Where To Meet More Women – Great Places To Meet Women
There are so many places I frequent when meeting women it isn’t funny … I may be picking up my dry cleaning and all of a sudden a cute red head walks in to pick up hers and we’ll start chatting.
It’s that easy for me…
I’m nothing special too … I’m freakishly tall, lanky, stoop slightly and have average looks however I still manage to strike up conversations with women EVERYWHERE I go…
Which means if I can do it then so can you.
This is a SKILL that most men can easily learn with patience and more importantly persistence.
Meeting women in bars is so old school. Now the hot and super attractive women don’t even frequent bars anymore because they get approached so many times. They’re sick of sleazy guys who “don’t get it” approaching them …
I mean who wouldn’t be sick of bars if you were approaches 30 times on Friday night …
Well I’m glad you’re here with me and learning these life-enhancing skills. Meeting women will be the easiest skill you could have with some practice.
Meeting women in “normal” places:
-The Bookstore; good places to meet women and this is the typical “dream” place that women want men to approach them in.
I occasionally approach women here. I spot women browsing through a book and say “Hey that’s a great book…would you like to know the ending?” this always gets a good laugh. Most of all during the day focus on being playful and non-threatening. Meeting women will be a lot more fun and enjoyable.
-Supermarket; awesome places for meeting women. Start slowly and un-confrontantional and progress into asking what she plans on cooking you for dinner.
-Shopping malls; these are excellent places to meet women. Get their opinion on fashion advice as some crazy Irish guy just tried to crack onto you. Ask her whether any of your current attire says “I cross onto the brown side” haha
-Parks; Get her opinion on anything here. In my experience most women are open to talking to people in parks, it should be quite easy you just have to see for yourself.
-Streets; I stop women all the time in the street and ask for directions, I then turn this around and get their opinion on something girly. This is the BEST way to meet women during the day. This does require some persistence, as it can be tough keeping their interest initially as MOST people walking in the street have a place to go. Then again some don’t. : )
-Touristy Places ;bring a camera down to these places and ask them to take a picture of you. Then continue the conversation easily by saying that they would make awesome photographers and should join your staff. Say this jokingly. Most women in these places will be chilled and wont be anywhere in a hurry.
-While you’re driving (this is upper funny to try) I have a friend that does this all the time and gets massive success from it too. He drives just a Volvo too …He’ll be in the passenger seat and spot women while waiting for the traffic lights to change. He already has a cardboard prepared in his backseat and he’ll stick it to the car window “0403####098 LETS CHAT” the girl/s would giggle and call him then and there and he would chat. This is a very unique way of meeting women and is the most fun.
-Hotel Lobbies; if you travel quite a bit then this is a good way to meet women. Just make sure it’s a BUSY lobby and has a busy lobby bar (most do) you can start conversations here easy, as it shouldn’t be loud.
-Bus Stops; easy places for meeting women are bus stops. I usually start conversations with “have you been waiting long? ……thanks…the other day I had to wait here with Doris I think they call her..She’s the local hobo that collects plastic bags and feeds the pigeons …she had a bag full of live pigeons she was planning on selling… I give her more credit…she’s a business woman in disguise that Doris moving up the corporate ladder”
Trade Shows; great places for meeting women as if you’re an exhibitor you have a reason to chat with her. “How business, are you getting your name out there?” “How’s your day going” you don’t necessarily have to use an opinion opener here you can just chat with her.
You now realize that meeting women is a lot easier now that you know where to find them. You ALSO have the regular places that I didn’t mention above like work, friends of friends, bars and clubs, online dating, social groups (tennis/clubs) and rock concerts : )
Talk soon!
Alex
Why Men Are Shy Around Women – Eliminate The Fear Finally
Q:Why are men shy around women…
Research suggests that approach anxiety and “FEAR” around women stems back to the stone age where we would live in small tribes on this planet, tribes no bigger than 50 people.
This ‘shyness’ so to speak came from our inability to approach females in our tribe for fear of being physical repercussions i.e. being beaten and killed by the tribal leader or his ape like friends.
This sounds completely natural. If you were tribal leader and you found that one of your mates female mating partners was cracked onto by another male how would you react?
Would you take the biggest dinosaur bone you see (a real bone that is) and pummel him to the ground I expect.
Well welcome to the origin of our fear around women. We are shy to make moves because of this inbuilt mechanism in our genetic make up to be weary around females for fear of the boyfriend or the boyfriends friends.
