biggest challenges or sticking points with them. And have the speakers give you specific, step-by-step advice on what to do in YOUR situation. This kind of personalized coaching is invaluable (most would charge $250 for coaching!)

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Talk soon and see you there gents!

Alex Coulson

p.s we have some awesome speakers this year!