Tips For Approach Anxiety – Rejection Anxiety Strategies

Today I want to talk about a simple and effective (yet somewhat DANGEROUS) technique that allows you to instantly approach beautiful women in everyday situations without fear or nervousness.
You’ve never heard about this ‘controversial’ technique before. How do I know? Because it’s my own creation, and I’ve never revealed it, until now.
But before I do, you need to understand WHY this technique works so well. Let me explain …
This technique is so effective because it utilizes one of the greatest psychological motivators there is.
“The Fear of Loss”
Here’s how it works: In life, just because you WANT something (like a hot girlfriend or a fancy car) doesn’t mean you’ll go out and get it, right?
Why not? Because most of the time our own FEARS hold us back.
So how do we overcome our FEARS and get what we want out of life?
The answer is: Make fear work for you and NOT against you. Wouldn’t that be nice for a change?
Here’s how: Let me explain a disturbing scenario.
If a mad-man kidnapped one of your family members, held a GUN to their head and said:
“If you don’t approach 3 beautifulwomen today, then I’m gonna SHOOT them!”
Would you do it? Of course you would!
You’d do it without hesitation, wouldn’t you?
And would you be SCARED of approaching women? I doubt it. You’d be SO focused on saving another person’s life that you wouldn’t even have time to feel “approach anxiety” right?
So the above gun-to-their-head story was an extreme example of how the “fear of loss” principal works. But it wasn’t real.
Now let me give you a REAL tried-and-testedmethod you can use to approach women without fear – using the “fear or loss” principal.
Here’s how it works: Invite a supportive friendto meet you in a place with lots of women around.(Like a shopping mall, grocery store, etc).
Then hand your friend $100 in five $20 bills.(if you cant afford $100, then use a smaller amount, like $50 in five $10 bills).
Say to your friend: “My goal for the next2 hours is to approach and talk to FIVE attractive women. Each time I approacha woman, you give me back $20 (or $10).
If I successfully approach five womenwithin the next two hours – then I getall of my money back, if I don’t, thenyou get to keep my money. Got it?”
RULES: If I approach a woman and she slaps me, pokes me in the eye, or kicks me in the balls – it doesn’t matter. My goal today is just to approach, nothing more.
And that my friend, is a fantastic way to get over your fears of approaching women.
Now go out there and do it!
Your Friend,
Alex
Comments
2 Comments on Tips For Approach Anxiety – Rejection Anxiety Strategies
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Rodrigo on
Tue, 21st Jul 2009 2:08 pm
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TicoRicoSuave on
Sun, 23rd Aug 2009 3:08 am
Hello Alex!
Thank you very much for that tip! It’s going to help me a lot!
I’m a fan of your work, and lately I’m only approaching in the daytime because is difficult for me to go out at night now.
Your videos are inspiring! Amazing work!
i’ve used this technique before when i had AA. i saw an HB with her friend and a guy. i gave my wing $10 and told him if i don’t approach them, he can keep it but if i do approach them, he’d hafta give it back to me.
i approached, won over the guy and my target’s friend, spiked attraction in the HB and number closed her.
i could’ve made some excuse to NOT talk to them but instead i made a reason to talk to them.
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