To add to that we are afraid of getting rejected and here’s the main reason why …
We are still accustomed to living in small tribes or 50 person societies and being rejected by a female in such a small society will spread to the other females, the males and eventually you’ll be weeded out of existence by being rejected by other females, or being beaten with a dinosaur bone by the tribal leader.
Our shyness around women comes to down to pre-selection.
What is pre selection and why does it help us get over our nerves?
Let me explain. Have you ever walked into a bar and spotted a man surrounded by women, not good looking just an average guy but with 3 women on his side. You’ll notice that other females in the bar will turn and notice this and instantly give off attraction signals.
What attraction signals you say?
Every kind of attraction signals! They don’t even know this guy however they’re already sending signals his way to show that they’re attracted to him.
Its simply a time saving mechanism. They’re saving time by pre-selecting males with women already around him. If they’re attracted to him then she could be too thus weeding out all the other “loser guys” wanting to earn her approval by supplicating with gifts etc and being “wussie” around her.
Women are not attracted to these men.
Men will always be shy around women as like I said it’s evolutionary and inbuilt into our genes to feel this fear, it’s a matter of survival.
So the only way to get over it is to get used to it. It’ll always be there deep inside you and the only way you can deal with this shyness is by accepting it, and learning to deal with the symptoms.
If you ask somebody that’s successful with women how he deals with anxiety and he says he’s never had any then he’s lying. Everybody would have felt it at one point or another.
When you get good (with practice) at approaching women non-stop you start to notice the fear vanish, and soon there will be only a slight fear of women that will have no weight in any of your thoughts…for ever more.
I’ll talk to you soon!
Alex
Art of Seduction – Learning Seduction Takes Time
So you’re learning seduction huh …
Having fun is important when learning the art of seduction as it constantly keeps you motivated and moving on to become better.
You will find that on your journey to becoming a transformed casanova that sometimes you can be feeling down on yourself (this happens to a lot of guys and its completely natural).
If you’re approaching plenty of women and not getting the reactions you seek then its natural to feel slightly de-motivated to continue, which is why MOST guys give up the game within the first 3 months.
As humans we seek quick fixes and instant results. Sometimes you can start seeing immediate results and sometimes (more often than not) results are slow to realize.
When I run my seduction workshops most guys are at beginner level and haven’t approached many women before, by the end of the night they’ve approached at least 50 women! And they realize instant results and they achieve an ultimate level of state, they feel amazing and want more.
Other seduction workshops I run students are at differ levels of seduction learning and prefer to focus on a key point of attraction, which we do and they again see amazing results.
Have you ever been to the gym and tried to gain muscle mass?
You work out for 1 solid week, stressing muscles, sweating all over the place, red in the face, huffing and puffing … all that effort! And when you look in the mirror after two weeks you’re still the same weight!
I find that I stopped and started the gym visits for the last few years depending on my state. I might watch a bruce lee movie and get instantly motivated again and go back, and again after a few weeks… I see no results so I give up.
It’s a cycle and I kept repeating this.
The same principle applies especially when learning seduction.
Instant results are RARE (but can happen) : )
A key to excelling fast in the art of seduction is accepting that this can be a long or short road and it all depends on your willingness to learn and your comfort levels at this point in time.
Below are some simple steps you can follow to keep up the spirits and continue learning the art of seduction while making it FUN.
1.Have no agenda; if you have no agenda or outcome then logically you cant be disappointed. If you head out for a night on the town with a ‘purpose’ or mission i.e getting 10 phone numbers, X amount of make-outs and you don’t acheive these set goals then you’ll feel slightly anxious.I’ll talk to you soon!
Your friend
Alex Coulson
Energize Your Conversations With Women – Create Exciting Content
So the million-dollar question is do you take risks with your interactions with women?
Do you try new ideas or do you stick with what gets you average results?
Here’s why I ask:
Women LOVE men that are risk takers because they can never predict what will happen next. This leads them on and on and on waiting for your next move …very similar to playing a game of checkers.
Risk taking = Adventure
In my travels I’ve met a lot of ‘naturals’ with women and I had to give credit where credits due, with my friend Mark who is perhaps the most risk-taking i.e. extremely adventuress guy I know.
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Why Mark Is Successful With HOT Women
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Mark is what I call a kick ass smooth talking natural.
We head to shopping centers most weekends (when they’re PACKED with HOT women) and we approach like horny mad men … (without the foaming at the mouth part) …
Mark is nothing special, 5”4, average looks and he works out a lot so he’s got some mass which helps somewhat …
He wears a bright t-shirt with Elmo from Sesame Street printed on it and approaches hot women asking whether Elmo is a boy or a girl …
I totally love the way he does this!
