The Perfect Conversation Starter For Meeting Women During The Daytime

21 Comments on The Perfect Conversation Starter For Meeting Women During The Daytime

Ahmed on Tue, 4th Aug 2009 3:45 pm


Thank’s Alex I really liked the video.

miguel on Tue, 4th Aug 2009 7:24 pm


Thanks again, but the problem for me, it`s to pass to the second step… i write you twice for the same… i hope to see some videos to haw to pass… Bye!!

Ollie on Tue, 4th Aug 2009 11:22 pm


Alex!As always your videos are very practical and can be used immediately when I go out-More videos like this one please!I have a question though,how do you handle the “bitch shield” and as you know hot girls sometimes can be nasty with it-so how do you keep your composure as in what do I do or say to get past he shield?thanks

Anthony on Wed, 5th Aug 2009 12:46 am


Thanks Alex again. Your insights and videos have helped me immensely. I’m a much older guy (around 40ish) and watching some of your videos it has inspired me to go out and try it to see if it works. Well I did yesterday and it worked more than expected I actually got two phone numbers! This is a huge deal to me so I want to thank you once again. btw I plan on subscribing to your pickup video program as I know this will help me even more.
Anth, CA

Tad on Wed, 5th Aug 2009 2:28 am


Alex. this direct approach is brilliant. i tried indirect approaches over the years and always felt ‘off’. but just stopping women and saying, “Hey . . . this may be a bit random but I just saw you and I had to come up and say hi. You’re just too cute and i knew i would kick myself if I didn’t say hi. My name’s Tad, what’s your name?”

They’re almost always flattered and break into a smile. And I’m amazed at how naturally the conversation flows from there.

The best part? I feel so at ease. I’m no longer hiding anything. They know I’m attracted to them. So even if the conversation is on mundane topics – it’s all being experienced through the filter of the excitement and attraction.

“So, what are you up to today? . . . Oh yeah? I was just headed over to _______.”

So easy. So natural.

The scariest part is approaching.

But try his opener gents. Be direct and honest. You’ll be surprised.

sagi on Mon, 17th Aug 2009 9:40 am


what is the swntence you sat? what if…. something looks?? i didnt understand

Simon B. on Sun, 23rd Aug 2009 4:55 am


Fantastic again Alex-The ‘dress well’ thing is just something that i think we all take for granted, and it tends to slip by us!!-something that really got me thinking and i’ll be putting MORE effort into!! A line like that is great too- My prob. is having STRONG EYE CONTACT! I will try this tonight!! Many thanks.

Kevin on Sun, 23rd Aug 2009 11:31 pm


i enjoy watching the video, Alex. however, English is not my first language. so i have a bit problem to understand the opener you said in the video. “What are you gonig for part of your looks?” i am sure i was wrong, so can you please write that phrase again, so i can easily understand, thank you.

Benjamin on Wed, 26th Aug 2009 4:07 pm


@Kevin – Alex said “What do you have going for you apart from your looks?”. It means “What about your personality is interesting and attractive?”

@Tad – Great opener. I’ll have to try this in Boston

Kevin on Thu, 27th Aug 2009 2:18 am


thank you so much, Ben. how is your progress going so far?
by the way, in the video, Alex mentioned “no guys hang around you, what’s going on? usually you should [ have five guys on to rush....]” is that right? i dont’ know.

Loverboy on Fri, 28th Aug 2009 10:18 pm


@Kevin – “What do you have going for you apart from your looks?”. can also mean, “Apart from been sexy what do you do for a living?”
good luck Kevin…

George Brown on Sun, 30th Aug 2009 7:36 pm


Great stuff Alex

Loving the Kern style subject lines

Danny on Mon, 31st Aug 2009 4:16 pm


Great video man…. I love stuff like this, very concrete and not a lot of philosophy, which I know a lot of guys like… KEEP IT COMING!

Anthony on Fri, 25th Sep 2009 12:37 am


Great stuff man everytime i go out now im getting more and more progress with women than in the past you’re video really inspire’s people including me to go out and give it a try. thanks Alex keep it coming=)

Sam on Mon, 28th Sep 2009 10:10 am


Alex I need help. Im a university student and I see these beautiful women passsing me everyday and I just can’t come up with a thing to say… Help me out? Is there a way to pickup lines and stuff cuz I just can’t come up with something to say.. plz help I need it

fred on Wed, 4th Nov 2009 6:44 am


I’m unemployed and have been for a long time. How can I avoid feeling belittled by a girl when they ask what I do for a living? I don’t know how to pussyfoot around the question.

Heat on Mon, 23rd Nov 2009 9:51 pm


You rule man, you actually make this fun rather than a strict discipline where failure means death and YOU MUST WIN WIN WIN WIN OR ELSE YOU ARE NOTHING!

Instead of filling you`re videos with philosophic crap or tell us stuff like “YOU MUST HAVE THE NEW UBER 9000 BRUSH OR YOU WONT MAKE IT” (totally not endorsed huh?) You actually cut to the chase, and tell us what works in simple yet effective, and most importantly INSPIRING ways.

Not yet, not yet, I have too much else to do (and too little money) but when the time comes, ill get whatever you sell and become the greatest womanizer in the world, no, not a pick up artist, nor a alpha male nor anything like that.

Basically just a guy that is good with women without all the fuzz with I actually hate, it kills all the FUN of being around women, and turns it into a stupid contest/scientific approach/only way of proving that you are a man.

I am obsessed with women, not with all that crap you (supposedly) MUST DO in order to be around them (OR ELSE YOU FAIL HORRIBLY AND GET HUMILIATED AND SOCIALLY CASTRATED BY SOCIETY!)

Thanks for your free stuff man, It will certainly keep me interested and enticed until it is time for me to buy the other stuff.

Kagzin on Tue, 22nd Dec 2009 4:23 am


yep sometimes being direct can get you almost everywhere,

i’ve been dating an 8.5 met her round june just walked up to her n said hi i’d like to know you coz it’s not everyday i meet a woman who just captivates me by the way she carries herself n she stopd walkin gave me a smile while turning around @ dis point she was near her place so she could have just left me there bt she listened to what i had 2 say.

seeing as she was a bit fascinated i saved some for later n made up a story bout a friend of mine waiting for me, got her numbers without any hesitation n she got a bit flaky at de start, told her i won’t cal her seeing as she’s got time to play around n next thing she couldn’t stop coming around to my place.

agam on Tue, 16th Feb 2010 4:42 pm


thank you alex

jerry on Wed, 17th Feb 2010 11:27 am


thx Alex. i like the way u xplain think. u can be a great teacher in the future. i want to ask one question and will be glad if u help mi out. am kinda new in dis country and those i have talked to seem not understand de english very wel even when u make funny comment they dnt just respond. so how is one going to seduce someone who dnt understand yr language very wel?

puanew on Fri, 26th Mar 2010 2:09 am


thanks a lot alex i hope you ‘ll continue sending videos like this and i really interested in beach game,if you can please send me just one video demonstrating how it’s done you’ll help me a lot. thanks again for all the much work you done to help us

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