It’s amazing how he gets these super hotties drawn into his discussion and before you know he has pulled them away from their friends “to show them something cool” and snap, crackle and pop he’s playing tongue twister with them.
Okay …before you bombard the department stores with a fistful of cash screaming at the sales clerk for your very colorful “I LOVE ELMO” printed t-shirt …
I’m going to save you the time and tell you it wasn’t his shirt that got attraction, nor was it his Elmo conversation starter … It was his RISK- TAKING Mindset …
Mark is a very energetic “bloke” (Aussie way of saying guy) and he takes risks. This makes him fun to be around and women love fun n interesting guys!
Taking risks doesn’t always have to involve jumping off bridges, or base jumping from the rooftop of your work building (this actually was to be my unique method of quitting my job. I would hand in my resignation and take the lift to the rooftop and glide pass my desk and work colleagues on level 23)
I’m a melodramatic kind of guy as you can see …
So back to the story …the opposite of boring is exciting right?
So Mark takes risks by saying the most outrageous script he can get away with to a HOT woman.
And he gets away with it too!
Here’s a quick snippet from a phone conversation I overheard from a girl he met just the previous day at a shopping center:
“What color panties are you wearing”
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“haha …of course I’m serious ….Don’t make me repeat myself haha”
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“Niiiiice … I like that. Are they Cotton?”
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“Niiiiice …I’m a cotton guy, most my clothing is cotton”
“——-?”
“What color underwear am I wearing? Haha I’ve been freeballing since 2004 baby! Haha”
Unique conversations are interesting conversations.
He gets some pretty powerful reactions from women because NO GUY has BALLS to say this stuff to SUPER HOTTIES. It’s just not in their reality that guys will ask them this, and when they do guess what? There’s a chemical reaction explosion and women are compelled to get to know Mark even more …
Comprehendez?
And what if a girl reacts differently to the above? Then Mark shrug it off, say “NEXT!” and he calls his next girl on the list and says the exact same thing.
So go out and get some phone numbers and practice this, you may feel more comfortable practicing on some girls you’re not really interested in to start with and then work your way to the hottest.
You will be amazed at the results I promise!
I’ll talk to you again soon
Your friend,
Alex
http://www.alexcoulson.com
3 Mistakes That Men Make With Women
I’m about to share with you some of the biggest mistakes guys make when trying to meet women in everyday situations.
If you really want to become the guy who can walk into ANY coffee shop, book store or supermarket and walk out with 3 to 4 phone numbers or dates from hot women – then you’ve got to make sure you don’t commit these mistakes.
And yes, every guy makes these mistakes. (Yes, even you buddy!)
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MISTAKE #1: Failure To Approach
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The #1 reason why guys don’t approach women is because they think too much. Common thoughts are …
> “What if she rejects me in front of everyone?”
> “I don’t know WHAT to say”
> “She looks busy and probably doesn’t want to be disturbed”
> “A girl that hot definitely has a boyfriend”
These are disempowering thoughts, my friend.
And they’re stopping you from taking the first crucial step to meeting attractive women.
Do you want to eliminate this type of negative thinking?
You can. But you must first understand where these thoughts are coming from.
The answer is FEAR.
You’re afraid of rejection.
You’re afraid of embarrassing yourself in public.
You’re afraid of women thinking you’re a creep.
And whatever other negative thoughts your brain comes up with.
Now here’s the solution. The quickest way to reduce yourfears and negative thoughts is by DOING what you fear most.
I remember being terrified of heights. But then a friend talked me into bungee jumping and now I’m not scared at all.
So how do you get over your fear of approaching women?
You start by doing “warm up sets”.
You begin approaching random people in the street and asking them for directions.
After a few “approaches” you’ll soon realize how easy approaching women is. You’ll realize that most people didn’t reject you (and if they did, they were probably so polite, you didn’t care anyway).
After this experience, you’ll be far more likely to approach some HOT women.
Sound simple? That’s because it IS simple. But don’t be a fool and dismiss this technique without trying it first. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.
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MISTAKE #2: You Don’t Know WHAT To Say
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I’ve seen this happen again and again.
A guy works up the courage to approach a woman and start a conversation. She enjoys his company and things are going great.
But then, just minutes later, she walks off!
You ask him “what happened?” And he tells you”I ran out of things to say. She got bored and left.”
Now, was that the truth?
The answer is NO.
The truth is, every guy (including you) have VOLUMES of interesting stories and topics you can talk to women about. There is no need for you to run out of things to say.
I’ve noticed that guys who are successful with womenhave one trait that losers do not. They talk A LOT.
They keep women occupied with regular conversation while their brain thinks of banter lines, cocky comedyand attraction stories to tell her.
You can do the same. Start by opening a hottie yousee on the street or at the mall with an opinion opener.And while she’s giving you her opinion, relax and letyour brain think of cool things to say.
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MISTAKE #3: You Don’t State Your Intent!
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I don’t care what the gurus say …
At some point, a woman needs to know how you feel about her.
If you don’t tell her that you’re attracted to her, then she might put you in the dreaded “friends basket.”
Some of the smoothest pickup artists I’ve seen “in-action”will tell women how they feel about them within MINUTES.
And when you do this, you will generate attraction in womenreally, really FAST. Go ahead and try it. You’ll be blown away.
Now here are some examples of “going direct.”
HER: “…I spent the last 3 years living in Japan”
YOU: “You lived in Japan? That’s SO cool. I love a womanwho is adventurous and travels. I think it’s such a rare and attractive trait. Wow, you can be my new tour guide of Japan!”
HER: “He he, sure!”
So what you need to do is directly TELL her that you’reattracted to her (more than just her looks).
Your Friend,
Alex
Making Female Friends – This WILL Improve Your Game
Now here’s why this is important: The female perspective is such an overlooked, yet powerful thing.
Or will the “peacocking” outfit you’ve chosen to wear at the party of the year make you stand out and look cool – or make you look like you shop at the toilet store?My Favourite Conversation Starters For Meeting Women
How’s it going my friend?
Are you ready?
******************YOU: “Hey, can I ask you something?I’m making dinner for a group of friendstonight – all women – and I can’t decidebetween pasta or fish. What do women prefer?”
HER: “Pasta, women love pasta.”
YOU: “Ok great, now I just need a cook. What time are you free?”
HER: “Hahaha. Sorry, I can’t cook”
YOU: “Can’t cook? Really? Oh, my motherwarned me about women who can’t cook,I probably shouldn’t be talking to you”
HER: “Hahaha. Why not?”
YOU: “Excuse me, which coffee is better, a cappuccino or a latte?”
HER: “Cappuccino”
YOU: “Great. Then I’ll get a latte.”
HER: “What? Haha”
YOU: “Well, you know what they say about women who drink Cappuccino, don’t you?”
HER: “No, what?”
YOU: “I’ll tell you later. My name is Alex”
Well, there are several routes you can take. You could introduce yourself, ask what she’s doing now, and then go into normal conversation (if she’s not busy, why not suggest a walk in the park?)Or you could just relax, let your playful side come out and say whatever pops into your head. I’m serious. Relax and the words will come to you.
And it’s not because I’m funnier, more charismatic, or even better looking than you are.
Tips For Approach Anxiety – Rejection Anxiety Strategies
Today I want to talk about a simple and effective (yet somewhat DANGEROUS) technique that allows you to instantly approach beautiful women in everyday situations without fear or nervousness.
You’ve never heard about this ‘controversial’ technique before. How do I know? Because it’s my own creation, and I’ve never revealed it, until now.
But before I do, you need to understand WHY this technique works so well. Let me explain …
This technique is so effective because it utilizes one of the greatest psychological motivators there is.
“The Fear of Loss”
Here’s how it works: In life, just because you WANT something (like a hot girlfriend or a fancy car) doesn’t mean you’ll go out and get it, right?
Why not? Because most of the time our own FEARS hold us back.
So how do we overcome our FEARS and get what we want out of life?
The answer is: Make fear work for you and NOT against you. Wouldn’t that be nice for a change?
Here’s how: Let me explain a disturbing scenario.
If a mad-man kidnapped one of your family members, held a GUN to their head and said:
“If you don’t approach 3 beautifulwomen today, then I’m gonna SHOOT them!”
Would you do it? Of course you would!
You’d do it without hesitation, wouldn’t you?
And would you be SCARED of approaching women? I doubt it. You’d be SO focused on saving another person’s life that you wouldn’t even have time to feel “approach anxiety” right?
So the above gun-to-their-head story was an extreme example of how the “fear of loss” principal works. But it wasn’t real.
Now let me give you a REAL tried-and-testedmethod you can use to approach women without fear – using the “fear or loss” principal.
Here’s how it works: Invite a supportive friendto meet you in a place with lots of women around.(Like a shopping mall, grocery store, etc).
Then hand your friend $100 in five $20 bills.(if you cant afford $100, then use a smaller amount, like $50 in five $10 bills).
Say to your friend: “My goal for the next2 hours is to approach and talk to FIVE attractive women. Each time I approacha woman, you give me back $20 (or $10).
If I successfully approach five womenwithin the next two hours – then I getall of my money back, if I don’t, thenyou get to keep my money. Got it?”
RULES: If I approach a woman and she slaps me, pokes me in the eye, or kicks me in the balls – it doesn’t matter. My goal today is just to approach, nothing more.
And that my friend, is a fantastic way to get over your fears of approaching women.
Now go out there and do it!
Your Friend,
Alex
How To Be More Confident Around Hot Women
If you’ve ever tried approaching an attractive woman, then you know that most of your success with her depends on your self-confidence.
Women love guys will confidence and this is a well-known fact, however how easy is it to find this confident core that’s hiding inside you in slumber.
So what tips should you follow if you lack self-confidence around women? and want to feel more empowered when talking to very attractive women.
Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem around these high caliber women:
1) Learn to relax and be more laid back
Just before approaching an attractive woman, ease yourself into a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body language. Then visualize the conversation as it’s about to happen going smooth and well. Imagine yourself making her laugh and you walking away with either her phone number or HER … be as visual as you can as this will help you.
If you can remove all expectations or outcomes from the interaction with a woman then you’ll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won’t affect your life and visualize what the worst case scenario would be … her not responding? Her walking away? Realise that you can deal with this and then approach.
2) Start meditation and exercising
There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises (at home), you’ll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you’re trying to pick up women in the shopping mall, the street or your local café.
Of course I don’t mean when you see a hottie at the mall to whip out that yoga mat and start saluting the sun …of course not. However you will discover the benefits of how yoga can boost your confidence around women and in life generally.
So if you’re serious about building self confidence, then start using some of these confidence boosting tips.
3) Use your strengths
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the attractive qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you’re faced with a situation where you’re not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities.
I recall I use to do this every time I woke up in the morning. This helped me beyond doubt and boosted my overall confidence for that day. It has been said that we negativlky criticize ourselves roughly 10,000 times PER DAY… and only pump ourselves up positively around less than 1,000.
By mentally reviewing your strengths, you’ll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence around women.
4) Be positive most of the time
It’s widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women in their life.
So no matter what you’re feeling inside, ALWAYS try to have a positive outlook and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What’s funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you’ll eventually develop this personality trait!
I hope these confidence-boosting tips have come in handy for you and lets hope (for you sake) you’re prepared the next time you see that hottie at the supermarket!
Talk soon,
Alex Coulson
Getting In The Mood To Approach Women – Get Into State
I often find that even some of my closest friends still make excuses not to approach women and one excuse is “I’m not in the mood”.
So how exactly do you ‘get’ into the mood to approach women – Simple! Just follow some simple tips below as these will put you in the mood to approach those ladies in no time:
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Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#1
Go out with a friend and have a word for the night and the goal of the game is to say that word as many times in each interaction you have with a woman without her noticing it or pulling you up on it.
For example: My favorite word for the night is “ding dong” I’m usually out with my mate and I’ll be saying this word several times in sentences and make it flow. The girls have no idea why my mate is laughing uncontrollably but they’re intrigued.
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This is a very fun game to play – try it next time you’re out with a buddy.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#2
Watch a funny movie before heading out. I watch ‘there’s something about mary’ or ‘wedding crashers’ this really puts me in a light hearted mood. ‘Family guy’ is also a great pick. That way you start off the night on a good note and you may also have a few jokes up your sleeve.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#3
Smile; just smiling will put you in a good mood ready to approach women. It’s also a fact that men that smile more often tend to be more positive and do attract more women. Everyone is attracted to positive, smiling people and not just women! So even if you don’t feel like it turn that frown upside down and crack out your best Kodak moment smile.
Getting in the mood to approach women Tip#4
Have ONE (1) drink. You’re allowed to have a drink to feel the mood and start approaching women however ensure that you don’t rely on it always. When I head out every now and then I have a few beers as I enjoy it and it adds value to my night. I most certainly don’t need them to approach women. However if you’re still feeling the anxiety maybe a little Dutch courage will do the trick though just make it one (1) drink for starters.
I hope these tips on getting in the mood to approach women helped you.
Your friend,
Alex
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